Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊,歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp,
協助你成為一個更有力量,更有吸引力,更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人,創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。
Purpose:明白溝靚女唯一的分別
#1 Beauty is entirely subjective 外在美是主觀的
(雖然有一定程度嘅baseline beauty e.g. hip to waist ratio, facial symmetry, not hairy, smell good)
e.g. Vegas Weather Report Girl, ZERO effect on me but huge on western guys,
(我意思係佢對我零影響, not 零反應 lol)
#2 大部分靚女唯一的分別,就係佢哋習慣因為肉體嘅美麗被人『特別對待』,而大部份人都忽略佢哋嘅頭腦/性格/才能/內心。
=> 外在美,製造了人與人嘅距離/隔膜
=> Very difficult 能夠遇上『正常』嘅對話,遇上當返係佢正常人相處嘅人
#3 Simultaneously, 女人外在美 = social power,因為大部份男人放棄自己power
#4 重點: 以 F+C 方式溝通
E.g. Model? Dancer? Actress? -> 『都睇得出嘅,你都似喺比人寵慣。』
-> 目的:Subcommunicate 你唔會因為佢嘅『美麗/工作』而對佢有特別待遇。
#5 Why it works?
因為所有女人,尤其是靚女,想被人challenge,被挑戰。
-> 靚女自青春期就已經享受慣被錫被追被溝被重視被對待好,『你對佢好』doesn’t mean much anymore.
->所以你必須present自己成為一個challenge,
潛意識地話佢知『你喺靚,但係我唔會因為咁而咁快特別對你好囉,PROVE to me what else you’ve got』
#6 停止無限供應讚賞/dates/gifts/attention,停止供奉你嘅power
-> She must work for it, she must DESERVE it by proving to you that she has MORE than beauty.
希望今集幫到你!