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Bro, not sure if you’ve experienced this, but have you wondered why women can “get over you or any breakups” after a few years of relationship and so quickly get another new guy?

Are you curious why a loving stable relationship seems to mean nothing to women when you break up AND she seems to have moved on so quickly?   

Or do you find it hard to understand why some girls often return to their asshole abusive BF, but you know YOU are a much better man?

#1 Well, this strange phenomenon is actually necessary for women to survive. It’s a mechanism designed by evolution.

If you had studied our 7-day free course, you understand how harsh realities were before agriculture:

Humans living 200,000 -2M years ago were hunters gatherers. Men always left their tribes to find food, fight wars, search for resources;

Women almost stayed in the tribe with others to take care of children and chit chat.

#2 Men almost always died unexpectedly because of external factors such as animal attacks, doing dangerous work or fighting in wars.

And when they lose, superior conquerors will kill the weaker men and preserved women for sex.

In such circumstances, it is important for women to evolve to better deal with psychological trauma, to have greater ability to accept emotional loss, to dissociate herself from past pain and move on quicker, in order to increase their odds of survival in face of the new situation.

#3 If you get this, you know know why women can be quickly forget about your 5-year loving relationship and start a new one with another guy in 2 weeks.

OR they start to empathize the “enemy” who destroyed her former bf/husband.

It’s because they have better abilities to cut off emotional ties from former lovers and focus on “getting what she can best get from a man” RIGHT NOW.

Don’t hate women for being so ruthless and 唯我主義. Don’t hate them for being incongruent with their words.

It’s just how evolution helps them deal with the anxiety, guilt and stresses for almost 2 million of years.