作者: Man神

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Q: Hi Man, 最近開始留意你嘅分享，非常支持！加油！

我有個問題想請教，我先前收到好人卡，我其實已經慢慢整理緊心理，當番女仔係普通同事，

 

但佢用好奇怪既方法避我(避得黎又比我見到佢閃開，有時又當我透明，又群起佢嘅小圈子杯葛我），其實佢會係d咩心態，我又應該點樣處理先洽當？ 謝謝你的意見

 

=> An obvious immature response from an immature young girl, detailed answer please find here:

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Q: Hi Manson ,咁我都睇咗你個Channel大約都應該有3到4個月到，你D片其實都對我日常生活都好大幫助啦，咁都希望你嘅Channel都可以越做越大啦，

 

Btw,我有樣嘢想請教下你，話説我前幾日就同我一個想溝嘅對象wtsapp到夜晚3 4點，咁之後隔咗幾日我就冇再揾佢，

 

係禽晚佢就主動wtsapp我啦，但係之後倾咗冇耐我就已讀咗佢，

 

咁我想請教下，我係咪開始對果果對象有小小吸引力同埋我下步係咪應該嘗試去約佢出尼呢？ – Jeffrey

 

Q:  Man, 其實係e一刻有冇得做愛唔係最重要，而係點樣可以認識到女仔，而且可以發展下去，因為我本人係好怕羞，自信心唔算高的人，請問有咩方法可以幫我，教我

– Kenneth

 

Both questions have been answered in detail HERE:

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

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Q: 話說我係一個啱啱入職既part time, 今日舖頭gathering完後，我同個已經有boyfriend靚女同事搭車返歸，佢問我有冇追緊女仔。

 

我即刻緊張，然後失控，我答佢冇因為唔想再hurt女仔，之後爆自己以前幾賤，又俾d對話佢睇，好似逼佢知我d秘密咁。

==> Needy behavior.

You want to vomit your history to her & get her to know you BECAUSE you want to earn her VALIDATION, LOVE and ACCEPTANCE!

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但我後知後覺feel倒自己錯咗，但我當時控制唔到自己，請問我以後仲應該點同依個女仔溝通好？繼續講心事？定收皮？

 

其實尼個失控既問題我一直都有，平時同普通冇feel既女仔conversation完全冇問題。

 

但當對住有feel，靚女就會緊張，然後失控，我真係好想克服尼個問題！以後遇到緊張既情況下應該點放鬆？同埋可以點解決尼個問題？ – Andy

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Being nervous is not a problem, being not in control is.

Solution:

#1 Nervous = Excitement = Same biological response (Adrenaline)

#2 You’re idealizing her, you want her to LIKE you, which is NOT an attractive male attitude.

#3 Deep Breathing = activate parasympathetic nervous system = CALM you down!

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

Q: (請不要透露名字)我識左一個女仔大約2星期，佢失戀冇耐，佢約過我一次出街，之後我就被佢嗰種氣質吸引，

 

咁我同佢去街都有幫佢攞野，幫佢開野飲，我都有主動搵話題，

 

出完街隔左幾日我就表白，佢就話考慮下，咁最後都拒絕左，咁佢都話仲可以做下朋友咁，

 

咁我就想約多佢一次出街，但係佢都唔太願意，話唔得閒，

 

請問有咩方法追佢？ – W

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How many mistakes can you find in the above story? Comment and let me know!

 

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Q:  我想問野，我係網上識左個女仔，同佢由app傾到wts，傾既內容咩都有啲，

 

不過都唔係好深入，但係傾既內容又唔係hea答，又一次機緣下出泥見過面，大家都幾好，無咩尷尬，之後都幾好傾，但係都係上午同收工後，其他時間都係唔回覆，

 

我諗住傾都唔錯會約到，點知又fail，不過佢既回覆係”好似好好玩 🤯

 

但我星期日要執行里同準備旅行啲野😢” ，

 

我主動已經約過兩次都係唔成功，我想知點可以令佢同我升溫，同我唔知佢係咪真係對我無好感或興趣，但好多朋友睇過都覺得係有啲啲? – Wind

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#1 Too much rapport, no sexual spark of sexual tension

#2 Over Communication

#3 Too platonic in all interactions

#4 Can’t save it because you’ve ruined the 1st face-to-face hang out

 

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Q: Hi Man神，我係Dee，長話短說，最近工作壓力大，精神攰令自己冇心情同人傾偈，唔太想向人提供價值，感覺被吸走能量而不斷抱怨

 

但我的朋友話成熟男人應該要堅強，即使工作再攰，在見面當下都要做到最好令人滿意跟自己相處

 

如果係咁Man神，我可以點樣訓練先會令自己變得堅強呢？

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#1 Life Experience

#2 Train your body & mind for strength, protect your mindset everyday

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Oh Man，原來領袖係要開放對每個人都要對話交流，我仲好似「活在自己世界中」，只跟有興趣的人說話，難怪我在團體的受歡迎程度唔太高

 

But有件事想請教你，其實無論係咩關係，包括溝女，都係先從識人交朋友嘅心態開始嗎？因為我每逢帶住溝女心態面對陌生嘅女仔總係好唔自在

Man神多謝你用心解答我的問題 – Dee

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#1 The more strangers you talk to, the higher chance you will be successful

#2 Attractive Social Mindset is always:

– Have FUN for yourself first

– Bring that FUN and positive emotions to others

– See who’s OPEN to connect with and see if they meet your STANDARDS (i.e. You QUALIFY them).

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

Do you know why so many good men got cheated by their GF/wives?

Do you want to understand why sometimes women could suddenly leave a relationship without explanation to you?

 

The reason you get cheated is because as a man, you’re NOT providing one of the most precious (yet FREE) thing all feminine women want: Presence

 

If you are NOT being present when you’re with a woman, （人在心不在） women will feel NOT understood, which shuts down her intimacy with you.

 

In other words, if you aren’t spending QUALITY TIME with her when you 2 are together, you 2 will lose that connection women crave.

 

And if time goes by and she can’t enjoy these quality time, women will try to find it elsewhere.

And elsewhere = from another man

 

Eventually, she will leave you or even BETRAY you at critical moments.

 

That is why sometimes women would rather have Q.T. with a lower quality guy, than no Q.T. with a good, high quality man.

 

So how do you maximize the QUALITY whenever you spend time with women, here are 2 easy strategies:

 

#1 Eye Contact

– Most relationships suck because nowadays suckers pay attention more to their phone than their partner.

– A simple fix: Stop using your fucking phone when hanging out.!

Look into her eyes when she’s saying sth and when YOU’re saying something.

At the same time, FEEL what she is feeling and LISTEN without judgement.

– When you are NOT caught up in your mind and using your PRESENCE to FEEL her, that’s a masculine attractive way that turns on her feminine side.

 

#2 Focus on making dates MORE FUN

– Cut all unnecessary grey zones where you two are together but doing different things, maximize having more FUN together and enjoying yourself in these activities.

– Many couples become complacent after tgt. They become too SERIOUS about small stuff.

– But when you guys hang out, you should always drop all the baggages and just have some light playful silly FUN.

– Too much pressure/seriousness always kill a relationship that was once started because of the FUN, PLAYFUL, CAREFREE nature where good emotions are created.

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

Q: 比我介紹一下，我今年dse畢業，成績普通，只係炒咗一科中文，所以入唔到u。

 

有一位女仔，佢細我一年，幾靚，同一間小學，但我地唔同級，本身大家關係好疏離，後來大家上咗唔同既中學，我中四降班，所以同個女仔同一時間考Dse ,

 

到五月頭大家考完果陣，我想識佢係因為我自己無性方面的追求，我明白女仔係要搵一個比到安全感嘅男仔，我唔想咁好嘅女仔比其他男仔遭達。

=> Stop having so much negative association with sex.

 

Attractive men are HOT GUYS who enjoy sex with women, NOT a fvckless sexless monk.

 

The word “safe” does not mean girls don’t want sex or just platonic relationships.

 

之所以我考完試先whatsapp佢，係因為佢話學業重要，佢中學係女校，到而家無男朋友，

 

我比咗signal佢，話我係非常專一嘅，而人生目標我都清楚曬，當我下定決心同個女仔whatsapp，佢都會回下d emoji果d，

 

最後我有表白，佢好似唔明咁，

=> Of course she doesn’t understand.

 

Because she thinks you are just a platonic sexless harmless gay nice sheep who is afraid to express your natural desires as a sexual human being!!!

 

就是咁一直都是whatsapp嘅形式互相傾咗4-5個月，就黎佢生日，

 

我本身係一個肥仔，我未試過同佢出街，所以我付出好多，我都想佢生日果陣約佢，所以我不段減肥，

 

到底我應該繼續還是停止這段關係呢？

=> over overinvestment will make you justify your behaviors, back-rationalize that you “really really love her”

 

= she doesn’t need to do shit to earn your respect or attention.

 

= lack of attraction

 

=> Your choice to continue as a friend, (since she can’t feel any sexual tension)

 

OR cut this unsatisfying relationship and move on for a few years.

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Everyone knows that EXERCISE can improve your health physically, mentally and emotionally,

 

but do you know that certain exercises can also improve your sex drive and performance?

 

Below we’ll talk about what these exercises are, why they help boost your sex drive, and how you can reap the max. benefits from them.

 

#1 Running

-> Release endorphins, Runner’s high, feel euphoric

 

-> If you can get a girl to run with you, you 2 will attribute that high to each other, and thus lead to more passion in the bedroom

 

#2 Strength Training

-> Lifting heavy weights will boost your T. And more T = more sex drive

 

-> Also, when you have more muscles and STRENGTH, you can perform a lot more positions than being a weak skinny dude

 

#3 Stretching

-> Increase flexibility & blood flow, also increase awareness of your body, which means you can FEEL your body and sexual urges more strongly

 

#4 Yoga

-> This is sth I’m incorporating MORE in my life apart from strength training

 

-> I’ll say that almost ALL guys/girls who are great at sex DO YOGA.

-> Because practicing yoga give you more flexibility, body awareness, clam mind, core strength, stamina. Also helps RELAX your shoulders, hips, back which are main muscles for sex.

 

#5 Meditation

-> Although meditation isn’t a physical exercise, it trains your mental focus and emotional awareness.

 

-> Low Libido is NOT just a physical problem, many guys can’t get hard/lose sex drive because they are IN their fucking HEAD and THINKING TOO MUCH.

 

-> Thus, spend 15-20 mins a day meditating will GROUND you back into your body and increase your awareness of sex drive.

Hello man sir 近排睇左好多集你既channel 有啲野唔明白

最近識到個女仔, 出黎見過幾次, 幾岩傾, 開始大家flirt each other

大家住外國, 條女返香港一個月

之後我有個fd又想溝依條女（我去到後期先知）, 依家條女就兩個都唔㨂

有咩可以做定係究竟應唔應該該approach 佢

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