Bro, you probably know that Alphas are much more sexually desirable to women than Betas, but do you know that the so-called Alphas and Betas are actually terms to describe the kind of MINDSETS & ATTITUDES towards women?
In reality, Alphas may NOT be a society-approved wealthy “success image” you may think.
Alphas can be a Mafia Boss who are now in prison and Betas can be those rich successful handsome guys who don’t understand the truth about women.
So in short, having an Alpha mindset doesn’t NOT mean you are good-virtue successful men in life and being successful good men does NOT mean you are an Alpha to women.
Now that you understand the terms, no matter how unsuccessful or successful you are in life right now, how can we AVOID thinking/behaving like an unattractive Beta to get girls?
Here are 2 big things to avoid:
#1 DO NOT make yourself “more like”women hoping that by being alike, you can connect with women easily and fvck them.
Most beta guys try to use “I am not like other guys” to try to separate themselves from the “bad guys women are attracted to” and hopefully get women to like him more.
So betas try to convince women to choose because he is more special, more different, more “goodness”, more emotionally sensitive, more caringly listen to women talking, more compassionate &loving, more respect to women etc.
However, trying to be more like women is going to make you a better FEMALE FRIEND, NOT an attractive man because SEXUAL POLARITY is what creates sexual attraction between 2 sexes!
#2 DO NOT be affected when people labels you as 大男人/玩家/食家/狗公/厭女症 etc.
Understand, when you start to discard your old Beta-self and install new Alpha mindsets & behaviors, your old self and most other people will start to put labels on you when they see you getting results.
These labels are just psychological ways women use to stand out from competition.
And betas use the same method to try to make himself more likable to women and again hopefully women will appreciate and choose them.
When you encounter these attacks, understand it’s a beta way to show that he is more special than you, and you shouldn’t get so many girls…(although this won’t change the reality no matter how hard they try)
So there you have it.
You now know what the real difference between Alpha & Beta,
You now know you shouldn’t try to make yourself more “girl-like” or “stand on women’s side as a secret attempt to make them like you and fvck you”,
You now know that when ppl start to call you names, you’re most likely on the right track…
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