分類: 兩性智慧

Do you feel frustrated that sometimes you think women say sth but actually they mean an entirely different things?

Are you angry that women mostly don’t tell you upfront what they want from you and keep letting you guessing?

Are you tired that you have to use so much energy and effort to carefully observe her behavior to find out the true meaning of her communication?

Well brother… that’s the reality of the difference between men and women.

#1 Men’ communication: Straightforward, efficient, exchange facts & information, focuses on the CONTENT, say what they mean and mean what they say, logically/rationally analyze and solve problems just like what I’m doing for you here.

Women’ communication: It’s more about sharing FEELINGS, it’s like a kids-talk driven by emotions, it’s about getting ATTENTION, so on the surface the words/content are more dumb/confusing/random/pointless.

#2 Why do we have such difference?

It’s because male and female brains are wired differently according to brain scan.

They did 1,000 brain scans -> Greater connectivity between the left and right sides of the brain in women, while the connections in men were mostly confined to individual hemispheres, and connections were typically stronger between the front and back regions.

Meaning: men’s brains apparently wired more for perception and co-ordinated actions i.e. direction, and women’s for social skills/memory, making them better equipped for multitasking.

So communication to men, content > context but to women, context > content.

Men find women’s form of communication illogical, pointless, waste-of-time, evil and hard-to-get! Women find men’s form of communication BORING.  

#3 Now that you understand this: What does it mean when women are hot and cold to you?

Well, her behaviors already have told you.

She is NOT that interested in you anymore – WHETHER it’s because you’re too boring because you wait too long building rapport like a frd OR you’ve become needy & approval-seeking beta male who can’t get her wet.

Women use body languages, subtle facial expressions/look, hand gestures, innuendos, appearance to communicate with her girls, they don’t have to say it out loud to understand what each other mean.

#4 But most men don’t get what women mean by their words, so I recommend you to always observe  women’ behaviors as better indicators of what they actually mean.

So yeah, she is NOT interested in you when her behaviors turn cold … because if women want to fvck you, they will always find excuses to fvck you.

For now, the best thing to do is NOT chasing for more, but to cut your attention, cut that loss, focus on other girls.

You can only win when she pursues you back, otherwise you need her more than she needs you and that means you become her bitch when you stay in such relationship!

This is just the tip of an iceberg of what I teach my MTFU Insider warriors.

If you want to understand more about women and stop being blind to what women are telling you… feel free to email us that you’re interested in the paid community.

Otherwise, check out the 7-day free course.

Bro, I have a Q for you and I want you to answer yourself HONESTLY: 為咗做愛，你可以去到幾盡呢？了

Are you willing to force yourself to become interested in the things girls like such as watching romance novels/movies or gossiping shit?

Are you willing to give up your academic or career route, follow the girl to another University or company, or even give up your dreams to SUPPORT that girl pursue her dream?

Are you willing to RESPECT her “I-am-not-ready-for-a-r/p” yet rationale,  stay friends with her, happily spend hours listening & solving problems for her, hoping that one day she will finally be touched by your care, effort and patience and choose to marry you?

Or are you willing go for a Long Distance Relationship with a girl for a few years because you believe “As long as we try hard, our love can conquer all”, and wait for the day when the day she comes back and fvck/love you again?

＃1 Well, if you answer YES and you are WILLING to sacrifice like that, you are the typical kind-hearted, romantic beta guy who thinks that women’ desire & affection can be EARNED by sacrificing oneself to meet her needs/interests.  

The sad truth is that most guys are really willing to give up everything 去到盡 just to have sex. They will do anything CRAZY including changing himself or his life priorities.

Again, that’s a logic fallacy.

Asking women what they want + complying with what women say they want + compromising yourself to gain women’s approval & acceptance, will NOT actually make her want to fvck you & love you.

#2 So what can you do if you want more sex and love from women?

Well, I’ve taught you many times: Women don’t like men who so easily shapeable.

Women want a masculine man who is independent and free, who has a strong self-belief about who he is, who take action to get what he wants, who isn’t an agreeable YES man listening to her orders.

#3 Saying yes to her, over-compliance to women, accommodating to her needs & sacrificing your own only mean that you will give up anything just to get pussy!

And that is the ultimate shit test you fail because women would rather want a guy who says NO to her because you need to take care of your own self-interest, THAN say YES to her and help her cum 10 times a night.

NEVER let women’s sex or potential sexual encounter control you!

When you choose YOURSELF first instead of choosing her/sex, you will be the ultimate prize every women want to win over.

I know it’s hard, I know it requires a lot of mental fortitude, but such mentality is what separates the few Alphas from the sea of Betas.

Which side are you going to choose?

Bro, you probably know that Alphas are much more sexually desirable to women than Betas, but do you know that the so-called Alphas and Betas are actually terms to describe the kind of MINDSETS & ATTITUDES towards women?

In reality, Alphas may NOT be a society-approved wealthy “success image” you may think.

Alphas can be a Mafia Boss who are now in prison and Betas can be those rich successful handsome guys who don’t understand the truth about women.

So in short, having an Alpha mindset doesn’t NOT mean you are good-virtue successful men in life and being successful good men does NOT mean you are an Alpha to women.

Now that you understand the terms, no matter how unsuccessful or successful you are in life right now, how can we AVOID thinking/behaving like an unattractive Beta to get girls?

Here are 2 big things to avoid:

＃1 DO NOT make yourself “more like”women hoping that by being alike, you can connect with women easily and fvck them.

Most beta guys try to use “I am not like other guys” to try to separate themselves from the “bad guys women are attracted to” and hopefully get women to like him more.

So betas try to convince women to choose because he is more special, more different, more “goodness”, more emotionally sensitive, more caringly listen to women talking, more compassionate ＆loving, more respect to women etc.

However, trying to be more like women is going to make you a better FEMALE FRIEND, NOT an attractive man because SEXUAL POLARITY is what creates sexual attraction between 2 sexes!

#2 DO NOT be affected when people labels you as 大男人／玩家／食家／狗公／厭女症 etc.

Understand, when you start to discard your old Beta-self and install new Alpha mindsets & behaviors, your old self and most other people will start to put labels on you when they see you getting results.

These labels are just psychological ways women use to stand out from competition.

And betas use the same method to try to make himself more likable to women and again hopefully women will appreciate and choose them.

When you encounter these attacks, understand it’s a beta way to show that he is more special than you, and you shouldn’t get so many girls…(although this won’t change the reality no matter how hard they try)

So there you have it.

You now know what the real difference between Alpha & Beta,

You now know you shouldn’t try to make yourself more “girl-like” or “stand on women’s side as a secret attempt to make them like you and fvck you”,

You now know that when ppl start to call you names, you’re most likely on the right track…

If you want to learn more about the psychology of women, visit www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it.

It’s FREE.

Bro, do you believe that “everyone always have someone in the world” and it is upon FATE for him to meet and fall in love with her?

Or do you believe that you will intuitively know when you meet your SOULMATE and you & this ONE PERFECT GIRL is going to belong to each other no matter what happens?

Well, if you have similar beliefs, I’m sorry to tell you that you are living in a over-romanticized fake world created by romantic novels/Disney cartoons/Hollywood stories/music lyrics/online dating sites promise/religious ideologies that are NOT based on reality.  

#1 This idea of “Mr. Right/ Mrs. Right” implies that there is only ONE person in the world perfectly compatible for you, and you should spend a lifetime in search of this “perfect soulmate” in order to be “happily living everafter”.

Sadly and heartbreakingly, that’s a lie.

There is no “one person” that you can merge with perfectly. No girls will be your perfect woman, and you won’t be girls’ perfect man.

There are only GOOD ones and BAD ones. And there are a fvck ton of “special girls” who can be GOOD to you or BAD add-on to your life.

#2 Do you feel sad, heart-broken or even angry that there will NEVER be a perfect one for you?

That’s okay because that’s a legitimate emotion when you discover that the real world is NOT the same as you were told.

But if you feel stuck and want to cling to the lie of “one soulmate”,

understand this dependency on ONE person is going to fvck up your psychology and ultimately your happiness & life.

Because when you are so DEPENDENT on the person “you’re supposed to be in love with”, you feel sad & meaningless when you don’t meet them…

OR when you think “you’ve met them”, you will SETTLE and STAY in a shitty harmful relationship that isn’t good for you and you fear of losing THE ONE.

#3 The point is: DO NOT idealize or romanticize any kinds of relationships you have with women.

When you mistakenly believe there’s only ONE PERFECT GIRL in the world, you will BLIND YOURSELF and overinvest your life into an IMAGE that is never based on reality.

The truth is: One, there are MANY women that could be compatible with you and can be good for you. (and of course many bad women you should avoid)

Two, so called “good women” can be created by intelligent selection, how you FRAME the initial relationship and how you SHAPE her over time to become even more “compatible to you”.

#4 Of course these are advanced concepts I teach my guys inside our Insider community, but for now just understand…

Never fear that “this ONE girl may go away OR I may lose this perfect girl” because the day you are afraid to lose a girl is the day you ACTUALLY have already lost the girl.

Some deep mindfvck wisdom here, swallow it again if you don’t understand.

Bro, no matter how old you are, I bet you have once thought about how to get your ex girlfriend/ ex wife/ ex SP/ random girl you nearly seduced back.

Bro, no matter how old you are, I bet you have once thought about how to get your ex girlfriend/ ex wife/ ex SP/ random girl you nearly seduced back.

The reason you have such thought is because you want to return your relationship BACK to the good old days when she was so passionately in love with you.

However, after a few months of intense passion, or a few years of comfort, you realized that she doesn’t want to fvck you anymore. What happened?

#1 90% of these cases are due to the fact that you’ve become complacent.

You have enjoyed too much COMFORT, you two have become too FAMILIAR, too ALIKE like the same person.

And because of this, there is no more SEXUAL POLARITY. You have become like a woman and she has become like a man. No polarity = no passion.

#2 Worse still, most men try to become even more pleasing and tries to DO MORE for the girl hoping that will make her want to eagerly fvck him again.

However, you’ll notice that more favors/effort will not exchange more great sex… because she just didn’t feel like to fvck you (even if she tries to).

Why this happen?

#3 It’s because you can never use LOGIC to convince a woman to genuinely desire you. You cannot negotiate terms to make her eager to fvck you.

When you overtly ask a woman what you can do to make her want to fvck you, that already KILLS sexual tension.

It’s like you asking how much a night to a chicken, she accept your money and fvck you, but she is just doing out of obligation, but NOT genuine desire.

#4 So what this means to you is that: When a woman feel OBLIGATED to have sex with you, she will NOT truly get wet and desire to fvck you.

Instead, you should understand that along the relationship you have done some MISTAKES that have killed the TENSION, thus lost attraction and genuine desire.

(If you don’t know how to create TENSION and use it in seduction or r/p, visit www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

When you know how to create tension, you will know how to attract and keep a woman who genuinely desires you.