Bro, you probably have heard/read a super old school books called <The Game> and you definitely know those pickup guys like Mystery and Neil Strauss.
Because of them, so many men thought that they had discovered a get-girls GOLD MINE and thought that by mastering PUA and becoming a PUA profession, they can get every woman they can dream of.
However, maybe you don’t know that Neil Strauss wrote a book called <The Truth> in 2015 and he mentioned how he himself and Mystery respectively nearly committed suicide after they had attracted a BAD woman into their lives, especially when they thought “she is the one.”
Without getting too much into the history, I want you to understand the truths about pickup and PUAs, which is a topic I seldom address.
That is, yes, PUA CAN be effective tools to get you women, there are skills of communication that make you stand out as a man to attract women.
HOWEVER, the dangers of relying on PUA techniques without an actual improvement of your personal attractiveness,
is that #1 you get women who are attracted to your PUA stuff, NOT you as a person.
#2 PUA does NOT teach you to screen out BAD, emotionally manipulative, OR psychologically damaged women WHO can cause serious detriments in your well-being AND this is how PUA Masters like Mystery/Neil Strauss NEARLY killed themselves.
Understand: Having PUA skills to get girls DOES NOT MEAN you are automatically an Alpha.
SO MANY PUA dudes know how to get girls, fvck girls but they don’t fucking know how to keep girls who are HEALTHY to them in the long term happiness.
Why? Because PUA skills are like a sword. It is a neutral tool to cut.
But if the person using the sword is a beta/motherfvcker/ sucker/crazy maniac, the sword is going to HURT people including killing himself.
If you don’t understand the bigger picture e.g. why female behave certain ways, why we have certain psychology, how society is conditioning you as a beta etc.
YOU at your core, is still a beta even if you have learnt some new tools.
The point is: You have to TRAIN and BECOME the right man first in order to know how to use your sword for good.
If you just learn PUA without actually becoming a stronger, more psychologically healthy, more emotionally mature & confident MAN,
you are just becoming another stupid unstable kid thinking he can use a sword to kill real soldiers in the battlefield.
you are just becoming another stupid unstable kid thinking he can use a sword to kill real soldiers in the battlefield.
Can you think of any guys you know who are proud of his PUA skills but is a nasty dickhead in person?
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