#1 Don’t just read/study, you must APPLY
Knowledge without application is USELESS to get girls. The whole process of real learning is to study, apply, learn from mistakes, keep adjusting.
Unless you are using these weapons on women, you are NOT even in the game.
#2 Find a type of “game” that fits your lifestyle
We all have different schedules, preferences, and strengths/weakness. So you should design your “meeting girls” habit according to what’s best for you.
If you look good on pics/paper, do online. If you are rich, have social status in certain environments, mingle in bars or clubs. If you have a lot of time, travel a lot, like talking to strangers, you can do cold approaches wherever you go.
Your goal is to be able to talk to at least 1 potential girl a day in whatever means. Only then you can start to game girls.
#3 If you must cold approach, make it as casual as possible like a side thing you do when you’re going through your day.
Personally, I don’t like going out in malls/streets JUST to approach a ton of girls and get as much as # to run game later.
BUT, if you happen to be in a gym, buying food in CItySuper, reading books in a bookstore, doing work in coffee shop, drinking with friends at a bar, exercising in a park, waiting a line in whatever places (because you’re doing stuff you’re already planned and you happen to SEE a cute girl),
then it’s perfectly good to spend 30 seconds to approach her and see if she is open to talk to.
Again, if you’re talking to only 1 new girl a day, you will have almost 100 new experiences in 3 months. Such simple daily exercise will help you gain so much experience than most guys in 3 years.
#4 Seriously, get a mentor.
Yes, I am biased to say this. But honestly, it’s super HARD for most guys to become great with women just by his own.
Even if he has many gfs in the past, he may still be operating with a Beta mindset and doesn’t know why he FAILED.
We all need mentors to help us see our blind spots. Whatever new skills I want to learn nowadays, I always pay to learn as intimately/quickly as possible so that I can save time and many mistakes.
So whether you choose me or other guys who talk about game, if you cherish your own time, pay them so that they can 10x your speed to success.
If you recognize the value of mentorship and you like what you’ve been learning alone here in MTFU, I welcome you to consider joining our MTFU Insider brotherhood, where we provide ALL the trainings, coaching and accountability to help you succeed in dating/sex/relationship life.
Email us support@manthefvckup.com if you are interested.
#5 Aim lower at your beginner phase.
Let’s be honest: You can’t just fvck 9-10/10 dream hot girls if you’re inexperienced. At the beginning, you aren’t aware of what mistakes you’re making so you need TIME & EXPERIENCE before you can win the boss game.
So you need to build SMALL WINS by gaming girls who are just average-looking (but not ugly) ones who are maybe 5-6/10, then slowly level up as you gain experience.
Of course don’t fuck ugly fat chicks who are a 0. But aim for those you feel neutral but acceptable-enough to have a ONS. Gain small successes so that you can have huge successes later on.
So these are the top 5 suggestions for all newbie guys who are studying sexual dynamics and maybe with less than 10 lay counts.
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