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Last time we talk about how to make a relationship PASSIONATE and have a fvcking great sex life. Today, let’s talk about how to make such relationship filled with LOVE.

 

#0 Understand: Healthy relationship not just needs PASSION (filled with sexual polarity + unpredictability) , but it also needs EMOTIONAL CONNECTION (where you two feel stability & connection)

 

Thus you always need to balance these contradictory qualities in a relationship.

 

After you guys have engaged a passionate sexy relationship, you can tune down for a while for more deeper emotional connection. How?

 

#1 Be present and listen to her softly

 

Women want to feel seen and understood. So if she has something to share, gently look at her and attentively listen.

 

Most of the times she doesn’t need a solution to her “problem”, but she just needs you to LISTEN & UNDERSTAND her FEELINGS. Be that man she can relate.

 

#2 Give her space when she needs it

 

If you are overwhelming her with attention all day long, soon she will feels TOO MUCH from you.

 

So sometimes you have to actively create SPACE for her alone time (and yours!), that will recharge you both and come back for each other happily.

 

#3 Be AWARE of her moods

 

While you shouldn’t be AFFECTED by her chaotic emotions, you should be AWARE of where she is at at any given time.

 

So read her facial expression, body language, vocal tonality and really try to FEEL what she is FEELING.  

 

If you can do these above apart from fvcking her well, congrats you two for having the most thriving relationship possible 😀

If you want a passionate loving relationship, there’s one thing you must understand: Sexual Polarity／性愛極性

 

As we talked a lot in <The Way of Superior Man>, masculine and feminine energy are opposite charges that naturally attract to each other.

 

Everyone has both energies, but if you want a feminine woman to be attracted to you, you must predominately stay at your masculine core.

 

So if your relationship lacks PASSION, if you and your partner don’t feel the sexual attraction with each other and don’t want to fuck, that means you guys have DEPOLARIZE each other, making each other NEUTRAL like best friends.

 

So as a man, here 3 things you can do to rekindle a passionless sex life:

 

#1 Reconnect with your dark side of masculine energy where you want to kill and destroy

 

You have to cultivate that killer instinct, when your T level is high and you want to unleash that beast to kick ass.

 

So work out hard in the gym, learn how to fight imaging you are destroying your energy. Without aggressiveness／侵略性, you can’t be a true loving warrior-king who protects his family and country.

 

#2 Be fvcking sexual and see your woman as a sexual being

 

As I said before, relationships will turn into friendships if there aren’t any passionate sex happening (i.e. that’s why I said you always want to be sexually aroused and sexually connect with a woman before you go for a relationship)

 

Thus, awaken your sexual DESIRE on her. When she’s doing stuff, come from behind and physically lift her up, smack her ass when she walks by, bite on her neck etc.

 

#3 When you fvck, stop being so sweet and gentle but you DOMINATE HER and FVCK HER HARD like a raw animal!

 

Pin both of her arms down, push her arms against the wall and kiss her deeply, taste her like a “meat” you have just hunted and she will fvcking enjoy being submissive to you.

 

Q: How about a sexually charged relationship? What if you do wants to go deeper and understand each other? Next episode!

I know what you are thinking, you want to feel unique, you want to feel special like a 玻璃心 小雪花, you want to think certain RULES don’t apply to you.

But hey, there are certain attraction laws you just can’t ignore.

Here are a few:

We have talked about what to do before and during sex, but have you considered what to do AFTER sex to make the experience mind-blowing?

Here’s 5 simple ways you can do after sex to make sure she loves sleeping with you again 😀

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Everyone has their masculine & feminine energy, and each of these energies have their weakness/blind spots.

 

#1 Masculine energy is driven, directional, single-focused, strict.

 

It’s like a laser beam, it can penetrate things, but it can also burn things around.  E.g. a very driven successful businessman who makes a lot of money, but he completely neglect his wife and children

 

So masculine weakness = too caught up in DOING/ACHIEVING but isn’t living life fully, they aren’t experiencing enjoyment

 

#2 Feminine Energy is flexible, creative, nuturing, flowing.

 

It’s like a hurricane power, if it is not guided, it can be destructive and turn things into chaos and suffering.

 

Thus, while masculine energy cherish time to get shit done, feminine enjoy being in the moment without much directionality.

 

#3 If your core is masculine, you feel alive when ppl challenge you to accomplish a goal. But if your core is feminine, you feel alive when you relax and enjoy yourself.

 

The point is: Neither energy is more right/valuable than the other. We need both in ourselves (80/20) while staying in our CORE and attracting a partner in THEIR CORE.

 

100% masculine male can be a ruthless dictator, 100% feminine can be someone who indulge in pleasure lalaland.

Be aware of where your energy is, and be aware of why you attract the partner you have today, because sexual attraction is very much about this energy play between you two.

To grow from a boy psychology to man psychology, you need to understand the difference between them.

Below are 3 ways on how you can grow the fvck up and become a man in your thoughts and actions!

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Is your relationship with your gf/wife less passionate?

Is she less willing to initiate sex with you and fuck you?

Do you feel that she becomes emotionally close recently?

These may be warning signs that the sexual dynamics is changing.

Below are a few ways you can open her heart & legs with your masculinity.

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Whether you are a man or woman, have you heard of these phrases “Men are liars, men are so stupid, men only want sex?”

 

Here are 3 common myths women have about men, and if you don’t get rid of them, you will never be aware of men’s struggles in his cultural conditioning and see his pain, and he will never feel you understand him.

 

And for men, if you find that these 3 myths resonate with you, leave a comment below and let me know.

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A lot of guys, even if they are in a relationship, don’t know the proper way to turn a girl into his girlfriend.

 

#1 Many times, No.1 mistake a guy make is to LOGICALLY CONVINCE a girl who may not anything serious or just wants a casual relationship, to have a proper serious bf/gf relationship with him.

 

Rule #1 Never bring up that you want a relationship with her because you are giving away ALL the power.

 

The girl can do whatever she wants, and you become her little bitch.

 

#2 The game is always the same: You and the girl are sexually aroused by each other, have some connection and comfort, then you two sleep with each other multiple times.

 

Then you continue sleeping with her, showing her that you like her as a person, you like hanging out with her,

 

but WITHOUT saying the words “I love you”or trying to confirm your bf/gf relationship status.

 

#3 Slowly increase the frequency you two are seeing each other.

 

See her 1-2 times a week are good, but NOT 3 times/week MAX.

 

Too much attention at this stage is still not suitable, you still need to give her SPACE, breathe alone and WONDER about you!

 

#4 If you follow these steps correctly, girls will almost 100% ask you

“What are we? Where is this going? What am I to you? What is this relationship?”

 

She wants to hear if she is your girlfriend, let her lead this conversation on her own pace,

 

and now you can decide if you want that based on her past behaviors (e.g. sex, personality, lifestyle, goals etc.)

 

#5 NEVER push for a relationship until you get SEX with her.

 

Don’t buy into the excuse that “I need a relationship first before I have a sex with a guy.”

 

If you hear that from a girl, it only means you are doing sth wrong in the seduction process and she isn’t feeling aroused by you and want to fuck you!

One of the biggest mistake men make during conversation is acting like a stupid clown.

You may think “Let me do this to keep her entertained!

Let me brag about my success and status so that she knows I am the deal!

Let me keep joking around so that she laughs continously!”

 

But reality is, this is the quickest way to lose a woman. Why?

 

That’s what we’re gonna discuss today.

 

(Plus some goodies about HOW to be a great conversationalist with women as a MAN)

 

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