分類: 男女感情

離開friendzone的超簡單3步曲！【技巧篇】

 

#1 Distance yourself

Create an absence so that her perception of you changes. You are no longer always available, so this forces her to think about you.

Right now, she only sees you as a sexless platonic guy. Such vacuum will slowly eliminate the old perception of the beta you

 

#2  Reconnect

After you eradicate the weak nice guy image, you need to come back with a new image and let her see your change subtle or indirectly.

However, you MUST NOT play nice to her like you used to, don’t listen to her relationship problems, don’t be her friend again!

When you stop being a doormat, she will see you in a different light.

 

#3 Spark Attraction

Now it’s time to do what you have been learning: teasing, challenging, be a fun guy to hang around with, have your passions, not always being available, continuously seeing other women, making extended eye contact and physical touches to increase sexual tension etc.

You never did these things b4, you tried to remain neutral b4, and that’s why you were in the FZ.

Now that you have a new image, it’s time to try again with a much more attractive version of you!

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如何non-needy地『表白』？

#1 Penetrative Eye Contact for 3+ seconds -> Masculine Presence

#2 Touch her at emotional high point to anchor good feelings.

Also touch her to lead her to somewhere.

#3 Slowly disclose your stuff WITHOUT vomiting your person shit!

Be genuinely interested in her life and ask  her personal Q too.

Q: Hi Manson,

I’ve fallen in love with my colleague but she obviously isn’t interested.

Everyone tells me it’s unlikely she’ll ever be interested otherwise she would’ve shown some hints before notwithstanding the fact she’s had boyfriends all the time we’ve known each other.

Should I write her off as a lost cause or work towards wooing her?  If the latter, what can I do? Thanks in advance. – CL

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Answer is below:

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Q: 覺得你啲片好有用！支持你ar

Hi 我系岩岩畢業嘅學生，話說早個半月前系一次面試中，我同佢傾計既時候比左我電話佢。之後一齊討論面試既內容等，之後其間我同佢每星期都會見一次左右，好好傾關係幾好。

 

但我一直表現得系忽冷忽熱，直到有排我可能表現得對佢太冷淡，我就開始對佢好少少。而我知道自己仲意左佢，有時間我會對佢做啲曖昧行為，吾想變為fd鬆，feel到佢系吾抗拒我既，覺得佢已經知道我仲意佢，但佢仲系到諗緊我地系咪適合發展進一步情侶關係。

 

直到近幾日知道佢因爲要入camp半年，每星期得1日放假休息。我知道佢入左camp既話就會冇心機放系我同佢既關係到，所以我前幾日等到時機岩既時間就直接拖住佢，同佢講不如做男女朋友等。。之後佢當下好緊張我就冇迫佢。

 

隔一日之後，我打電話同佢傾，因為佢好似覺得我吾系認真點解可以識一個月就表白，所以我就打電話比佢，內容大概系👉🏻認真同佢表白一次👉🏻問佢可吾可以試一個月，期間我吾會做咩越界行為，會認真對待我地關係等

 

我feel到佢系開心既，之後佢好似一早諗好答案咁，同我講話想維持現狀，話入左camp就好難維持等，吾想拍散拖，話想了解多啲先，之後睇下點

 

最後依幾日我地keep住現況正正常常，冇老監既，但我咁樣比佢知道我仲意佢，好似變到我好冇價值，隨手可得咁，佢好似覺得我一定會等佢咁，俾唔到吸引力佢。你覺得我應該點做先可以同佢發展為情侶？- Jacky

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All mistakes mentioned above are explained HERE:

Hi Manson My name is Chester,  I need ur advice, Please help me

 

Q: I was a pua in tst and I picked up much girls as I could

.Sts when I saw some paki guy and white guys pick up and touching th girl.I feel jelous extremely since I can do it exactly. And sts when I saw some asian girls with a white guy. The girls act like looking down at me and Made me feel so bad. Can u give me some advice?Manson

 

Sorry I am afriad that U received too many mails so I reply you here in case.Long story short . I have been lving and discriminated against in US and I know the trick they made fun of asian. So I was so extremely jealous when the white guy carries asian girl and the girl seems not nice to me or looking down to me. I am a PUA for 5 years and still cant get out of that.

Sts when I saw a girl that I could pick up but got picked up by paki guy or white guy, I kept thinking negatively and tryna block them.Am I half crazy for that.I feel like my weakness is a white guy as my enemies and girl is a weapon. I feel like I need advice otherwise I will go crazy. Please give me a advice Manson. I am looking forward to see u – Shing S Li

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#1 Every guy or girl has their sexual preference or fantasies, stop trying to please EVERY girl.

 

#2 Being attractive = polarizing = have your own standards = pissing of certain people (HATE) while having fans who LOVE you.

 

#3 PUA doesn’t help because of the idea of fvcking all girls and using the number of “conquered pussies” as success metrics.

 

#4 Your real enemy is your insecurity as a Chinese man.

Embrace yourself, expand your strengths, focus on people who isn’t discriminatory.

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Q: Hi Man神，我係Dee，長話短說，最近工作壓力大，精神攰令自己冇心情同人傾偈，唔太想向人提供價值，感覺被吸走能量而不斷抱怨

 

但我的朋友話成熟男人應該要堅強，即使工作再攰，在見面當下都要做到最好令人滿意跟自己相處

 

如果係咁Man神，我可以點樣訓練先會令自己變得堅強呢？

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#1 Life Experience

#2 Train your body & mind for strength, protect your mindset everyday

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Oh Man，原來領袖係要開放對每個人都要對話交流，我仲好似「活在自己世界中」，只跟有興趣的人說話，難怪我在團體的受歡迎程度唔太高

 

But有件事想請教你，其實無論係咩關係，包括溝女，都係先從識人交朋友嘅心態開始嗎？因為我每逢帶住溝女心態面對陌生嘅女仔總係好唔自在

Man神多謝你用心解答我的問題 – Dee

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#1 The more strangers you talk to, the higher chance you will be successful

#2 Attractive Social Mindset is always:

– Have FUN for yourself first

– Bring that FUN and positive emotions to others

– See who’s OPEN to connect with and see if they meet your STANDARDS (i.e. You QUALIFY them).

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

Do you know why so many good men got cheated by their GF/wives?

Do you want to understand why sometimes women could suddenly leave a relationship without explanation to you?

 

The reason you get cheated is because as a man, you’re NOT providing one of the most precious (yet FREE) thing all feminine women want: Presence

 

If you are NOT being present when you’re with a woman, （人在心不在） women will feel NOT understood, which shuts down her intimacy with you.

 

In other words, if you aren’t spending QUALITY TIME with her when you 2 are together, you 2 will lose that connection women crave.

 

And if time goes by and she can’t enjoy these quality time, women will try to find it elsewhere.

And elsewhere = from another man

 

Eventually, she will leave you or even BETRAY you at critical moments.

 

That is why sometimes women would rather have Q.T. with a lower quality guy, than no Q.T. with a good, high quality man.

 

So how do you maximize the QUALITY whenever you spend time with women, here are 2 easy strategies:

 

#1 Eye Contact

– Most relationships suck because nowadays suckers pay attention more to their phone than their partner.

– A simple fix: Stop using your fucking phone when hanging out.!

Look into her eyes when she’s saying sth and when YOU’re saying something.

At the same time, FEEL what she is feeling and LISTEN without judgement.

– When you are NOT caught up in your mind and using your PRESENCE to FEEL her, that’s a masculine attractive way that turns on her feminine side.

 

#2 Focus on making dates MORE FUN

– Cut all unnecessary grey zones where you two are together but doing different things, maximize having more FUN together and enjoying yourself in these activities.

– Many couples become complacent after tgt. They become too SERIOUS about small stuff.

– But when you guys hang out, you should always drop all the baggages and just have some light playful silly FUN.

– Too much pressure/seriousness always kill a relationship that was once started because of the FUN, PLAYFUL, CAREFREE nature where good emotions are created.

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Everyone knows that EXERCISE can improve your health physically, mentally and emotionally,

 

but do you know that certain exercises can also improve your sex drive and performance?

 

Below we’ll talk about what these exercises are, why they help boost your sex drive, and how you can reap the max. benefits from them.

 

#1 Running

-> Release endorphins, Runner’s high, feel euphoric

 

-> If you can get a girl to run with you, you 2 will attribute that high to each other, and thus lead to more passion in the bedroom

 

#2 Strength Training

-> Lifting heavy weights will boost your T. And more T = more sex drive

 

-> Also, when you have more muscles and STRENGTH, you can perform a lot more positions than being a weak skinny dude

 

#3 Stretching

-> Increase flexibility & blood flow, also increase awareness of your body, which means you can FEEL your body and sexual urges more strongly

 

#4 Yoga

-> This is sth I’m incorporating MORE in my life apart from strength training

 

-> I’ll say that almost ALL guys/girls who are great at sex DO YOGA.

-> Because practicing yoga give you more flexibility, body awareness, clam mind, core strength, stamina. Also helps RELAX your shoulders, hips, back which are main muscles for sex.

 

#5 Meditation

-> Although meditation isn’t a physical exercise, it trains your mental focus and emotional awareness.

 

-> Low Libido is NOT just a physical problem, many guys can’t get hard/lose sex drive because they are IN their fucking HEAD and THINKING TOO MUCH.

 

-> Thus, spend 15-20 mins a day meditating will GROUND you back into your body and increase your awareness of sex drive.