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男女傾計最致命的錯誤！(Part 5 of 7) [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

男女傾計最致命的錯誤 Mistake #5:

 

太過親戚恭敬mode／太過謹慎小心『得體』／Being Too Safe！

 

Because you always want to find sth to talk about, you are attached to certain safe topics and you are AFRAID to change subject.

 

 

E.g. find that you both loved fitness, then spend 1 fvcking hour talking about health/fitness/food/nutrition/workout, THINKING the conversation well fantastic.

 


E.g. find that you both are passionate about dogs/cats/pets , then kept talking about pets stuff

 

 

TRUTH: You only display that you both are fitness enthusiasts /pet lovers, BUT nothing else in common.

 

At the end, yes you share mutual interest.

 

BUT you also display that OUTSIDE that mutual interest, you two CAN’T just chill and enjoy each other’s company, talking about nothing!

 

=> Girls want to be with a guy who they can have FUN with, being not SERIOUS all the time,

 

being SILLY around, talking about nth and just chilling in the moment, a guy she can lays on the couch with laughing and having fun

 

=> Sunday morning, laying on your chest, just FEELING, not always have to talk about serious stuff

 

There are 1 million guys out there who also love fitness/dogs/whatever passion you have,

 

but there are only a few guys whom she can imagine herself having fun with,

 

the two of you just enjoying each other company exploring different activities, adventures and LIFE.

 

Takeaway: Do NOT attach to certain topics.

 

As always, your goal of conversations is to have fun, help others have fun (experiencing wide range of emotions),

 

and then screen & qualify to see if she is the kind of person for you to bring her into your life.

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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7種男女傾計最致命嘅錯誤！(Part 4 of 7) [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

7種男女傾計最致命嘅錯誤

 

Mistake #4: 進入面試／Interview Mode！

 

Conversations should NOT feel like a job interview,

 

that’s why dinner dates as the first 1-2-1 date SUCKS,

 

it puts so much pressure on both of you to keep the conversation going.

 

Then you start asking Qs

 

e.g. what do you do for a living?

 

What do you do for fun?

 

Where do you grow up?

 

What kind of music do you like?

 

It’s not the questions themselves that KILL you, it’s the rapid firing of questions after questions after questions.

 

The stream of fact-based answers DESTROY any chemistry you have.

 

Conversations should have a FUN vibe back and forth.

 

Creating Chemsitry?

 

-> Imagine there’s a spotlight shining over the conversation, chemistry happens when the spotlight happens BOTH of you.

 

-> So when you keep ask Qs, you put the spotlight on her answering Qs, and that’s uncomfortable.


e.g. just like speaking in front of a camera

 

Don’t put her in that spotlight,

 

keep it focused on BOTH of you for as long as possible.

 

Tip: Questions are great for coaching/helping/inspiring, but Questions never lead to chemistry.

 

Statements DO!

 

Action Step: Change from asking Qs to making statements

 

E.g. What she does for a living?

 

->So, I bet you are a nurse

 

=> Why do you think I am a nurse?

 

=> etc.

 

Now you two are vibing and makes things back and forth,

 

more emotional, more fun, more interesting, more chemistry.

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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7種男女傾計最致命的錯誤！(Part 3 of 7) [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

7種男女傾計最致命嘅錯誤

 

Mistake #3: 太落力去扮晒cool／扮晒型／扮晒冷酷

 

Sometimes you have this little voice in your head that says you may not deserve her,

 

and you’re thinking how you can STAND OUT from other guys in the environment,

 

and you try to offer sth SPECIAL that others can’t.  

 

=> This makes your brain paralyzed,  

 

Brain freeze, you search for things to SAY that make you seem COOL, seem FUNNY

 

=> This makes you so damn NERVOUS, can’t even compose a normal sentence, mind go blank;

 

OR you try too hard to be funny

 

Trying to be cool = try hard

 

TRUTH: You DON”T always have to be cool

 

If you can manage to show her in the first few mins of talking to her, that you are at least the SAME social level as her, you  don’t need to pretend to be COOL,

 

you can just focus on  having a FUN, NATURAL conversation that makes YOU feel good, which will makes her FEEL good.

 

Imagine: If you don’t need to wear this social mask of being COOL,

 

how easy, effortless, relaxed will conversations be?

 

Concentrate on staying in the MOMENT, and HAVE FUN with small talk.

 

Rmb: Women don’t need you to be COOL all the time,

 

as long as you are having FUN yourself, they want to hang around you because of the good positive emotions.

 

You are just being yourself having FUN for yourself.

 

That’s sexy!

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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7種男女傾計最致命的錯誤！(Part 2 of 7) [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

7種男女傾計最致命嘅錯誤

 

Mistake #2: Being too agreeable／過份同意佢講嘅嘢

 

Some men commit this when they go on dates with girls, tried so damn hard to be agreeable

 

e.g. a girl mentions a band/movie/book, they search their mind trying to find sth positive about it;

 

OR even if you mention sth you like, when she says she doesn’t like,

 

you change your mind and says “Yeah, maybe it’s not that good.”

 

=> almost afraid to DISAGREE with women!

 

OR if your female friends badmouth a good frd of you,

 

you don’t stand up for your friend and take her side, saying your frd is a jerk!?

 

That’s NOT the way to win a girl over!

 

If you don’t tell her your true opinions, because you think that might mean you two are incompatible…

 

…if your goal is to show her how much you two HAVE IN COMMON, you are so perfect…

 

…if you hide how you feel/ changing your personality to please her…

 

It’s time for you to MAN THE FVCK UP, this NEVER works!

 

Understand this: Liking you is DIFFERENT than attraction，

 

鍾唔鍾意你同對你有冇吸引力係兩件事！

 

Agreeability／你哋大家有幾同意大家講嘅／大家嘅睇法有幾一樣，

 

絕對唔係女仔對你有冇吸引力嘅因素！

 

事實上，she doesn’t have to like you to be attracted to you，

 

女仔係冇需要去鍾意你，之後先至被你吸引。（talk about this in later episodes)

 

Counterintuitive TIP: Disagreement/ asserting your different opinion, CAN be an attraction switch.

 

Because you disagree = push her away, agreeing = pulling her in.

 

So blindly agreeing with women = keeping pulling a girl towards you= make her suffocated and run away

 

The more uncertainty, the more intrigued, the more drama she feels during an interaction, the more ATTRACTION she can feel.

 

Hence, push-pull, confusing her, sparking intrigue.

 

ACTION STEP: Do not be afraid to express your opinions, disagree with her, call her out on her bullshit

 

-> differentiate yourself from other guys

 

-> Sub Communicate: I am not afraid to lose you, this is ATTRACTIVE to women.

 

They want things a lot more if she isn’t sure if she can have you.

 

Also this is much easier to begin flirting with a girl when you disagree with her, disagreement provides the ammunition you need to TEASE her

 

E.g. if she tells you she likes a movie that you thought SUCKS,

 

you can make fun of her “Wow, that movie? You have such bad taste, no wonder we won’t get along with each other.”

 


Another danger of being too agreeable:

 

You’re so UNSURE of yourself, you’re almost looking for women to give you permission/approval for you to lead the conversation.

 

=> super unattractive! Attraction disappeared!

 

***Women will follow whatever TONE you set for the conversation.

 

If you set a fun flirty vibe, she will follow.

 

Even if she isn’t interested in the topic YOU CHOSE to discuss,

 

she still RESPECT you more for taking initiative THAN if you sit there and only talk when she wants!

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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7種男女傾計最致命的錯誤！(Part 1 of 7) [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

7種男女傾計最致命嘅錯誤

 

-> these things kill momentum, attraction,

 

+ leave girl think that you’re just another boring guy

 

If you can’t talk, you can never get the hot girls – whether you are rich, handsome, have big muscles etc.

 

There are certain types women respond to, also certain types that bore them and turn them off.

 

Below = mistakes + tips, what to do about it

 

Mistake #1: Not Assuming Rapport 無一早假設大家有rapport／融洽關係

 

Don’t wait for rapport to happen naturally, you ASSUME it even if it’s first time.

 

Talk to her in the same laid back way as if you’re talking to an old friend

 

Most guys Too stiff, too formal, as if strangers


-> If you assume you are stranger, you are a stranger random guy.

 

She puts her guard up. Create this uncomfortable awkwardness.

 

Jump right into rapport

 

-> more natural feeling conversations, feeling of having known you forever

 

 

HINT: Chemistry is a feeling; so you jump in and talk to her as if you’ve known her forever

 

1st way to kill rapport: salesman mode

 

-> you’re trying to sell yourself to her vibe

 

i.e. taking survey, ask you to sign petition, sell you plan, converting sb into religion on streets

 

2nd way to kill rapport: getting into hairdresser mode

 

-> weather, super restricted and formal, super PG-13 shit

 

-> solution: talk to her like she’s an old friend

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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女人唔想同你傾計的4大原因 4 Reasons Why Girls Don’t Want To Talk To You [溝女]

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大部分嘅男人，尤其是細個讀男校嘅巴打們，

 

喺從來都冇人教過佢點樣同女人傾計，所以好多男人可能一大輩子都冇學過吸引女人嘅技能。

 

你遇上嘅問題可能就係：

 

－女仔覺得你好悶

 

－你唔識得點樣keep住女仔對你嘅興趣

 

－你唔知點樣令到佢笑

 

－你唔能夠喺佢面前做返真實嘅自己

 

－完全唔識得點樣製造吸引力

 

可能好多外面嘅人就會畀藉口自己，

 

話自己溝唔到女係因為唔夠靚仔／唔夠有錢／唔夠power地位／或者唔夠受歡迎。

 

但係事實就係，

 

如果你學識點樣正確地同女人傾計，學識點樣同佢調情flirt，學識點樣turn her on，

 

任何男人都絕對可以吸引到女人。

 

所以今日就首先等我調返轉，話畀你知女人唔想同你傾計嘅4個最主要原因。

 

＃1 要永遠永遠記住呢句說話，

 

『A man’s attractiveness is directly proportional to his level of non-neediness』，

 

一個男人嘅吸引力係同佢有幾『唔依賴／唔依附／唔依戀』成絕對嘅正比！

 

你比我更加清楚，

 

我過去好多個月都不斷同各位巴打講，

 

你必須成為一個non-needy／情感獨立嘅人。

 

Neediness嘅意思就係，你好似BB仔咁樣，需要外界嘅東西去填滿／充滿自己。

 

你需要外界嘅人去同你講『你係一個特別special嘅人』，

 

你需要外界嘅人去同你講『你係一個美麗聰明嘅人』，

 

你需要外界嘅人去同你講『你係一個值得被愛嘅人』等等。

 

但係你要明白：

 

任何needy嘅男人，任何需要女人去填補佢嘅男人，

 

其實就係根本就係利用女人去滿足自己情感嘅空虛，

 

根本就係一條令人厭惡嘅情感寄生蟲！

 

所有健康嘅關係，必須由兩個獨立完整嘅個體去組成；

 

所以無論係男人女人都好，當某一方變得needy嘅時候，你係會破壞大家嘅健康兩性關係。

 

所以第一樣女人唔想同你傾計嘅原因，

 

就係因為佢透過你嘅行為舉動，感覺到你嘅neediness，

 

感覺到你try so fvcking hard去impress奉承佢，令到佢對你感到厭惡。

 

＃2 女人唔想同你傾計嘅原因，

 

就係因為佢感覺到你嘅insecure，感覺到你缺乏自信，同你傾計期間完全feel到你過份嘅神經質。

 

少少嘅緊張感係冇問題嘅，你抱著一種少少緊張嘅心情去同女人傾計，更加能夠顯示你嘅真誠。

 

但係女人都想要一個powerful，有自信，對自己secure， 有信心嘅男人；

 

所以如果佢sense到你冇咁樣嘅內在特質，佢好快就會對你失去吸引力。

 

＃3 第三樣女人唔想同你傾計嘅原因，就係好簡單因為你好撚悶！

 

你想同女人傾到計，

 

你就要學識點樣令到大家嘅對話充滿fun嘅元素，你就要學識點樣利用F+C去同佢玩，

 

而唔係淨係一味用邏輯悶爆嘅logical conversation同佢講嘢！

 

所以如果你不斷發現自己面對deadair，傾傾下偈成日變咗interview，

 

又或者講埋啲濕鳩『今日天氣幾好』嘅話題，

 

咁你都可以好肯定女人會好快對你失去興趣。

 

＃4 最後女人唔想同你傾偈嘅原因，就係因為你太過缺乏social intelligence，一啲社交嘅智慧。

 

女人天生就係一種社交嘅動物，

 

所以佢哋係好識得點樣跟從social norms，好快地觀察到某個場地嘅社交潛規則。

 

所以如果你唔能夠察覺到當時環境有乜嘢係socially acceptable，

 

有乜嘢行為舉動係可以接受，有乜嘢行為舉動係過火，

 

女人就會覺得你係『低等』過佢。

 

所以任何唔合適嘅comment，

 

或者你get唔到佢暗地裏send畀你嘅社交訊號，

 

又或者你喺度係咁講一啲完全唔好笑嘅嘢，

 

你都可以幾肯定自己係缺乏Social Intelligence！

 

以上就係女人唔想同你傾計嘅四種原因，

 

如果你細心諗一諗嘅話，

 

你就會明白，

 

冇女人係想要一個弱雞+冇自信+唔識得social+又悶+又needy嘅男人！

 

希望今集幫到你！

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邊兩種男人係女人最想要？2 Contradictory Qualities Women Want [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

#1 Brand new idea: Want 1-min IG story/video tip of the day？

 

#2 Coaching last week inspired me: 2 qualities women want from a man

 

– Father Figure Lower Energy: I like you, but I don’t like this behavior.

 

Authoritative; Decisive;

 

Dominating; Leadership;

 

Boundaries; Loving but not supplicating;

 

Wisdom to learn from; Protection;

 

Challenge her to be better;

 

Pleasure and Punishment; Adventurous;

 

– Little Boy Upper Energy: Her mother instinct wants to take care of the cute little you.

 

Playful; Carefreeness;

 

Curiosity; Innocent;

 

Kind; Light;

 

Strong but needs caring

 

#3 Ideal man?

 

A bad boy warrior who doesn’t give a fvck what others think,

 

who chooses his own path,

 

who has a strong opinion,

 

who lives in a thrilling dangerous adventure,

 

who fights for what he believes in,

 

WHILE allowing his woman to take care of him,

 

be vulnerable and gentle at times,

 

letting his girl take care of this wounded warrior.

 


Picture: Warrior 300 leader,

 

a man fights his battle, and chill out allowing his woman to wash his wounds.

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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點解我哋會無啦啦咁憎某啲人？Why Do We Hate People For No Reason？[溝女x成功x人生Q&A]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

Have you ever met sb and you instantly don’t like them?

 

Did they do something to harm you? Why?

 

If you spot it, you got it.

 

=> It’s because in them, you see a part of you, maybe you’ve ignored or haven’t accepted yet.

 

There may be a part of you that you wish and yearn that your life could be that way. Why did I have to work so hard? Why is it so easy for him?

 

=> Accept that part of yourself.

 

Find something to RESPECT and ADMIRE about him. Associate good things you want to attract more from him.

 

#1 Who is the name of that person you dislike the second you meet them?

 

#2 Find at least 1 thing that you admire & respect about that person

 

If you walk around with that anger, you are their prisoner.

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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5條問題令女人享受同你約會！5 Questions That Makes Your Date Interesting [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

你應該知道，大部分男人喺約會上面都會問一啲好悶好standard嘅問題。

 

例如話：你喺邊度嚟呢？你做咩㗎？

 

平時有咩興趣？最鍾意睇咩電影？

 

鍾唔鍾意睇書？你冇兄弟姊妹？

 

你今日食咗飯未？你破咗處未？etc.

 

基本上除咗最尾嗰兩條問題之外，

 

一啲中上唔錯嘅靚女過去都經歷過幾百次嘅first date，以前被過千名男士approach，

 

所以佢都唔會想不斷回答一式一樣嘅問題。

 

所以如果你想突圍而出，你想stand out留下一個更好嘅first impression，

 

你就要學識點樣問一啲有質素嘅問題。

 

有質素嘅問題嘅共通點就係：

 

－佢哋係比較original／有創意。

 

－佢哋能夠帶出對方一啲舊事嘅回憶。

 

－佢哋能夠令對方帶出一啲正面嘅情感。

 

－又或者一啲能夠challenge女仔嘅問題。

 

以下我就好慷慨地同你分享好幾條問題，令到你下次嘅date無咁死板無咁悶。

 

第1條就係：『你仲記唔記得細個第一日返學嘅時候係點樣㗎呢？』

 

呢條問題係絕對會帶出一種好強烈嘅情感，

 

因為好大機會好多年都冇人咁樣問過個女仔，

 

而呢就問題絕對會令到大家回憶起細個一啲得意搞笑嘅事情。

 

第2條就係：『如果你聽日擘大眼起身發現自己喺世界上某一個地方，你會希望自己喺邊度呢？』

 

呢條亦都係一條好好嘅問題，去取代平時一條好悶『你鍾唔鍾意去旅行？／今年最近有冇去旅行？』嘅common questions。

 

你問完之後，你更加可以叫個女仔去充滿色彩地形容一下嗰個地方，

 

協助佢感受一下佢喺dream place嘅時候想要嘅情感！

 

第3條就係：『你大部分嘅朋友係男仔多定女仔多呀？』

 

呢條問題會透露畀你知好多關於個女仔嘅性格特質，

 

並且可以慢慢地引導佢哋講一啲佢哋care嘅朋友同人際關係。

 

第4條就係：『有邊一樣嘢你係絕對無法拒絕，見到佢就絕對控制唔到自己一定想要架呢？』

 

呢一個係好好嘅途徑，去發掘一啲女仔好享受鍾意嘅嘢，

 

無論係朱古力／蛋糕／雪糕／甜品定係一啲食物以外嘅嘢。

 

當你能夠令到佢形容一下有嗰種東西嘅時候嘅感受，

 

你就會慢慢引導個女仔進入一個充滿慾望嘅狀態！

 

第5條就係：『啊，你有啲咩好叻嘅skills或者才能，喺會好可能surprise我㗎呢？』

 

呢條係一條好好嘅challenging question，

 

所以如果你一開頭就咁快問佢，個女仔未必想馬上去答你。

 

所以當你進入中期emotional connection／rapport嘅階段，

 

如果你一開頭已經做咗F+C，

 

女仔就會感到有種動力，去答呢條問題去證明自己畀你睇，去qualify自己。

 

以上就係其中一啲好嘅問題，令到你同女仔約會變得更加有趣唔再悶；

 

請你好好運用今日課堂所學嘅技巧，下次同女仔建立深入嘅連繫喇！

 

希望今集幫到你！

 

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點解女人不能成為男人的第一位？Take into Account the Primary Asymmetry [超男之道系列Ep.48] [溝女]

Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp，

 

協助你成為一個更有力量，更有吸引力，更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人，創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。

 

嚟到超男之道系列嘅第48集（Sorry that the past 2 episodes were wrongly numbered），

 

今集叫做女人不能成為男人的第一位，Take into Account the Primary Asymmetry。

 

＃1 作者意思係：Intimate relationship／親密關係，永遠唔會係一個雄性男人生命嘅首要優先事項，但係親密關係就係雌性女人嘅priority。

 

如果一個男人擁有雄性嘅性本質，

 

男人嘅優先事項就係佢嘅人生任務，佢嘅使命，佢一種邁向更多釋放／更多自由／更多意識嘅方向。

 

相反，如果一個女人擁有雌性嘅性本質，

 

女人嘅優先事項就係佢嘅生命有冇愛嘅流動（the flow of love），

 

包括佢同佢男人嘅關係，包括佢能唔能夠完全地身體上／情感上／思想上／靈性上相信呢個男人。

 

＃2 所以如果女人喺事業上遇上困難，但係佢感受到生命充滿愛嘅流動

 

－例如佢同佢仔女朋友伴侶嘅關係喺非常融洽－女人嘅核心內心／core仍然會感到fulfilling滿足。

 

但係擁有雄性性本質嘅你，就算你嘅女人孩子無時無刻都愛你，

 

如果你嘅事業／任務／使命被阻擋被阻塞，你就會感受到翳住翳住內心唔舒服嘅感覺。

 

你甚至可能冇意欲去同你嘅女人分享親密嘅時間，直至你嘅事業使命任務回復正常。

 

＃3  所以對於擁有雄性性本質嘅你，你要令到自己心靈滿足釋放壓力，

 

你就必須將你嘅生活方式同你嘅人生任務校準成一直線，將你嘅life同mission align番一齊。

 

所有親密嘅關係，都係你搞掂咗自己人生嘅purpose之後嘅附帶享受；

 

Intimacy只係你生命其中一部分，

 

當你係沉醉於喺自己嘅使命上打拚嘅時候，你就好多時自然地能夠暫時完全忘記任何親密嘅關係。

 

相反，女人嘅生命如果唔能夠擁有愛嘅色彩，

 

佢就會感受到冇人錫佢，佢就會感覺被拒絕，佢就會覺得被hurt，覺得被你遺棄。

 

＃4 好殘酷但係你必須接受嘅真相就係：

 

對於大部分男人嚟講，女人係replaceable，女人係可以被取代。

 

因為其實你心底裏係知道，就算你失去咗現時呢個女人，

 

你當然會感到好痛心好惋惜好悲傷，但係你都會知道你最終仍然可以搵到下一個女人。

 

因為雄性男人嘅priority／佢嘅首要優先事項就係佢嘅使命任務，而佢永遠都會被一個最能夠support到自己mission嘅女人吸引。

 

＃5  相反，合適嘅男人係會牢牢地被女人嘅心記住，佢係會全日去感受你，佢係會感應你每一刻喺邊度。

 

喺女人嘅角度嚟講，你未必係咁容易被取代，而佢亦都唔會經常地去考慮其他選擇。

 

你同佢嘅關係唔單止係佢生命嘅核心，但係亦都同時喺主要影響佢情緒心情嘅因素。

 

如果女人同你冇一種深刻充滿愛嘅親密關係，佢就會覺得被hurt。

 

＃6  所以男人女人都要學識honor／尊重自己嘅性本質！

 

擁有雌性性本質嘅女人想生命美滿開心嘅話，

 

佢就必須尊重接受自己內心最大嘅慾望，其實係需要接受愛嘅流動。

 

而擁有雄性性本質嘅男人想生命美滿開心嘅話，

 

佢就必須尊重接受自己內心最大嘅慾望，其實係隨著自己人生嘅方向去闖蕩。

 

＃7 如果女人跟從社會意識去做一個『事業女強人』，

 

冇錯，當然你可以證明自己有能力獨立，『 唔需要靠男人』都可以生存，

 

但係你心靈永遠都唔會完全得到滿足！

 

相反，如果男人跟從社會意識去做一個『住家好男人』，

 

冇錯，當然你係一個充滿愛心照顧屋企錫小朋友嘅『好好先生』，

 

當然你可以擺脫『傳統大男人』嘅形象，但係你心靈一樣唔會完全得到滿足！

 

＃8 所以身為男人嘅你，

 

如果你想你嘅女人尊重並且支持你對自由嘅追求，你就必須尊重並且支持女人對愛嘅流動嘅感受。

 

男人無女人咁投入喺某段感情，係一件自然健康無需要感到內疚自責嘅事情。

 

你冇需要扮曬超級投入，你冇需要特登扮曬特別照顧女人；

 

Instead，你必須忠於自己核心嘅慾望，你必須dedicate自己係你選擇最高嘅人生目標。

 

＃9 因為當你真係將你嘅生活方式同你嘅人生任務校準成一直線，

 

你好自然地就會變得更加present，更加活在當下，更加充滿激情充滿愛。

 

而當你變得更加熱愛自己生命嘅時候，你嘅女人就會成為第一個受惠嘅人，

 

佢就會感受到你被放大嘅存在感，更強嘅愛，更加搞笑嘅幽默感。

 

同樣道理，當女人完全投入自己去忠於自己嘅心，

 

你亦都會感受到佢美麗嘅能量，充滿啟發性嘅radiance，令人讚歎具魔法性嘅嘅女性創造力，

 

佢嘅男人亦都會成為第一個受惠嘅人。

 

＃10 所以請你由今日開始尊重男女大不同嘅不對稱性，

 

尊重男女生命不同嘅首要priority，

 

並且支持你伴侶各自嘅核心慾望，

 

咁樣你哋雙方都會能夠得到一種令人滿足嘅生命！

 

希望今集幫到你！