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#2 So the Q is: “How do you escalate sexually with a girl you haven’t slept with yet?” OR even better: Why DOGS can fvck more than good men?
Remember: 嘗試引導囡囡上床 >>>>>> 唔去嘗試 at all
#3 Because when you WAIT TOO LONG, and you don’t escalate with a girl, she may think:
– “Maybe he didn’t like me.”
– “Hmm. This guy didn’t try to sleep with me. I feel that he is interested in me, but maybe he’s scared of his own sexual desire?”
-“You know, I’m a busy career girl. I don’t have time to be going out with men who are scared to make a move.”
And then you LOSE her.
#4 Understand: Women are sexual beings too, they are at least or even more hornier than men at certain times.
Almost every woman you meet in life will think “Ah… is this guy hot?” BEFORE “Ah, can this guy be my kid’s father?”
#5 So if you have ZERO skills about sexual escalation but you want to increase your sexual attractiveness, here a few tips:
– OWN your sexual desires, be shameless about it, embrace it, because that’s a totally NORMAL thing as a human being who are evolutionarized to FVCK.
– If you aren’t good at seduction but you know that there are critical moments that you are NOT SURE if you should escalate, DO IT.
It’s better to fuck up like a man, than back up like a little boy.
At least you learn sth.
– Does it mean you MUST be a 狗公 in order to be a sexually attractive man, and have girls to love you? FUCK NO!
There are a balance between 狗公 and an extreme nice guy, and that is to become a masculine man who both has a caveman side and a classy side.
But when you are experimenting the sweet spot at the beginning,
be prepared you need to LEAN TOWARDS the 狗公 side more because almost all guys who want to learn seduction is too nice/fear/shameful about their sexuality.
Stop that sexual shame, be a sexual man and you’ll instantly be more HOT in girls’ eyes.
#1 Well, there must be a REASON why she doesn’t want to accept your IG, or PRIVATE her fb photos.
Very obviously, she doesn’t want you to see her stuff because she still hasn’t trusted you enough yet.
Not sure what you have done before, but probably not something great.
You can’t persuade her to change her mind now. All you can do is to REFLECT on your behaviors on where you have become needy/desperate/creepy in the past. Learn from your mistakes, and stop all these chasing.
唉! 而家斷斷續續仲有whatsapp.. 但我自己覺得機會不大, 應否繼續? 再約佢? 猛追返等佢知我真係對佢有興趣? 跪求解答! 唔該你! － M
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#1 What the fuck did you tell her in Whatsapp? You pretend to be a fake Alpha 『狠狠調教佢』話佢懶高竇吊高來賣？OR you keep demanding her to find time to go out with you ASAP? lol
#2 Well you have screwed up, not just because you’re being passive aggressive when a girl doesn’t want to see you as quickly, but because you said “應否繼續 再約佢? 猛追返等佢知我真係對佢有興趣?
What the fuck is that? Bro, haven’t you watched my videos before?
I don’t even want to explain 追女仔 means, if you are a good student, you will now go and WATCH ALL of my videos in the past and immerse yourself with my teachings.
They are free, so you have no excuses not to learn. It’s up to you now, if you want to know what to do next, go watch more videos.
Mr. S, based on what I have just said now, what mistakes do you think you have made?
To all of my bros, this channel is MTFU, and that means you MTFU, take responsibility for your own life, and do your research when you discover great stuff from me.
Stop asking me the same questions because most likely, I have already answered them in the past.
Research in my playlist and immerse yourself in these free learning. Done.
#1 Don’t use my standards and values to choose girls.
Although you do want a committed, responsible, independent, compassionate, empathetic, mature girl with a growth mindset to have a successful long term relationship , YOU gotta decide what you want.
#2 Well, don’t just blame the guy for being a weak beta male who’s trying to get $$ back to “save some face” in order to feel better about himself.
Yes, he has an extreme low self esteem, and he is doing these ugly stuff because he feels hurt.
BUT, a deeper problem is that very likely, the girlfriend you now have is very likely to be at the same caliber.
Otherwise, she would have the SUBSTANCE, SELF ESTEEM and WISDOM to know what kind of guys to be close with.
So bro, although she’s your gf now, I urge you to SCREEN CAREFULLY whether she truly fulfills the high quality traits I mentioned before.
Otherwise, it’s NOT the right relationship to enter into.
#3 As regards the 8000蚊 shit, and the crazy 伯母 who hits her daughter (WTF!?!?), there’s a few options you can choose:
– Continue to ignore that hurt animal, continue to block the numbers with patience, but this may lead him to do even crazier things.
– Give him $8000 directly, but he may use the pics as a means to further get more $$
– (Requires a lot of courage and maturity) Your girlfriend invites him out for a drink to talk about this issue.
Why?
Because Right now, this guy is deeply hurt, he is doing stupid things to get the attention from a LOVE he has lost, although on the outside he is angry and rude.
However, if your girlfriend can get him out, and have the self-control to LISTEN to his fears, pains, hurt and concerns,
WITHOUT trying to argue or explain herself, and if needed APOLOGIZE to him that she might have done something wrong too in the relationship that leads to a breakup…
….that tough guy WILL melt like a baby, feels that HE IS UNDERSTOOD and HEARD, and if he can MTFU, he will be reasonable and not further damage the relationship.
I know This is HARD to do, it requires a lot of courage, empathy, and emotional maturity,
but this is the BEST thing for both parties to HEAL from the mistakes they have made in the past.
=>＃1 I am also “not the kind of person”who plays fb/ig, because you know, most people are using it as mindless entertainment looking at stupid shit, so I don’t want to be like that.
But more recently, I realizing that social media can be used as a TOOL to help spread your message. So if you want to magnify your impact to others, whether socially or professionally, you HAVE to use social media strategically.
=> #2 Awesome, it’s good that have fame. But remember that fame, like money/power, is another tool. Most people chase fame for vanity or ego validation, don’t do that.
If you want to pursue fame, do it strategically and purposefully. When you do it right, you will OPEN more DOORS of opportunity – whether socially, sexually, or professionally.
=> #3 Again, before you KOL yourself, understand what is the PURPOSE of doing so. Understand your WHY and REASONS behind doing this.
Story: I NEVER want fame or become a KOL. But I understand that if I truly want to create a big positive impact to the world, I cannot do it purely by hiding behind the screen.
Yes, you can become rich and successful secretly too, but our world is moving towards a world where we NEED to market, promote ourselves in order to get some ATTENTION.
So ask yourself: What kind of VALUE are you going to bring to the marketplace?
Are you going to be an entertaining character like many KOLs? Are you going to teach certain skills that you are good at?
Most importantly, if things are going well, can you handle the pressure from inevitable haters?
Can you let go of those malicious personal attacks or random critics from people who doesn’t have a real life?
Putting your face out there is a RISKY business, it is going to test your emotional strength. It’s a good training, so ask yourself if you want that.
=> Talked 3 weeks before asking her out. Common mistake: Too much rapport. She probably came out as a FRIEND. That’s why when she sensed your sexual advance, she turned cold and cut the communication.
=> Send assignments? Wow, you are putting yourself in the friendzone.
直到4月中我同佢開始有番whatsapp (因為6月考試), 大家都有back and forth but mainly focus on exam. (我都有send過啲好笑野不過佢净係俾咗個laugh cry emoji)
咁我就冇每日chur佢, 如是者去到5月中到, 我有一個msg佢冇睇過(佢睇咗有blue tick but從來熄last seen), 我就問佢你意見如何 (個msg我係問佢考試意見). 佢咗覆我之後我同佢講係另一樣野再問佢有咩意見, 跟住我發現佢睇完之後就block咗我! (before hand I can see her profile picture and status, after that cant see both).
(ps. All my fds are in a relationship or married). 嚟緊9月都會上堂到時會見到, 咁點算?
=》Ahhh, your friends know you like her, then she MUST know you like her. My guess is, she has received a TON of social pressure asking her how YOU and HER are.
To avoid that, she has no choices but to block 9 you, hopefully people won’t disturb her anymore.
我有以下嘅問題:
嚟緊9月都會上堂到時會見到, 咁點算? Say hi or ignore her when I see her?
要點做先好似以前咁好番之後會有下文? (當然下文係後話)
Thanks for your help. Regards, K
=> Great. You have 2 months now to create some vacuum space time. You must NOT communicate with her at any means during these periods. It’s time for you to turn COLD.
At the beginning, you should IGNORE her politely. She has treated you like shit, so if you still are being nice, you are just a weak pussy boy.
Of course, when in person, if she initiates contact/conversations with her, you can be neutral and respond lightly. BUT DO NOT engage with her too deep, and always TAKE AWAY first as if you are busy with dominating your path.
Now it’s testing PATIENCE between you and her. You must keep creating your own fun life regardless, and let her indirectly SEE that.
If you don’t just want friendships, then you can’t act like a friend like you used to be.
＃1 You’re still associating “getting rich” with “success with women”
You’re still operating at a beta male provider strategy to get women.
It’s cool to want to provide for women, but it’s NOT cool if you use MONEY as a bargaining power to tell her that you’re an attractive man.
How many times have I emphasized that your ATTRACTIVENESS as a man is NOT based on external shit like money, fame, cars, houses?
To women, how attractive you are is proportionally to how independent and non-needy you are.
Yes, money/fame/power give you ACCESS to girls.
But whether you can date her, fuck her or develop a long term relationship with her still depends on your non-physical traits. (Unless you want gold diggers.)
You don’t need money to be successful with women, all you need is to develop attractive character traits to attractive them.
E.g. be a fun + challenging person to hang around with, be ambitious, have a purpose in life, you are carefree and tease her, you are adventurous, you take risks, you lead, you assert what you want/believe
If you always compare yourself with other men of how “rich” you are, you will NEVER win the dating game.
#2 Who the fuck is that teacher telling you to do 壞事可以做，只要唔好比任何人知就唔係壞事？ Yes, you can deceive the entire world but you cannot deceive yourself.
如果你係一個缺德無品無內涵嘅人，無人知嘅話，又代唔代表你係一個品格良好有修養嘅人呢？
Next，why are you associating “fucking a girl you want” with “做壞事”？
It sounds like you’re associating SEX with some dirty evil thing.
If you think sex is evil, dirty, disloyal, secretive, THEN you will NEVER become a sexually attractive man because your subconscious mind will prevent you from turning yourself to be a “bad guy”.
HOWEVER, this doesn’t mean I am advocating you to fuck a girl with bf.
#1 If she is the kind of disloyal gf who cheats, don’t think you’re gaining benefits from a quick non-attached fuck.
-> Even if you 趙完鬆，thinking you’re the man, these female predators don’t give a fuck about that.
They are gaining validation and stealing sex from you, while they are enjoying their bf’s blinded loyalty. THEY are just using you and other men for their own pleasure.
#2 By fucking someone who lacks character, you are turning yourself to be a person without character.
There’s nothing wrong to behave like that, but you gotta ask whether you want to behave in such manner.
#3 Her bf of course needs to learn his lesson about the truth of her gf one day. Some people will tell you “有得食唔食，罪大惡極”, and yes, the girl may be fucking other guys while still with her idiot bf,
but ask yourself:
do YOU want to become the kind of man who goes around preying on the innocence of other guys?
Do you want to use your dick to continue this fucked up relationship problem and let more men suffer?
＃1 Getting rid of neediness, is NOT just a logical rational step.
Your EMOTIONS need to be truly non-needy, independent if you truly want change, otherwise you will fall into the same trap again by your natural behaviors.
So learn to be an independent man,
learn to accept and love yourself when no one else will,
learn to DO THINGS that give you long term happiness and fulfillment,
participate in activities that make you PROUD and HAPPY,
and most importantly, start crafting your own PURPOSE of living your life etc.
#2 OMG, when you say “i dont need you and I treat you like ordinary ?“, what does that even mean and subcommunicate!?
It means that you CARE SO MUCH to let her know that “I am not needy” but in fact you are extremely needy, and EAGER to let her know your feelings.
#3 “Badboy”image is NOT just how you look in your style, it’s more about the CHARACTER TRAIT you need to slowly develop.
E.g. Are you being honest with the girl when all you want is SEX and not ready for a relationship? OR you want multiple light fun sex partners but not a girlfriend?
E.g. Are you the kind of ambitious man who NEVER settles for less than what you deserve, you FUCKS the status quo of being a work slave, and be proactive in pursuing your own dream?
E.g. Are you the kind of WARRIOR who can on one hand protecting a baby with your gentleness, but on the other hand CHOKE and KILL the fucking enemy who is attacking your family!?
If you have that physical, mental, emotional TOUGHNESS while having a HEART to help more people you want, you are the fucking badboy.
#4 Finally, despite 溝女 is NEVER about chasing, that doesn’t mean you need to be PASSIVE and do nothing, sitting at your home, and waiting girls to do all the work to get you.
Being PROACTIVE also doesn’t mean chasing, what 主動 means is that you take ACTION to get girls attention STRATEGICALLY, and slowly lure her in the seduction process, which I have explained in a few episodes before.
Also, about this girl. If she is SO indifferent, SO apathetic, SO cold about you,
why the fuck do you still try so hard to get these emotionless robots to like you?
Do you REALLY want such passive lazy inactive girl in your life?
What does that tell about your standards with girls?
#1 It seems that you are still STUCK in your head OVERTHINKING when is the right time to pull back and when is the right time to take action.
Let me share with you this:
Most people spend their MAJOR time on minor things.
e.g. talk about the weather, the stock you have never invested in, the tragic accidents in some places you have never been to, the celebrity wedding, office work gossip, how suck the government it, the intentions of North Korea etc.
It’s natural to do so because everyone does that, but following the status quo is almost always a way to guarantee an average mediocre life.
These concerns 關注 you have are things you have ZERO CONTROL on, only others can do something about it.
You are being REACTIVE to life, you are a victim because you feel like there’s nothing you can do to change it.
However, successful people are PROACTIVE, they focus their MAJOR EFFORTS on something they can do something about.
They focus on improving their health, be a better son/father/bf, mastering their wealth-generating skillsets, nurturing their relationships, training their IQ EQ etc.
So ask yourself this: Is what concerns me something I have DIRECT CONTROL (problems with your own behaviors/habits), INDIRECT CONTROL (problems with other people’s behaviors), or ZERO CONTROL (problems we can do nothing about with e.g. past realities)?
We have to WIN the private battle within ourselves before we win the public battle with the world.
Furthermore, you are not a fucking tree.
If you don’t like people’s behaviors, why the fuck are you PROACTIVELY putting yourself to endure such situations?
Change yourself before you try to change others.
Learn to ACCEPT ALL and live with problems you can’t change, even if you don’t like them. Be in peace with them.
When you have the COURAGE to change the things you can and what ought to be changed, the SERENITY to ACCEPT things which can’t be changed, and the WISDOM to distinguish between the two, you will WIN in every aspect of your life.
So to your Q, “囡囡已讀不回”, is this something you can change DIRECTLY?
If no, then have you somehow INDIRECTLY CONTRIBUTED to such situation?
If yes, how could your own BEHAVIORS change to minimize such incident to happen?
