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你好MAN神 睇完你篇搶女友Q&A我就想問問題：
最近女仔我好喜歡 但係佢有男朋友… 佢一直性暗示我可以上去搞佢 但係我過唔到自己果關
佢男友月搵4萬，我就仲係創業階段 窮 養唔起佢 無車無樓，我以經單身左26年，豬既女我右唔想上 …
如果再同佢接觸 我諗我總會有一日會忍唔住。
忍痛抽身 唔係咁易做得到 … 以前有個老師同我講 壞事 可以做 只要唔好比任何人知就唔係壞事，
所以我每日都爭扎我係咪應該破介 我好想屌佢真係 – S
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＃1 You’re still associating “getting rich” with “success with women”
You’re still operating at a beta male provider strategy to get women.
It’s cool to want to provide for women, but it’s NOT cool if you use MONEY as a bargaining power to tell her that you’re an attractive man.
How many times have I emphasized that your ATTRACTIVENESS as a man is NOT based on external shit like money, fame, cars, houses?
To women, how attractive you are is proportionally to how independent and non-needy you are.
Yes, money/fame/power give you ACCESS to girls.
But whether you can date her, fuck her or develop a long term relationship with her still depends on your non-physical traits. (Unless you want gold diggers.)
You don’t need money to be successful with women, all you need is to develop attractive character traits to attractive them.
E.g. be a fun + challenging person to hang around with, be ambitious, have a purpose in life, you are carefree and tease her, you are adventurous, you take risks, you lead, you assert what you want/believe
If you always compare yourself with other men of how “rich” you are, you will NEVER win the dating game.
#2 Who the fuck is that teacher telling you to do 壞事可以做，只要唔好比任何人知就唔係壞事？ Yes, you can deceive the entire world but you cannot deceive yourself.
如果你係一個缺德無品無內涵嘅人，無人知嘅話，又代唔代表你係一個品格良好有修養嘅人呢？
Next，why are you associating “fucking a girl you want” with “做壞事”？
It sounds like you’re associating SEX with some dirty evil thing.
If you think sex is evil, dirty, disloyal, secretive, THEN you will NEVER become a sexually attractive man because your subconscious mind will prevent you from turning yourself to be a “bad guy”.
HOWEVER, this doesn’t mean I am advocating you to fuck a girl with bf.
#1 If she is the kind of disloyal gf who cheats, don’t think you’re gaining benefits from a quick non-attached fuck.
-> Even if you 趙完鬆，thinking you’re the man, these female predators don’t give a fuck about that.
They are gaining validation and stealing sex from you, while they are enjoying their bf’s blinded loyalty. THEY are just using you and other men for their own pleasure.
#2 By fucking someone who lacks character, you are turning yourself to be a person without character.
There’s nothing wrong to behave like that, but you gotta ask whether you want to behave in such manner.
#3 Her bf of course needs to learn his lesson about the truth of her gf one day. Some people will tell you “有得食唔食，罪大惡極”, and yes, the girl may be fucking other guys while still with her idiot bf,
but ask yourself:
do YOU want to become the kind of man who goes around preying on the innocence of other guys?
Do you want to use your dick to continue this fucked up relationship problem and let more men suffer?
Your choice.
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