Rmb when I say 拍拖真正的目的 = R/p exist to MAGNIFY human experiences,
and intimate r/p exist to TRIGGER you so that you can GROW into a better human being.
Today I want to add another DEEPER layer: R/p helps us HEAL from our emotional wounds
Sometimes we heal our low self-esteem issues / sexual confidence/ feeling of not good enough,
OR deeper stuff like the toxic shame/guilt we have passed on by our generational family system/ toxic beliefs from societies etc.
R/P heals us most because R/P triggers us MOST emotionally because our partner’s certain emotions “anger/disappointment/breakups”,
which immediately trigger our past abandonment issues and our fear of “not being loved/death”pop up instantly!
So apart from accepting & loving ourselves,
we also need to invite an intimate partner to give us an accurate mirror of WHO WE ARE and heal more from the hidden wounds.
Q is: Do you have the courage to let a woman enters your heart and closely reflects the truth about you?