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One of my Insider brothers asked me what does a frame／框架 means and how we can apply that in our dating/relationship life.
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While I’ve answered him in detail inside, let’s briefly discuss why men must always control the 框架 and let women walk into in.
#1 What is 框架? 每當兩個人交流時，某個人嘅框架總會係較強，佔主導，而另一人嘅框架喺會被吞噬然後被消滅。
所謂嘅框架 = 心理上潛意識嘅現實，講緊我哋以『邊個人嘅現實』去運作
所以你控制到框架 = 你擁有上拍位 = 你控制到大家之間對弈嘅『架構／骨架』
= 你個人嘅決定／慾望／信念，就會較容易影響對方
= 對方較容易『聽你話』
簡單講，框架本身並唔係力量，但你控制到兩性之間嘅框架就係你間接攞到力量嘅方法。因為邊個擁有框架 = 我哋以男人 OR 女人嘅現實去運行大家嘅關係。
＃2 What influences our frame? 我哋個人嘅成長經歷，社會灌輸比你嘅concepts，個人心理狀態，我哋受到咩教育等等。
Welcome to <A Billion Wicked Thoughts/十億個邪惡的念頭> Ep.4, where we will explore the CRAZY visual cues that arouses men. We’ll explore the remaining few points of WHAT kind of things men like to see in sex.
#1 Breasts are the most popular body part in sexual searches in every country, and the most popular category exclusive to heterosexual men.
A study in France used a padded bra to test how often men would approach the same researcher with an ABC cup when she was at a bar: A: 18 B: 28 C: 60
Although no mention of D-G cup, normally larger breasts are popular.
However, there are NO nipple-size websites or COLOR of nipples. Those are not influential visual cues in men.
#2 Men from a broad array of cultures prefer small feet on women. There are 276 foot sites on the Alexa list, and only one hand-focused one (Glove Mansion).
Why are men attracted to feet even though women decorate their fingernails with manicure to draw attention? -> Maybe searching for foot erotica are highly correlated with searches for bondage and submission porn. e.g. some men fantasize licking a woman’s feet
#3 Now, the common Q comes: Do women prefer bigger dicks?
Well… the answer from data is: men are more interested in penises than women + men are much more interested in large penises than women !
Academic Survey: 15% of women are dissatisfied with their partner’s penis size. 45% of men are dissatisfied with their own penis size.
Eye tracking study: When men and women looked at non-erotic images, men consistently direct gaze to male crotch, women rarely do so.
In romance novels, it’s rare to detail a man’s penis size. Only in porn does the penis is always under the spotlight.
9% of women wish they had smaller breasts; just 0.2% of men wish they had smaller penises. -> For men, penis can never be too big.
Why men care penis size so much, check out others and show off their own?
-> In apes, penis is a social tool. The erect primate penis is used as a sign of male-male aggression, to mark territory, and as a sexual invitation to females.
#4 One very popular erotic art in the world is Japanese anime porn (“hentai”).
The typical anime female is a high school teenager. Her voice is extremely high-pitched. She frequently wears school uniforms, complete with pleated skirts, vests, and saddle shoes.
She is often sexually inexperienced and reacts with embarrassment at the mention of sex (indicated by reddening cheeks).
Yet, despite all these vivid cues of youth, she is drawn with impossibly large breasts, a perfectly round and firm butt, a low waist-to-hip ratio, and small feet.
It’s most popular visual erotic art because is SUPERCHARGE all male visual cues, so that’s why men love to watch animated porn.
Now that we have a better understanding of what men like to look at, we can ask—why? That’s what we will attempt in the NEXT video.
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Welcome to <A Billion Wicked Thoughts/十億個邪惡的念頭> Ep.3, where we will explore the Main visual cues that activate male desire i.e. WHAT kind of things men like to see in sex. There are 6 major points of this section.
#1 Male 獼猴 are willing to trade juice to view pics of female monkey’s butts (monkey porn), rather than powerful males or friendly female faces.
Similarly, the most popular adult pay sites attract 75% men, 25% women. BUT
Only 2% of porn subscriptions are billed to credit cards with female names.
Meaning: Willingness to pay for porn indicates men’s motivation to see images is STRONGER than woman. E.g. many high level management or government staff us taxpayer money to see graphic sex, even it risks public shame or lose jobs.
#2 AGE dominates sexual searches, adult website content, and porn videos.
Most common ages = 16 + 18. Then 50, 40 (MILF) 60 (GILF).
The single most popular search term in Pornhub is “Mom”
Why males desire older women!? -> It’s said that cougars are more aggressive at pursuing sex than younger women.
2010 study found that women age 27-45 have more sexual fantasies, a greater willingness to have one-night stands, and a greater willingness to have casual sex than women in other age ranges.
So 1/4 men who search for teens also search for moms.
How about GILF? 2 countries showing the highest interest in “granny porn” are Kenya (where young people are encouraged to discuss sexual matters with their grandparents rather than their parents) and UK (where many schoolboy’s first contact with a grown woman occurred when older schoolmarms spanked them).
#3 Bro, you do like slim women instead of fat chicks right? In fact, many sex scientists believe that a woman’s waist-to-hip ratio (0.7) is most appealing.
HOWEVER, data says that for every search for a “skinny” girl, there are three searches for a “fat” girl. On the Alexa Adult List, there are 504 sites dedicated to heavy ladies, and only 182 to skinny ones.
Why? It might be because Many BBW (Big, Beautiful, Women) pornhave low ratio due to their excessive hip size.
But one thing is clear: toothpick-thin model women are rare in male targeted porn.
Q: Do you like play with breasts, legs or ass? Do you know which ONE body part that you’re paying attention to when you watch porn that might make you gay?
We’ll reveal some even more crazy data next time that may shock you!
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Welcome to <A Billion Wicked Thoughts/十億個邪惡的念頭> Ep.2, where we will understand what do men and women REALLY like and the difference sexual cues we have.
#1 It is very hard to study the differences b/w men vs women sexual interests because it’s hard to ACQUIRE DATA. Direct observation is best, but people don’t like to be asked about their private lives (feel guilty) +hard to get funding from govt or institution (taboo).
But authors used Dogpile.com (not in use now) , a meta-engine that combine result from Google, Yahoo, Bing etc., to get 400 million searches July 2009 – 2010 as source data.
In the unfiltered search, they find stuff like shemales in prom dresses 人妖, Twilight slash Edward and Jacob 吸血新世紀, wives caught cheating on cam, best romance novels with alpha heroes, kendra wilkinson sex tape, spanking stories 調教打屁股, free gay video tube etc.
#2 In cases where the search was ambiguous, the researchers used the AOL search histories released in 2006 to distinguish whether the terms typically appeared with other sexual searches.
MILF = 熟女/Mother I’d Like to Fuck
So a total of 55 million of the searches were classified as sexual.
And interestingly, the top 20 interests search = 80% all searches Top 35 top interests = 90% of all searches
Meaning: Most ppl’s desires are actually MORE COMMON than you think. Our sexual desires are shared by many other people.
#3 The most popular erotic web sites reflect interest of men & women’s sexual brains:
Meaning: Men’s and women’s tastes are radically different.
On the web, men prefer images, graphic sex. i.e. sheer lust, physical gratification, no courtship/commitment/relationships. Minimum plot line, focus on the sexual acts, a lot of female bodies – face, breast, genitals.
Women prefer erotic stories of romance relationships i.e. the heroine identify, win the heart of and marry the one man who is right for her, not just sex.
They seek out different MODES of stimulation. Men prefer to watch, women prefer to read and discuss.
＃4 Authors theorize that men and women respond to different sexual cues.
Our mind’s taste software responds to 5 perceptual inputs: sweet, salty, sour, savory香, and bitter. E.g. sweetness detects sugar, imply energy, so we like it. E.g. bitterness detects alkaloid 生物鹼 substance, normally toxic plant, unplesant
Same as our sexual desire, we have evolved psychological mechiansm to detect + assess mate value.
And the next episodes will help us understand specific innate cues that trigger desire in women and men.
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Have you wondered why it is so HARD for men to stop masturbating with porn even though they know it’s harming their body and mind?
Have you wondered why women are so obsessed with romance novels like <Twilight><吸血新世紀／暮光之城>, <50 Shades of Grey><格雷的五十道陰影>?
Are you interested in understanding the differences of male & female minds towards sexuality and how they are differently aroused?
Well bro, I am starting this new book series <A Billion Wicked Thoughts/十億個邪惡的念頭> and will start to explain to you the differences, according to very extensive HARDCORE DATE from online searches.
#1 Before this study came out, the only BIG sex study was done in 1950s by Alfred Kinsey, where he and his team interviewed >18,000 people with 521 Qs about sexual interests.
Those were very old data and the methods were limited because it relies on self-report AND it’s mostly educated, middle class Caucasians.
But the authors in this book are neuroscientists, they examined >400 million different searches and the search history of more than 650,000 people, providing a vastly more detailed and improved answer to the Q: what do men and women really desire?
#2 So why is this book a much STRONGER data that reflects more TRUTH about human sexuality?
Because billions of people are FREE to search their most secret erotic desires in a totally anonymous way.
They are in private settings, they are NOT censored and NOT afraid to reveal their trustest desires. So these datas are reflect the truth in a non-judgemental way.
#3 So bro, I plan to use about 10 episodes (5-7 mins) to reveal the MOST important findings in this book, and explain to you HOW you can utilize these data to your advantage when it comes to dating/sex.
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#4 What you need to know now is this: By analyzing the secret desires of tens of millions of men + women, AND explaining the mechanism behind that, you will discover some DARK sides of human sexuality.
We are penetrating through people’s mind with ZERO filter. The sexual brain is NOT politically correct, NOT socially conservative, NOT morally upright.
If you want to become good with women or sex, I invite you to cast away all the moral/religious/social/familial/cultural IDEAS or beliefs about SEX, and use an objective lens to observe the harcore TRUTH.
You may feel offended, feel sad, feel angry, feel crazy, feel negative about certain stuff, but that’s just the statistics and it’s up to you to see them or not.
I hope you will enjoy this <十億個邪惡的念頭> series, if you have any Qs or anything you want to say, leave a CM below and let me know.
We will start Ch.1 in the next video so I will see you there!
Best solution is always AVOID them at the first place, but what if sometimes we can’t? E.g. travelling, in bad marriage, at work.
Below are ways how to take care yourself.
#1 Don’t rush to categorize them into boxes.
Use the checklist to see where he/she fits, and see what measures best fit the situation. If life is being threatened (e.g. gunman) , don’t delay and RUN!
#2 If you can’t just leave, find help.
E.g. abusive spouse/boss, you may need a longer time to leave -> see if you can transfer/work in different shift or department. Talk to HR/management team, build supportive alliance, and prepare to quit
If it’s bad marriage/parents -> you might need mental health professionals to step in and guide you, or social services or police to intervene.
#3 將行為歸類建立檔案，儲證據，有備無患
Sometimes, you can change sb’s behaviors by writing down their words & actions. But even if you can’t, by writing down what they do by date & time, you are building evidence and a case that can be useful in future actions. So a written journal is better than your memory in case you need any court actions.
#4 尋求外界支持，告訴別人你的處境
You want people supporting you and validating your experience, or even step in and help you one day. Never do this alone.
#5 Be careful those who limit your physical freedom
Whether it’s a relationship/group/organization/cult, when sb tries to isolate you from family/friends/co-workers/ppl you trust, that’s red flag because dangerous ppl use isolation to control you.
***Always avoid getting into vehicles with strangers! Once you’re there, your potential for danger increase dramatically. Joe advises us that even if the person has a knife or gun, AVOID GETTING IN!!!
Force yourself out – screaming, kicking, biting, scratching by any means !!!
#6 設定界限，不容越界！
You get what you tolerate with. When you don’t enforce your boundaries, people often step into it. So set up these lines that can NEVER be crossed, once it is crossed, take action to enforce the consequence.
#7 避免事事配合，陷入被操控的處境。
E.g. Don’t allow people who are late and make you wait, don’t change your schedule for them, don’t accommodate to their needs, don’t reward bad behaviors.
Even if you love the person, healthy love is those with healthy boundaries where the other person RESPECTS you. So don’t let people’s bad behaviors get away with special treatments.
#8 讓孩子得到正面的傾訴渠道
If you have kids OR younger bros/sisters, you have responsibility to protect these innocent children and give them opportunities to be away from dangerous homes or places. Help them understand that any ABUSE (physical or psychological) is NOT normal or acceptable.
#9 In conclusion, 遭遇危險(financial/emotional/psychological/physical)，立即果斷採取行動！Distance yourself immediately or leave the relationship ASAP.
Stragtegies: – Listen to your body/gut/mind that tells you to get away – It may be safer NOT to talk/confront the dangerous person directly. So think about your exit strategy on how you can leave/exit safely. – Don’t face it alone. Use your network of trustworthy family/friends for help
– Get professional help! Support groups/police/social service/help lines are established for such purpose! Don’t be shy! – Prepare financially for the escape – Whenever you need to do a BUSINESS DEAL, ask a lot of Qs, delay decision making, ask more qualified professionals to assess a situation
– When you realize nothing can be done for the person whom you suffer, it’s time to let go and save your well being!! – It may NOT be your fault, don’t blame yourself, it’s NOT a time to act like a victim and do nothing – Joe reinteracted that dangerous personalities RARELY get better, it’s a hopeless situation so maintain your distance.
#10 That’s ALL from this book! We have an obligation to ourselves and others to be safe, so help yourself first.
Treating others with dignity and respect is crucial, but that doesn’t mean you have social obligation to allow others to abuse/torment/victimize us.
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As humans, we have strong abilities to adapt. But we will die like frogs in hot water if we adapt to people with dangerous personalities.
So when you’re suspicious with certain people after going through this series, it is up to you to be vigilant, to assess threats and dangers, and take necessary actions to save your life.
Recommended books to read:
Reid Meloy’s classic, Violence Risk and Threat Assessment;
Fatal Flaws by Stuart Yudofsky, MD;
The Criminal Personality by SamuelYochelson and Stanton E. Samenow; Without Conscience by Robert Hare;
The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker;
#1 What to do?
Don’t think you can TALK to them to change them, OR give them another chance…because they DON’T think they have any problems. Even if they say they will seek help, they won’t.
Rmb, they have character flaws, they can’t self-reflect, they don’t think they need to change, so even professionals cannot guarantee to help them.
E.g. Narcissists-> lash out because your advice negate their perfect self-image Emotionally Unstable -> lash out because that’s their nature Paranoid -> further confirm you are enemy, distrust you Predatotr -> can’t see fault, may become violent
#2 How to protect yourself daily?
1) Use the checklist in this book to ASSESS the individuals you are concerned with, remind yourself what people to avoid and WHY they behave such ways
2) 別純粹望，別視而不見，要小心觀察！
E.g. stop bury yourself into dumb phones when walking, don’t block your ears by headphones, because predators ALWAYS look for easy unaware targets to hurt, exploit or kill!
3) 相信直覺，感受呢個人俾咩感覺你？ Our body has internal alarm system that warns us from dangers, but you must pay attention to it. So be aware of how you FEEL and what impression a person gives you.
Does your 胃部緊縮，頭髮直豎，皮膚泛紅，反胃焦慮，隱隱覺得不對？These physiological fears might be warning you against this dangerous person.
4) Nice people does NOT mean good person 討喜不等於善良
Doing nice things for you e.g. help you carry stuff, making fun with kids, being pleasant to neighbors … does NOT mean they have good hearts, they may be evil behind the doors.
Nice actions can be faked to gain personal advantage. But goodness comes from heart and is part of the person’s nature, goodness is about one’s character and intentions. So know the difference.
5) Control space and distance as barriers E.g. walls, fences, gates, doors, car windows, personal distance when you use ATM or car, personal space when arguing
6) Control time – slow things down
Dangerous personalities usually want you to act quickly – get married, sign contract, write check, let them enter your house, adopt their beliefs…
Stop that, slow things down, create time buffers to THINK and ACT WITHOUT PRESSURE. Often when you feel you’re being rushed, sth is wrong.
7) 小心那些操控玩弄你情緒嘅人，because dangerous personalities are skillful social 扯線公仔 who say/do things to control you
E.g. threat you to commit suicide if you don’t do XYZ. When you feel that your emotions is being manipulated by that person, be careful.
8) 評估其『危險人格』的嚴重性與頻率。
You need to assess where the person falls into the spectrum. Sometimes ppl may display 1-2 behaviors that might alert you once for a while, but if those behaviors happens repeatedly and increasing over time, be careful as they may be affecting you emotionally and physically.
9) Pay attention to time & location whenever you do stuff Violence increase from 8pm-2am, especially when alcohol and drugs are involved. So when you do a low-risk normal thing e.g. buy from 7-11, it might become a high risk thing if your street is dark, quiet, late at night.
10) Pay attention to how you walk, don’t act like a victim Predators pick weak passive inattentive targets by how they walk.
So when you’re out, pay attention and observe the people. Don’t use phone, keep your hands free, face traffic, avoid alleys, avoid places where sb can hide.
11) 先查證，後信任
You should spend more time to VERIFY those who you’re dating/marrying. Check if her personal info is accurate, see if she really works where she mentions, see if she has married before, see if she is a criminal etc. Otherwise, you won’t know if she is really trustworthy or not.
12) Don’t wait too long, act immediately if you sense sth is strange
Facing dangerous people, you don’t have much time to act. If you don’t know what to do, distance yourself asap.
Qs: What are the REAL REASONS 許志安 cheat? Is 黃心穎 a total slut? What will happen to Sammi? How about the poor little boy 馬國明？
Well brother, these are ALL irrelevant Qs you shouldn’t ask yourself. As you will see, almost 99% of articles/videos will be based on ENTERTAINMENT that adds zero value to your life.
It’s about making you feel emotional, adding drama to the mess so that there are more views. Afterall, that’s what news/media do.
Therefore, in this video breakdown, we will NOT focus on the gossip.We will NOT stand on the moral high ground to judge what’s right or wrong.
My intention of using this material is to ADD VALUE TO YOUR LIFE as a man. I want you to take this as 學術研究 to see the TRUTH about sexual dynamics between men and women, to understand the difference between sexual desire and love, and OBSERVE your initial reaction towards this incident.
Because YOUR NATURAL REACTION already reflects whether you’re BETA or ALPHA lens to see the world.
Now, we will breakdonw into a few sections in this video: #1 What you can learn from 許志安 as an extreme BETA #2 How you should choose women – NOT Sammi, NOT 黃心穎 #3 The only thing 馬國明 should do #4 Other BETAs you should avoid becoming – taxi driver, the staff in Apple, those who attack 許志安 in front of girlfriends.
#1 What you can learn from 許志安 as an extreme BETA
1) He got oneitis 真命天女症.
Beta believes in romantic ideals. He tries to find his one soulmate. And then he justifies his clinginess by saying he “loves her so much”.
-> Therefore you can see 許志安 always come back to Sammi after breakups in the past 30 years. Because when he was ~20 years old, he already thought Sammi was the one. That’s a classic idealizing love behavior.
2) Beta always WANTS to be hero, he wants to save a girl from her problems, he wants to treat her nice and takes responsibility of HER emotions/problems.
-> That’s why my guess is another reason why 許志安 stays with a woman who is KNOWN for her crazy ups and downs personality (like Lady Gaga, Britney Spears, Madonna). He genuinely wants to fix Sammi’s emotional drama. He fails, but since he believes “committing” is what good man does, he continues living in such shitty relationship.
Now, let’s look deeper in the 記者會.
3) He keeps apologizing to everyone, to Sammi, to his fans etc. “犯這個錯誤起了色心，我覺得現在應該承擔後果。”
This implies he is SHAMEFUL towards his natural sexual desire for hot woman. Not only that but he is also apologizing being a MAN who likes to fuck.
“我覺得自己好錯、好討厭、好丟臉、好噁心、好陌生。”
He is ugly NOT because he cheats, every Alpha leader is history had multiple women at the same time until 100 years ago. He is UGLY because he is so weak/powerless that he needs to apologise to his REAL DESIRE as a MAN and he doesn’t have the BALLS to step up to OWN AND CLAIM his manhood.
4) “因為我自己做了一件不被原諒的事。” What does this imply? This is saying in the past 30 years, Sammi ALWAYS had the dominant frame in the relationship.
But since he is a nice guy, he TOLERATES that shit and keeps going back to Sammi until Sammi is good enough but choose him. At home, Sammi is the boss so 許志安 is always being emasculated. After years of marriage like that, there’s no way BETA won’t need a break and cheat for some younger, hotter girls.
5) “我最錯的地方是失去我自己。” “我這一刻是沒了靈魂的，我是一個壞掉的人。”
“我會暫停我所有工作，直到找到一個真正的自己，重新去檢視自己”
He emphasises so much on being BAD person, he loses his “real self” as being a good guy, being a morally upright dude in society.
That’s what BETA do. Beta always use the “I am a good devoted bf/ husband/ citizen” in society as a CARD to attract girls. But in reality, they are just pussies who keeps hiding away from the REAL ASPECTS of themselves – the ones that are deemed “bad” by society/religion/culture. They keep living in SHAME and that’s why betas have fucked up psychology.
Now let’s briefly mention the other parties in this incident.
#1 As I have mentioned, Sammi is known for her ups and downs emotional personality. But betas love to act like Prince to save girls’ from her shit, to take responsibility of OTHERS shit, that’s why 許志安’s mistake from day 1 is to use “i will save girls” strategy to get girls, attracted sb he shouldn’t have touched, AND kept fixing a problem he can never fix.
I am not saying Sammi is a bad person, but I am saying when it comes to choosing what kind of women you want to put next to your side, you must be RUTHLESS like you’re having a billion dollar business deal.
#2 How about 黃心穎? Before I analyze about her, I want you to notice how SOCIETY is going to slut shame her as chicken, especially women.
Why? Because that’s a psychological battle played between female species. Even a woman herself loves sex and sucks dick, she IS going to slut shame other women who are competitors. This is to ensure that the best gene goes to her instead of the other girl.
As regards choosing women, 許志安 probably isn’t the first guy she wants to hook up with. She probably has been fvcking other guys behind 馬國明, who is another extreme beta.
However, even if her reputation is tarnished, many betas will still want to be her bf or even marry her. So the best strategy to handle these girls if you meet one? Just fvck her but never be serious.
#3 Now, what should 馬國明 do? Well, he is a famous nice good guy who always seem to be ignorant of what’s happening and willing to get his balls cut.
If he’s NOT ruthlessly dumping a cheater IMMEDIATELY, you will know why 馬國明 deserves to be cheated again and again.
Finally, I want you to see the BIGGER PICTURE about the whole incident.
#1 The real reason why the taxi driver reports to Apple is probably NOT JUST about money, even though he may get a few thousands or more for this juicy story.
The real reason he does that is probably because: He is JEALOUS that 許志安 is going to fuck a hot girl he can never FUCK.
This taxi driver probably has a tiger wife at home, nagging him all day and all he can do is to cheat in mainland.
But seeing a celebrity can get better pussies? He is pissed, so he is going to DESTROY 許志安 secretly to feel better about himself.
No matter how he justifies that – feeling unjust for Sammi, hating pretty girls like 黃心穎 who never will fuck him, want to help 馬國明 know the truth – becoming a justice warrior and ATTACKING powerful beta is the only way they can do to pull down a higher status beta.
2) How about the staff in Apple Daily?
As I said, the media only cares about profiting your EYEBALLS. They are not to help Sammi or 馬國明, they are not to destroy 許志安 黃心穎, they will just find creative ways every day to get your ATTENTION and earn profit from it.
If you want to know what the news is about, just read Ryan Holiday’s <Trust me, I am not lying>.
3) The last point of today is that: I want you to OBSERVE your initial reaction towards this incident.
Did you leave a comment to 網絡公審 許志安? Did you HATE women like 黃心穎 because they are so sexual BUT they are not sexual towards you?
Did you feel sympathy for Sammi immediately EVEN THOUGH you have no idea who is suffering in that 30-year relationship? Did you laugh about 馬國明 because he is such a naive dork who always get taken advantage of?
Most importantly, when you talk about this with other women (gf/wife) in public, are you trying to shame 許志安 like most people are doing now?
If you do, you need to be careful. This is a strong signal that you too are operating in BETA MODE, trying to stand on the side of women and trying to portray a “I am good morally upright guy” image to attract girls.
This video is NOT for you to 食花生，this video is helping you to SEE whether you actually is just another less powerful, less famous, less affluent 許志安 – who is doing similar things with a similar beta mindset in regards to sex and relationships.
Cheating in relationships is NEVER the real problem, the real problem is always CHEATING YOURSELF and not facing what you truly want in life, and then settle in mediocre relationships, UNTIL that doesn’t work and EXPLODE one day that harms everyone.
What would you do if you were ruthlessly honest about your sexual desire?
What would you do if you knew that sexual desire and love are 2 different biological things that most people are confused?
What if you never have to apologize for being a man who gets what he wants in life without worrying about ppl’s opinions?
What if you STOP buying into the lies of Hollywood/DIsney romantic love and see the truth about male-female sexual dynamics?
I share much more details on how to achieve that life in MTFU Insider, if you’re interested, send an email to support@manthefvckup.com and let us know.
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Bro, you probably know that men should always lead women in any sexual relationships, but are there any situations where you should NOT lead, and let women be proactive?
The answer is YES and it is related to how you inspire girls to become your girlfriend.
#1 The first situation where let girls LEAD is when you want an exclusive/獨家佔有 relationship with a girl.
Most men fail to convert sexual partners into GFs because they want a bf/gf relationship MORE than the girls want it.
Thus, everytime they 表白/confess love/propose marriage, they have already LOST even if the girl says YES because at this critical moment, this man sets up a girl-approve-boy loser frame.
Why this is 100% fail situation? Because if she says yes, you are falling for her frame and it’s HER who decides to be more intimate than you, she is still the BOSS.
If she says no, you become a beta who needs to continue to “prove your worth”, do more stupid romantic shit even when she rejects you, hoping that one day she will “let you become her bf/finance/husband”.
#2 Understand: On the surface you’re leading. But the truth is you are actually pleading/begging/hoping that she can APPROVE you.
So if you truly want an exclusive bf/gf relationship, you MUST let her PERSUADE you into it, let her ASK for it so that you have the relationship upper power.
If you two are having sex multiple times, if you two are hanging out doing activities 1-2 times a week,
I guarantee you that after 1-2 months, girls who really like you AND ARE looking for a relationship WILL ask you “where we are going.”
So by NOT being the one who initiates the “relationship talk”, by NOT agreeing to be together immediately, by taking TIME and letting her continue to PROVE HER WORTH to gain this exclusive access to you,
you are acting like “being pursued” guy who has the power to say yes or no.
Don’t fvck this sequence one otherwise you will become another beta bitch she doesn’t respect!
#3 Another mistake is that you should NEVER say “I love you” before she does.
Girls must be the FIRST one to say this. Because just like the first point, when she “feels that it’s the right timing”, she will WANT to say it for you.
Do NOT do it first because if she is NOT emotionally ready, saying “i love you” is useless and is ONLY going to destroy your Alpha attraction she wants.
These are the little ways on how to get her to keep pursuing you for more, keep being attracted to you, and keep “loving you” as a devoted GF.
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Otherwise, use these tools and secure a woman who truly wants and loves you.
