We have talked a lot about different ways of building ST in the past,
but today I want to share a little secret that 90% of men don’t know about ST.
And here it is: ST exists naturally between a man and a woman, especially when you are attracted to her.
If you and a hot-enough girl are alone in a room and NO ONE ever knows this, you two are naturally going to fvck.
#1 You probably have been in front of a woman,
and you can feel this electricity that “wow, i like her, i want to sleep with her” feeling, and she makes you aroused.
However, the common mistake is that MOST men will try to make her feel comfortable first, try to shut down that feeling of nervousness, pretend nothing is happening, and then escalate some days later.
#2 Understand this: If you diffuse ST because you feel uncomfortable,
if you try to hide your sexual desire because you feel shameful/wrong to feel that…
…you are only going to make a girl feel uncomfortable to be sexual with you and she will think that you are either gay or a beta pussy.
If you really want to attract & arouse her, you need to STOP diffusing these ST.
#3 E.g. During conversations, when there is a pause or silence appearing for a few seconds, STOP trying to fill in the blank and say shit.
You should bask in that moment and enjoy those little you-me looking/ feeling each other moment. Those split-second is what connects you two.
#4 So bro, you want more girls?
Understand that ST already exists between the girl you want and you, and ALLOW yourself to bask in those extra second of silence, eye-contact, the look.
If you stop killing those beautiful moments, if you can be comfortable having high energy when social BUT also having slow/seductive/sexual/lower energy when seducing a girl,
then women will flow abundantly to your life!