Bro, remember when I said that showing bf qualities to attract a girl you haven’t slept with is a huge mistake in seduction?
And do you remember why taking care of her, treating her well, listening to her problems and helping her solve stuff ARE NOT going to make her your gf?
#1 In fact, if you ask a girl why they are attracted to their BF at the beginning, and if they are honest, they will often say stuff like
#2 So, why showing BF qualities don’t work at the beginning?
It is simply because typical BF qualities only builds more comfort, and that will drastically kill all the sexual tension and thus she doesn’t feel the urgency to have sex with you.
When you are trying too hard to find commonalities/rapport,
when you are siding with her badmouthing other players/jerks,
when you are respecting her too much to make a move…
YOU are no longer a CHALLENGE she wants to overcome and be close with!
#3 So what should you do instead?
You should treat every girl you meet as if you are just looking for short term FUN & SEX, even though you know that someday you might just want a stable GF or build a family…
You should stop listening to her problems and solving them for her…
You should stop being agreeable or compromising your schedule/life priorities so that you two can smoothly get along with each other…
Even if you really like her, even if she seems like a“good hearted Christian who never had sex kind of gf material”, you still need to STOP using the “good bf” strategy.
Good bf doesn’t get laid, and thus they don’t get a girl fall in love with him, the Q is are you still choosing to do it?