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Welcome to another episode of weekly 溝女Q&A. As you know I only started doing this recently because I want to help as many bros as possible.
However, if you want more detailed, comprehensive, 1-2-1 interaction with me, you should consider joining our Insider family because you will get all the dating/sex/relationship management training inside, AND ability to interact with me live in our coaching calls and secret FB group.
Q1 hi,阿man,我今日同條女第一次單獨食飯，食到大約8點，我話去食糖水，條女話之後約左其他朋友，咁我就馬上埋單各自散，佢話約左朋友是否好明顯拒絕信號，second date是否冇機會 – Mr. Chan
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STOP doing dinner dates as your first date. Dinner/Movies are the worst ones because you’re spending too much time eating like friends and it doesn’t have the sexy feeling.
First date must be quick and short, < 1 hr, you want to qualify the girl to make sure she meets your standards, so try a coffee date instead.
Girls don’t give a fvck about what you do, how much money you have, or how many countries you have travelled to. She cares HOW you make her feel when you’re there. She cares if you can arouse her and feel sexy to fvck.
Two, she’s being a bitch, blocking you. That behavior already says she is avoiding you, maybe because of your creepy beta attitude. Why the fuck are you smiling and saying hi to her? Why are you giving her attention to talk? And even tell me you want to play with her?
Fuck that bitch attitude. You fucked up before. She isn’t interested now. Cut ALL your communication. Ignore her. Move the fuck on.
Marco, you are so young so naive, but that’s okay, we all have been stupid. Here are the facts and mistakes you’ve made:
#1 This girl isn’t interested in you at all, that’s why she gets another 2 beta dicks with you so she has 3 losers give her free attention.
#2 Is your 20+ friend on9? Tell you to call her 2 times a day for 2 weeks? He is on 9 and you are on 9 believing what he says. You’re like harrassing the girl, no wonder she ignores you.
#3 Sorry for what? Stop apologizing about your actions to women. She is being a dickhead, so FUCK THAT BITCH, IGNORE HER FOREVER, and move on.
This is not about giving up the girl, this is about NOT giving up your self-respect that is making you so beta, emotionally weak and acting so needy.
Go immerse yourself in 10 MTFU’s videos/day to brainwash yourself away from the beta mindset. You’ll learn so much from these free content in such a young age that I didn’t have.
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Anyway, if other bros want to ask Qs, make sure they are in 50-100 words when you send email support@manthefvckup.com to us.
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Bro, what do you think is the most effective weapon to attract girls? Is it money, status, looks, muscles, fun emotions, great connections, successful career or how good your sex game is?
Another Q: When you don’t like a girl’s certain behaviors, do you argue with her? Persuade her to change? Or care about her feelings, fulfill her needs and then hope then she will listen to what you want?
Well, the answer to all these Qs is that:
One of the most powerful tools to attract/keep girls is actually using the girl’s own imagination.
#1 What I mean is that: Most beta guys love to TELL everything about themselves to girls, wanting her to know ALL of his stories/wounds/strengths and flaws, and think that women will appreciate his TRUTH about his life and “will love him for who he is”.
Sorry bro, apart from your mum, no women on the planet want to know 100% of you. Why?
It’s because women want to figure out a man by themselves, by their own imagination, by her intuition and by her feelings about you.
#2 When you tell her everything about you, you are taking away her ENJOYMENT of “discovering a man” and she will dump you and find other men who are more like a mysterious puzzle to solve.
Women care about the CONTEXT (上文下理／背景) of the communication, they care about HOW you talk about things, they care about what is NOT being said, they care about the underlying meaning and the subcommunication.
So women don’t really pay attention to the CONTENT of what you say, they don’t really care about “the literal meaning” because they’re feeling the deeper parts of the communication.
#3 You may now ask: But isn’t being honest is an attractive trait to women? Why do they always ask me to TALK TO THEM?
Rmb: Vulnerability is only attractive ONLY IF you use it rarely, like <5% of the time.
95% of the time you must be strong-minded, hard-to-kill, firm with your boundaries, confident, self-loving and not like a cute teddy bear.
If you start out as an Alpha like that, and only “become vulnerable” and share feelings AFTER she has earned it (e.g. had sex, obey to you). Otherwise, telling women everything about yourself is UNATTRACTIVE and you’re doomed.
#4 So back to our main point: If you now know that women’s imagination is your best weapon to get her, how would you approach dating?
E.g. Don’t “tell” her how Alpha you are, but BEHAVE in certain manners/ attitudes so that she concludes herself that you are the guy she wants to fvck.
E.g. Don’t “tell” her you have many girls options, but BEHAVE in such a way that you’re always busy going out for coffees, having interesting pics with girls without face in IG, or acting so casual in dates or after sex.
E.g. Don’t argue with her about certain points that you disagree with, JUST withdraw your attention as a punishment so that she KNOWS you don’t like it.
#5 So yes, you don’t need magnificent words to persuade women about your attractiveness.
All you need is to communicate your message via your BEHAVIORS, and let her imagination runs wild and conclude why she must want you by herself.
We teach a lot of details in our Insider family.
If you wanna learn more on how to do so, email us support@manthefvckup.com and let us know that you want to join.
Best solution is always AVOID them at the first place, but what if sometimes we can’t? E.g. travelling, in bad marriage, at work.
Below are ways how to take care yourself.
#1 Don’t rush to categorize them into boxes.
Use the checklist to see where he/she fits, and see what measures best fit the situation. If life is being threatened (e.g. gunman) , don’t delay and RUN!
#2 If you can’t just leave, find help.
E.g. abusive spouse/boss, you may need a longer time to leave -> see if you can transfer/work in different shift or department. Talk to HR/management team, build supportive alliance, and prepare to quit
If it’s bad marriage/parents -> you might need mental health professionals to step in and guide you, or social services or police to intervene.
#3 將行為歸類建立檔案，儲證據，有備無患
Sometimes, you can change sb’s behaviors by writing down their words & actions. But even if you can’t, by writing down what they do by date & time, you are building evidence and a case that can be useful in future actions. So a written journal is better than your memory in case you need any court actions.
#4 尋求外界支持，告訴別人你的處境
You want people supporting you and validating your experience, or even step in and help you one day. Never do this alone.
#5 Be careful those who limit your physical freedom
Whether it’s a relationship/group/organization/cult, when sb tries to isolate you from family/friends/co-workers/ppl you trust, that’s red flag because dangerous ppl use isolation to control you.
***Always avoid getting into vehicles with strangers! Once you’re there, your potential for danger increase dramatically. Joe advises us that even if the person has a knife or gun, AVOID GETTING IN!!!
Force yourself out – screaming, kicking, biting, scratching by any means !!!
#6 設定界限，不容越界！
You get what you tolerate with. When you don’t enforce your boundaries, people often step into it. So set up these lines that can NEVER be crossed, once it is crossed, take action to enforce the consequence.
#7 避免事事配合，陷入被操控的處境。
E.g. Don’t allow people who are late and make you wait, don’t change your schedule for them, don’t accommodate to their needs, don’t reward bad behaviors.
Even if you love the person, healthy love is those with healthy boundaries where the other person RESPECTS you. So don’t let people’s bad behaviors get away with special treatments.
#8 讓孩子得到正面的傾訴渠道
If you have kids OR younger bros/sisters, you have responsibility to protect these innocent children and give them opportunities to be away from dangerous homes or places. Help them understand that any ABUSE (physical or psychological) is NOT normal or acceptable.
#9 In conclusion, 遭遇危險(financial/emotional/psychological/physical)，立即果斷採取行動！Distance yourself immediately or leave the relationship ASAP.
Stragtegies: – Listen to your body/gut/mind that tells you to get away – It may be safer NOT to talk/confront the dangerous person directly. So think about your exit strategy on how you can leave/exit safely. – Don’t face it alone. Use your network of trustworthy family/friends for help
– Get professional help! Support groups/police/social service/help lines are established for such purpose! Don’t be shy! – Prepare financially for the escape – Whenever you need to do a BUSINESS DEAL, ask a lot of Qs, delay decision making, ask more qualified professionals to assess a situation
– When you realize nothing can be done for the person whom you suffer, it’s time to let go and save your well being!! – It may NOT be your fault, don’t blame yourself, it’s NOT a time to act like a victim and do nothing – Joe reinteracted that dangerous personalities RARELY get better, it’s a hopeless situation so maintain your distance.
#10 That’s ALL from this book! We have an obligation to ourselves and others to be safe, so help yourself first.
Treating others with dignity and respect is crucial, but that doesn’t mean you have social obligation to allow others to abuse/torment/victimize us.
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As humans, we have strong abilities to adapt. But we will die like frogs in hot water if we adapt to people with dangerous personalities.
So when you’re suspicious with certain people after going through this series, it is up to you to be vigilant, to assess threats and dangers, and take necessary actions to save your life.
Recommended books to read:
Reid Meloy’s classic, Violence Risk and Threat Assessment;
Fatal Flaws by Stuart Yudofsky, MD;
The Criminal Personality by SamuelYochelson and Stanton E. Samenow; Without Conscience by Robert Hare;
The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker;
#1 What to do?
Don’t think you can TALK to them to change them, OR give them another chance…because they DON’T think they have any problems. Even if they say they will seek help, they won’t.
Rmb, they have character flaws, they can’t self-reflect, they don’t think they need to change, so even professionals cannot guarantee to help them.
E.g. Narcissists-> lash out because your advice negate their perfect self-image Emotionally Unstable -> lash out because that’s their nature Paranoid -> further confirm you are enemy, distrust you Predatotr -> can’t see fault, may become violent
#2 How to protect yourself daily?
1) Use the checklist in this book to ASSESS the individuals you are concerned with, remind yourself what people to avoid and WHY they behave such ways
2) 別純粹望，別視而不見，要小心觀察！
E.g. stop bury yourself into dumb phones when walking, don’t block your ears by headphones, because predators ALWAYS look for easy unaware targets to hurt, exploit or kill!
3) 相信直覺，感受呢個人俾咩感覺你？ Our body has internal alarm system that warns us from dangers, but you must pay attention to it. So be aware of how you FEEL and what impression a person gives you.
Does your 胃部緊縮，頭髮直豎，皮膚泛紅，反胃焦慮，隱隱覺得不對？These physiological fears might be warning you against this dangerous person.
4) Nice people does NOT mean good person 討喜不等於善良
Doing nice things for you e.g. help you carry stuff, making fun with kids, being pleasant to neighbors … does NOT mean they have good hearts, they may be evil behind the doors.
Nice actions can be faked to gain personal advantage. But goodness comes from heart and is part of the person’s nature, goodness is about one’s character and intentions. So know the difference.
5) Control space and distance as barriers E.g. walls, fences, gates, doors, car windows, personal distance when you use ATM or car, personal space when arguing
6) Control time – slow things down
Dangerous personalities usually want you to act quickly – get married, sign contract, write check, let them enter your house, adopt their beliefs…
Stop that, slow things down, create time buffers to THINK and ACT WITHOUT PRESSURE. Often when you feel you’re being rushed, sth is wrong.
7) 小心那些操控玩弄你情緒嘅人，because dangerous personalities are skillful social 扯線公仔 who say/do things to control you
E.g. threat you to commit suicide if you don’t do XYZ. When you feel that your emotions is being manipulated by that person, be careful.
8) 評估其『危險人格』的嚴重性與頻率。
You need to assess where the person falls into the spectrum. Sometimes ppl may display 1-2 behaviors that might alert you once for a while, but if those behaviors happens repeatedly and increasing over time, be careful as they may be affecting you emotionally and physically.
9) Pay attention to time & location whenever you do stuff Violence increase from 8pm-2am, especially when alcohol and drugs are involved. So when you do a low-risk normal thing e.g. buy from 7-11, it might become a high risk thing if your street is dark, quiet, late at night.
10) Pay attention to how you walk, don’t act like a victim Predators pick weak passive inattentive targets by how they walk.
So when you’re out, pay attention and observe the people. Don’t use phone, keep your hands free, face traffic, avoid alleys, avoid places where sb can hide.
11) 先查證，後信任
You should spend more time to VERIFY those who you’re dating/marrying. Check if her personal info is accurate, see if she really works where she mentions, see if she has married before, see if she is a criminal etc. Otherwise, you won’t know if she is really trustworthy or not.
12) Don’t wait too long, act immediately if you sense sth is strange
Facing dangerous people, you don’t have much time to act. If you don’t know what to do, distance yourself asap.
Knowledge without application is USELESS to get girls. The whole process of real learning is to study, apply, learn from mistakes, keep adjusting.
Unless you are using these weapons on women, you are NOT even in the game.
#2 Find a type of “game” that fits your lifestyle
We all have different schedules, preferences, and strengths/weakness. So you should design your “meeting girls” habit according to what’s best for you.
If you look good on pics/paper, do online. If you are rich, have social status in certain environments, mingle in bars or clubs. If you have a lot of time, travel a lot, like talking to strangers, you can do cold approaches wherever you go.
Your goal is to be able to talk to at least 1 potential girl a day in whatever means. Only then you can start to game girls.
#3 If you must cold approach, make it as casual as possible like a side thing you do when you’re going through your day.
Personally, I don’t like going out in malls/streets JUST to approach a ton of girls and get as much as # to run game later.
BUT, if you happen to be in a gym, buying food in CItySuper, reading books in a bookstore, doing work in coffee shop, drinking with friends at a bar, exercising in a park, waiting a line in whatever places (because you’re doing stuff you’re already planned and you happen to SEE a cute girl),
then it’s perfectly good to spend 30 seconds to approach her and see if she is open to talk to.
Again, if you’re talking to only 1 new girl a day, you will have almost 100 new experiences in 3 months. Such simple daily exercise will help you gain so much experience than most guys in 3 years.
#4 Seriously, get a mentor.
Yes, I am biased to say this. But honestly, it’s super HARD for most guys to become great with women just by his own.
Even if he has many gfs in the past, he may still be operating with a Beta mindset and doesn’t know why he FAILED.
We all need mentors to help us see our blind spots. Whatever new skills I want to learn nowadays, I always pay to learn as intimately/quickly as possible so that I can save time and many mistakes.
So whether you choose me or other guys who talk about game, if you cherish your own time, pay them so that they can 10x your speed to success.
If you recognize the value of mentorship and you like what you’ve been learning alone here in MTFU, I welcome you to consider joining our MTFU Insider brotherhood, where we provide ALL the trainings, coaching and accountability to help you succeed in dating/sex/relationship life.
Let’s be honest: You can’t just fvck 9-10/10 dream hot girls if you’re inexperienced. At the beginning, you aren’t aware of what mistakes you’re making so you need TIME & EXPERIENCE before you can win the boss game.
So you need to build SMALL WINS by gaming girls who are just average-looking (but not ugly) ones who are maybe 5-6/10, then slowly level up as you gain experience.
Of course don’t fuck ugly fat chicks who are a 0. But aim for those you feel neutral but acceptable-enough to have a ONS. Gain small successes so that you can have huge successes later on.
So these are the top 5 suggestions for all newbie guys who are studying sexual dynamics and maybe with less than 10 lay counts.
Do you still have any challenges you’re facing you don’t know how to face? Like and comment below and let me know so I can create better content for you in future.
Not sure if you notice, I have not done 溝女Q&A series for almost 7 months because I was so busy in helping my private clients and students in MTFU Insider.
We had a lot of fun in our trainings, our coaching calls and FB interactions. And I love to see how they are crushing in their love life and professional life.
So if you want such 360 degrees support and live interaction with me, you should join our elite Insider family.
Anyway, I’ve decided to do some charity work and answer a few short easy Qs or 1 quality Q per week – whether I got it in YT, IG or emails.
These answer I give you will NOT be as detailed/intimate/comprehensive as those I do for Insiders. But if you like this kind help, LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to support MTFU.
If you want to send Qs to me, make them as SHORT as possible (50-100 words) for me to read.
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Hi Man神, 我叫HY, 最近係Youtube發現你既channel,覺得你既哲學好岩,溝女的確係一門學問,而且需要技巧.
Man神, 有咩方法可以同佢係whatsapp有多d交流? 我有唸過搞一大班人行山/踩單車,順便邀請個女仔 甘又得唔得呢? 同埋最重要既係, 我自身方面可以有咩進步? Thank you so much!! － HY
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＃1 You spend too much whatsapp time on talking useless shit. These rapport based chit chat won’t get you laid.
Always aim for progression in every contact you have with girls. In this case, after getting her laugh or positive response 1-2 times, get her to a quick coffee date.
#2 Your improvement in dating is to drastically MEET MORE GIRLS. I bet you don’t meet girls regularly. So you must increase the volume, whether via online, day/night game, or meeting girls via social activities you enjoy.
Until you do that, you will always operate in scarcity mindset like now, and fixating on one girl trying to get her only. No, you need a lot more experience with girls before you know what to choose and look for, even if you want a relationship.
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HI MAN神. 有樣野想請教你,我想拎個新女同事電話. 因為我地24號就上完TRAINING,之後就去不同地方工作,無乜機會見番面.所以打算黎緊就行動. TRAINING果陣我坐佢附近,哩段時間都有同佢交流下上堂既內客.休息果陣都幾個同事圍內吹下水甘.
我想問點樣拎佢contact先唔會覺得唐突? 我留意到佢有抄notes既習慣, 我打算問佢借notes著手.例如借黎番去抄? 聽日還比你,留個whatsapp? 睇唔明可以問下你. 定係貼張有whatsapp紙仔入佢本notes等佢加好呢? 謝謝man神指教 – Alex H
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#1 I don’t recommend gaming female colleagues, it’s a mess and anything that happens between you 2 can fuck up your career.
#2 Assuming you have another chance to meet girls in some events in future, don’t act what you did. Right now, you’re obviously shameful with your sexual intent on her, that’s why you feel the need to “secretly get her #” super indirectly and “slowly attract her”. But that’s like a beta pussy who is scared to fuck girls.
So if you intend to get girls’ #, you should first spark attraction by playfully teasing her/challenging her and build some tension. If she responds positively/negatively, good, you’re doing it right. Then have minimal chit chat to “know who she is” to see if there’s qualities you like about her.
#3 If yes, compliment on that and then say well “I like how open-minded you are, most people are like sheeps, too group-thinking. Anyway, we should grab a coffee sometime and chat more. You use whatsapp?”
Mostly she says yes, and then you say “Great, what’s the number?” Then you type her phone in. OR you can do it other ways.
These mechanics of how to do is NOT that important, the point is you should always aim for progression when you give her attention. Otherwise, you’re getting friendzoned.
Qs: What are the REAL REASONS 許志安 cheat? Is 黃心穎 a total slut? What will happen to Sammi? How about the poor little boy 馬國明？
Well brother, these are ALL irrelevant Qs you shouldn’t ask yourself. As you will see, almost 99% of articles/videos will be based on ENTERTAINMENT that adds zero value to your life.
It’s about making you feel emotional, adding drama to the mess so that there are more views. Afterall, that’s what news/media do.
Therefore, in this video breakdown, we will NOT focus on the gossip.We will NOT stand on the moral high ground to judge what’s right or wrong.
My intention of using this material is to ADD VALUE TO YOUR LIFE as a man. I want you to take this as 學術研究 to see the TRUTH about sexual dynamics between men and women, to understand the difference between sexual desire and love, and OBSERVE your initial reaction towards this incident.
Because YOUR NATURAL REACTION already reflects whether you’re BETA or ALPHA lens to see the world.
Now, we will breakdonw into a few sections in this video: #1 What you can learn from 許志安 as an extreme BETA #2 How you should choose women – NOT Sammi, NOT 黃心穎 #3 The only thing 馬國明 should do #4 Other BETAs you should avoid becoming – taxi driver, the staff in Apple, those who attack 許志安 in front of girlfriends.
#1 What you can learn from 許志安 as an extreme BETA
1) He got oneitis 真命天女症.
Beta believes in romantic ideals. He tries to find his one soulmate. And then he justifies his clinginess by saying he “loves her so much”.
-> Therefore you can see 許志安 always come back to Sammi after breakups in the past 30 years. Because when he was ~20 years old, he already thought Sammi was the one. That’s a classic idealizing love behavior.
2) Beta always WANTS to be hero, he wants to save a girl from her problems, he wants to treat her nice and takes responsibility of HER emotions/problems.
-> That’s why my guess is another reason why 許志安 stays with a woman who is KNOWN for her crazy ups and downs personality (like Lady Gaga, Britney Spears, Madonna). He genuinely wants to fix Sammi’s emotional drama. He fails, but since he believes “committing” is what good man does, he continues living in such shitty relationship.
Now, let’s look deeper in the 記者會.
3) He keeps apologizing to everyone, to Sammi, to his fans etc. “犯這個錯誤起了色心，我覺得現在應該承擔後果。”
This implies he is SHAMEFUL towards his natural sexual desire for hot woman. Not only that but he is also apologizing being a MAN who likes to fuck.
“我覺得自己好錯、好討厭、好丟臉、好噁心、好陌生。”
He is ugly NOT because he cheats, every Alpha leader is history had multiple women at the same time until 100 years ago. He is UGLY because he is so weak/powerless that he needs to apologise to his REAL DESIRE as a MAN and he doesn’t have the BALLS to step up to OWN AND CLAIM his manhood.
4) “因為我自己做了一件不被原諒的事。” What does this imply? This is saying in the past 30 years, Sammi ALWAYS had the dominant frame in the relationship.
But since he is a nice guy, he TOLERATES that shit and keeps going back to Sammi until Sammi is good enough but choose him. At home, Sammi is the boss so 許志安 is always being emasculated. After years of marriage like that, there’s no way BETA won’t need a break and cheat for some younger, hotter girls.
5) “我最錯的地方是失去我自己。” “我這一刻是沒了靈魂的，我是一個壞掉的人。”
“我會暫停我所有工作，直到找到一個真正的自己，重新去檢視自己”
He emphasises so much on being BAD person, he loses his “real self” as being a good guy, being a morally upright dude in society.
That’s what BETA do. Beta always use the “I am a good devoted bf/ husband/ citizen” in society as a CARD to attract girls. But in reality, they are just pussies who keeps hiding away from the REAL ASPECTS of themselves – the ones that are deemed “bad” by society/religion/culture. They keep living in SHAME and that’s why betas have fucked up psychology.
Now let’s briefly mention the other parties in this incident.
#1 As I have mentioned, Sammi is known for her ups and downs emotional personality. But betas love to act like Prince to save girls’ from her shit, to take responsibility of OTHERS shit, that’s why 許志安’s mistake from day 1 is to use “i will save girls” strategy to get girls, attracted sb he shouldn’t have touched, AND kept fixing a problem he can never fix.
I am not saying Sammi is a bad person, but I am saying when it comes to choosing what kind of women you want to put next to your side, you must be RUTHLESS like you’re having a billion dollar business deal.
#2 How about 黃心穎? Before I analyze about her, I want you to notice how SOCIETY is going to slut shame her as chicken, especially women.
Why? Because that’s a psychological battle played between female species. Even a woman herself loves sex and sucks dick, she IS going to slut shame other women who are competitors. This is to ensure that the best gene goes to her instead of the other girl.
As regards choosing women, 許志安 probably isn’t the first guy she wants to hook up with. She probably has been fvcking other guys behind 馬國明, who is another extreme beta.
However, even if her reputation is tarnished, many betas will still want to be her bf or even marry her. So the best strategy to handle these girls if you meet one? Just fvck her but never be serious.
#3 Now, what should 馬國明 do? Well, he is a famous nice good guy who always seem to be ignorant of what’s happening and willing to get his balls cut.
If he’s NOT ruthlessly dumping a cheater IMMEDIATELY, you will know why 馬國明 deserves to be cheated again and again.
Finally, I want you to see the BIGGER PICTURE about the whole incident.
#1 The real reason why the taxi driver reports to Apple is probably NOT JUST about money, even though he may get a few thousands or more for this juicy story.
The real reason he does that is probably because: He is JEALOUS that 許志安 is going to fuck a hot girl he can never FUCK.
This taxi driver probably has a tiger wife at home, nagging him all day and all he can do is to cheat in mainland.
But seeing a celebrity can get better pussies? He is pissed, so he is going to DESTROY 許志安 secretly to feel better about himself.
No matter how he justifies that – feeling unjust for Sammi, hating pretty girls like 黃心穎 who never will fuck him, want to help 馬國明 know the truth – becoming a justice warrior and ATTACKING powerful beta is the only way they can do to pull down a higher status beta.
2) How about the staff in Apple Daily?
As I said, the media only cares about profiting your EYEBALLS. They are not to help Sammi or 馬國明, they are not to destroy 許志安 黃心穎, they will just find creative ways every day to get your ATTENTION and earn profit from it.
If you want to know what the news is about, just read Ryan Holiday’s <Trust me, I am not lying>.
3) The last point of today is that: I want you to OBSERVE your initial reaction towards this incident.
Did you leave a comment to 網絡公審 許志安? Did you HATE women like 黃心穎 because they are so sexual BUT they are not sexual towards you?
Did you feel sympathy for Sammi immediately EVEN THOUGH you have no idea who is suffering in that 30-year relationship? Did you laugh about 馬國明 because he is such a naive dork who always get taken advantage of?
Most importantly, when you talk about this with other women (gf/wife) in public, are you trying to shame 許志安 like most people are doing now?
If you do, you need to be careful. This is a strong signal that you too are operating in BETA MODE, trying to stand on the side of women and trying to portray a “I am good morally upright guy” image to attract girls.
This video is NOT for you to 食花生，this video is helping you to SEE whether you actually is just another less powerful, less famous, less affluent 許志安 – who is doing similar things with a similar beta mindset in regards to sex and relationships.
Cheating in relationships is NEVER the real problem, the real problem is always CHEATING YOURSELF and not facing what you truly want in life, and then settle in mediocre relationships, UNTIL that doesn’t work and EXPLODE one day that harms everyone.
What would you do if you were ruthlessly honest about your sexual desire?
What would you do if you knew that sexual desire and love are 2 different biological things that most people are confused?
What if you never have to apologize for being a man who gets what he wants in life without worrying about ppl’s opinions?
What if you STOP buying into the lies of Hollywood/DIsney romantic love and see the truth about male-female sexual dynamics?
I share much more details on how to achieve that life in MTFU Insider, if you’re interested, send an email to support@manthefvckup.com and let us know.
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Bro, not sure if you’ve experienced this, but have you wondered why women can “get over you or any breakups” after a few years of relationship and so quickly get another new guy?
Are you curious why a loving stable relationship seems to mean nothing to women when you break up AND she seems to have moved on so quickly?
Or do you find it hard to understand why some girls often return to their asshole abusive BF, but you know YOU are a much better man?
#1 Well, this strange phenomenon is actually necessary for women to survive. It’s a mechanism designed by evolution.
If you had studied our 7-day free course, you understand how harsh realities were before agriculture:
Humans living 200,000 -2M years ago were hunters gatherers. Men always left their tribes to find food, fight wars, search for resources;
Women almost stayed in the tribe with others to take care of children and chit chat.
#2 Men almost always died unexpectedly because of external factors such as animal attacks, doing dangerous work or fighting in wars.
And when they lose, superior conquerors will kill the weaker men and preserved women for sex.
In such circumstances, it is important for women to evolve to better deal with psychological trauma, to have greater ability to accept emotional loss, to dissociate herself from past pain and move on quicker, in order to increase their odds of survival in face of the new situation.
#3 If you get this, you know know why women can be quickly forget about your 5-year loving relationship and start a new one with another guy in 2 weeks.
OR they start to empathize the “enemy” who destroyed her former bf/husband.
It’s because they have better abilities to cut off emotional ties from former lovers and focus on “getting what she can best get from a man” RIGHT NOW.
Don’t hate women for being so ruthless and 唯我主義. Don’t hate them for being incongruent with their words.
It’s just how evolution helps them deal with the anxiety, guilt and stresses for almost 2 million of years.
Bro, you probably know that men should always lead women in any sexual relationships, but are there any situations where you should NOT lead, and let women be proactive?
The answer is YES and it is related to how you inspire girls to become your girlfriend.
#1 The first situation where let girls LEAD is when you want an exclusive/獨家佔有 relationship with a girl.
Most men fail to convert sexual partners into GFs because they want a bf/gf relationship MORE than the girls want it.
Thus, everytime they 表白/confess love/propose marriage, they have already LOST even if the girl says YES because at this critical moment, this man sets up a girl-approve-boy loser frame.
Why this is 100% fail situation? Because if she says yes, you are falling for her frame and it’s HER who decides to be more intimate than you, she is still the BOSS.
If she says no, you become a beta who needs to continue to “prove your worth”, do more stupid romantic shit even when she rejects you, hoping that one day she will “let you become her bf/finance/husband”.
#2 Understand: On the surface you’re leading. But the truth is you are actually pleading/begging/hoping that she can APPROVE you.
So if you truly want an exclusive bf/gf relationship, you MUST let her PERSUADE you into it, let her ASK for it so that you have the relationship upper power.
If you two are having sex multiple times, if you two are hanging out doing activities 1-2 times a week,
I guarantee you that after 1-2 months, girls who really like you AND ARE looking for a relationship WILL ask you “where we are going.”
So by NOT being the one who initiates the “relationship talk”, by NOT agreeing to be together immediately, by taking TIME and letting her continue to PROVE HER WORTH to gain this exclusive access to you,
you are acting like “being pursued” guy who has the power to say yes or no.
Don’t fvck this sequence one otherwise you will become another beta bitch she doesn’t respect!
#3 Another mistake is that you should NEVER say “I love you” before she does.
Girls must be the FIRST one to say this. Because just like the first point, when she “feels that it’s the right timing”, she will WANT to say it for you.
Do NOT do it first because if she is NOT emotionally ready, saying “i love you” is useless and is ONLY going to destroy your Alpha attraction she wants.
These are the little ways on how to get her to keep pursuing you for more, keep being attracted to you, and keep “loving you” as a devoted GF.
If you want to learn more on other advanced topics or need more personal help from me, send us an email to support@manthefvckup.com to ask about our Insider Community or book a coaching call with me.
Otherwise, use these tools and secure a woman who truly wants and loves you.
