標籤: FBI教你認出危險人物

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dangerous, deceptive, dehumanizing, dejected, delusional, demanding, demeaning, denigrating, depressed, depressive, desperate, despondent, destructive, disconnected, disillusioned, disorganized, disquieting, distant, diva, draining, dramatic, dysfunctional, emotional, empty, envious, erratic, exasperating, exciting, exhausting, explosive, fearful, flirt, flirtatious, freaky, frightening, frustrated, frustrating, histrionic, horrendous, horrible, hysterical,

imbalanced, impossible, impulsive, inappropriate, incomplete, inconsistent,incredible, instability, intense, intricate, irrational, irresponsible, irritable, irritating, lascivious, lecherous, lethal, liar, lies, lively, loca, loco, lustful, malevolent, malignant, masochistic, mean, mercurial, miserable, moody, morbid, nasty, negativistic, neglectful, neurotic, nuts, nutty, nymphomaniac,

odd, painful, perplexing, pitiful, prick, problematic, psycho, queen, rage, relentless, resentful, risky, sadistic, salacious, sarcastic, scary, schemer, seductive, seductress, seesaw, seething, sexual, sexy, short-fused, sick, sickening, special, stalker, storm, suffocating, suicidal,

tantrums, temperamental, tempestuous, tense, threatening, tiresome, tormented, tormentor, torn, tornado, trainwreck, tumultuous, turbulent, unappreciative, unbridled, uncaring, undependable, unforgiving, ungrateful, unhappy, unhinged, unpredictable, unreasonable, unreliable, unstable, untrusting, unyielding, vengeful, victim, vindictive, violent, vixen, volatile, weird, whirlwind, wicked.

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Since Narcissists 自我過度膨脹, they think that outside things BELONG TO them and will get it at YOUR expense. (e.g. women, work accomplishments)

They are not just 展現佔有慾，sometimes they may become violent (grab your arms, block the door entrance, push you to wall) to threaten you.

Bro, DO NOT believe that “they aren’t so bad most times” or “won’t happen again” because Narcissists WILL NEVER CHANGE.

The toxins are deep down in their blood and you can NOT help them. You must report their crimes and stop the bullying. Things won’t get better!

Now, let’s move on the topic of cults, because according to Joe, every cult has a Narcissist leader who overvalue himself at the expense of his followers.

Those leaders do not tolerate criticisms about him/her, they preach grandiose ideas, they feel highly entitled, and they think they are above all laws.

Here are the 8 major lessons from FBI report about Jim Jones and 人民聖殿教:

＃1 A ton of ppl unconditionally give life to sb

#2 Using “religion”, dangerous personalities can hide underground with no scrutiny

#3 Cult leader have total control over followers’ life, like a 極權政體

#4 Torture your physically and psychologically repeatedly, PREVENT anyone from leaving

#5 Cut communications from your family and friends, who try to help/rescue

#6 Leader has obvious Narcissistic traits – words/writings

#7 Only a few members can see the leader as toxic/dangerous

#8 Once you become loyal to the cult leader, you become blind and you even harm your children because you don’t want to 正視任何可疑危機

Now brother, based on many past horrible cult leaders, there are 7 things you need to understand about cults.

#1 Cult leaders attract ppl who are unable/unwilling to discern if they are being exploited

#2 Cults use physical/psychological/social pressure to prevent you from leaving

#3 Cults must ISOLATE you from the world, so that the Narcissistic leader will never be criticized or scrutinized to control you

＃4 Narcissists are happy to be the leader, and they will do whatever it takes i.e. destroy others  to remain in position

#5 Narcissists leader have NO 規條, he enjoys all privileges e.g. sex, travel, luxuries

#6 Cult leader will claim “to have all answers and secrets about better life”, he decides everything for you

#7 Because many religious organizations or voluntary associations are PROTECTED BY LAW, and because most things happening must be kept SECRET, the law enforcement units can’t intervene at all.

So to summarise, the similar characteristics are: 保密與隔離，心理身體虐待以摧毀自由意志，由一人掌握絕對權力

These can be found in toxic organizations, workplace, home or even an entire country.

Now, you may understand how Narcissists are super dangerous, because Narcissistic personalities are what Hilter, Stalin and many political leaders share…

They kill millions for “an ideal vision”, they believe they have the answer to the future, they demand absolute loyalty and worship from followers to gain power…

If you want to learn how to assess objectively whether sb is a narcissist, pay attention to the next episode!

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Narcissists are sometimes hard to spot because they can be charismatic, intelligent, fascinating individuals who attracts you.

Sometimes you may see a glimpse of their arrogance & grandiosity, sometimes they may turn cold & aloof that makes you feel distant.

The effect is always: You feel confused, you can’t fulfill their desires, you feel tortured.

#1 Narcissists know that you will feel good by caring about you, and that is why they will never do so.

Narcissists are like cold blooded lizards, their lack of empathy makes them EASY to find ppl to complete them, but NO ONE can ever fulfill him/her.

In short, the more you spend time with Narcissists, the more they torture your emotions and heart. You feel HEAVY inside and you’re being EATEN AWAY.

#2 Bro, you may have learnt to “forgive and forget” about their sins because you think 人誰無過，最重要知錯能改, and especially when they are close people you love.

But DO NOT make this mistake…because that’s exactly what narcissists want you to do…

They want you to forgive and forget them…

so that they can HURT YOU AGAIN, and they will feel superior & fulfilled, while you once again feel shocked, depressed and destroyed. Narcissists want you to 臣服於佢嘅腳下。

So Narcissists intent is always to glorify himself/herself at the expense of others, so they people feel “small/insignificant/inferior” while he/she feels “superior/higher/better”.

#3 You must understand: Narcissists are NOT CAPABLE OF expressing love!

Everything they do are conditional “I will do this for you BUT I EXPECT you to return things for me”

Since public image is Narcissists’ primary concern, they CAN NEVER truly give to their children.

They expect children to be perfect, they push children to be best at everything, they use kids as pawns to bring FAME & FORTUNE to themselves.

Because when their children succeed, the light will eventually shine on THEM and they feel great.

However, if children fail to be “their ideal” – athletics, academics, pretty, obedient – Narcissists parents will distance themselves because the children is a BURDEN than a source of pleasure…

This is sad… because the children will never understand why their parents won’t LOVE them …

and their heartbreaks will lead to MANY psychological issues when they grow up and they might do crazy things just to “get love” from other ppl…

#4 So bro, were you loved when you were a child?

Were your parents always questioning, challenging, ordering you to do impossible stuff?

Did your caretakers never show much interest in your needs/wants/desires?

If your childhood was fucked up by narcissists, you might now understand why it is almost impossible for you to develop healthy romantic relationships.

Children internalizes parental narcissism, and narcissism move from generations to another.

And this cycle creates more ppl who are mean, no respect, zero-sympathy, feels entitled to bully others.

So if you recognize such toxic psychological sickness in you,

I highly recommend to seek professional help from good therapists to help you heal from all the sad traumas you had experienced.

Otherwise, no pickup games can help you get the emotionally healthy women you want!