Hey bro, if you have been learning from MTFU for a while, you know the importance of creating sexual tension and why push pull works every time.
But do you know the one simple trick that will always boost a girl’s attraction towards you?
This trick is so-called the takeaway, which means 你係對弈期間後退自己，令女人有種衝動想去追你，which is also called 以退為進.
#1 Typical examples are like:
– Not finding her as often or not at all for a few days especially after an intense period of closeness/connection
– Wanting LESS to see her in person than you did at the beginning (especially when you’ve created an impression that you are interested in her)
– Being a little bit cold/distant than normal
– Being LESS enthusiastic/excited/certain about her than before
#2 Why do we need to 以退為進 in order to attract girls? There are few reasons:
– You have to give her the gift of wondering about you.
If you don’t create space/time for girls to think about you, to mentally picture the “good times” with you when you are not around, her desire for you will always drop and she can’t help but to seek that feeling from other guys.
– You are giving her a rare chance/challenge to win you over.
No girls want a man that is easy to get, it’s not FUN for her at all.
So your takeaway tells her that you’re losing interest, and it’s natural for her to try harder to get you back, which gives you more power in r/p.
– These vacuum space makes her genuinely WANT to see you again.
Most guys are just too available and girls hate that. So they will never cherish your presence and treat you like a beta shit who carries her bag.
But if a girl can’t be certain when/if she can see you again, she will strongly desire to see you when you become available.
#3 Of course brother, the above are the psychological reasons why you must 以退為進 to get girls, and why they work.
But I want you to have the ability to see that you don’t have to purposefully use the tactics to get girls … because when you are a naturally attractive male, when you are genuinely busy high value guy who is enjoying his life and building his dream…
you will naturally NOT have time/interest to be an emotional tampon and listen to her bullshit like a friendzoned gay friend.
So you can use 以退為進 as a technique, but a better way is to create a lifestyle where you genuinely need to PULL AWAY because of your life priorities, instead of just playing psychological games with her.
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