分類: 男女感情

#1 You probably understand that when you chat with girls,

 

you DON”T want to enter into interview mode where you ask her a TON of questions.

 

But sometimes, you may encounter a situation where instead of flirting, bantering, connecting,

 

some girls may ask you TOO many personal questions TOO early and you feel like you are being interrogated.

 

If that happens, what should you do?

 

#2 When you FEEL that this girl is interviewing you and qualifying you as a candidate, and you start to get annoying … you can playfully say:

 

『Well Katie, 多謝你邀請我上嚟你個節目。』

 

-> You are implying she is interviewing you, and if she is smart, she will understand what you mean.

 

But if she still continues, you can strengthen your friend and say:

 

『哦，我哋嚟緊齣電影出年先至會開始宣傳呀。Anyway，多謝你個interview，你係下一位嘉賓係邊位呀？』

 

-> When you are that blatant, it’s rare she won’t get it and stop.

 

＃3 Now you may ask me: If asking too much Qs too early aren’t good, what should you two do?

 

Easy. You can GUESS sth about her and make STATEMENT.

 

E.g. If you want to ask her what she does, and you feel like she is quite caring, you can say“Ng… 點解咁有趣，我感覺你好似喺一個護士或者醫生喎。”

 

#4 Of course, you can use questions sometimes.

 

The point is, when you carefully OBSERVE her, you will find a TON of materials to talk about whether you use Qs or STATEMENTS.

Hey brother or even some sisters, there’s something FUN I want to do with you today.

 

#1 And that is to you, what behaviors will be considered as cheating?

 

I am asking because men and women sometimes have DIFFERENT LINES to cross to be called “cheating”.

 

E.g. One female friend of mine told me that she is NOT cheating when she was in the club, touching with other guys,

 

using her boobs to press on other men, and sometimes even KISSING is “just for fun, and nothing serious”, is NOT cheating. lol

 

VS

 

Many young girls consider their bf holding hands with another girl is cheating.

 

#2 So let me ask you: Assuming you have an exclusive relationship (bf/gf, married),  what do you consider as cheating? Comment below and let me know.

 

To assist you in your thinking, here are some examples:

 

Vaginal intercourse, oral intercourse, anal intercourse,

 

kissing, just touching your intimate parts, cuddling, 攬住瞓,

 

getting emotionally close, sleeping in the same bed, holding hands, going out as friends 1-2-1.

 

So whether you are bro or sis, COMMENT below and let me know. That will be a special interesting fun experiment.

 

Look forward to seeing your comment.