Hey brothers, I want to quickly share with you the #1 thing you must do to AVOID putting yourself in the FZ.
Here’s the truth: If you don’t create a sexual vibe ASAP, you risk putting yourself in the FZ.
When most guys meet a new girl, they think they need to show her that he is a nice, funny, interesting guy; THEN they will create sexual attraction.
That’s fucking wrong, because when a girl meets you, she will put you in one of the 4 levels:
#1 Rapist/Creepy Guy -> Ignore you, say fuck off to you or get rid of you ASAP
#2 Potential Friend -> She thinks you are nice, friendly, polite, gentleman. She doesn’t mind talking to you and may even think if she can turn you into another soldier.
#3 Potential BF -> She thinks you have BF potential, as simple as that.
#4 Potential Lover -> She feels horny, she starts to image to fuck you, she feels a weird nervous desire that she doesn’t normally feel
Now, here’s an eye-opening lesson for you: The biggest mistake most guys make is to present himself as a potential bf material!
I know it sounds illogical, because it feels natural to present to her your so many good qualities you have as a BF
e.g. you like to travel, you love surfing, you also do yoga like her, you love your job, you two laugh together etc.
But here’s the million $$$ TRUTH:
Presenting your bf qualities will NOT make her want to fuck you! Contrastly, a girl will only want YOU to become her BF if she wants to fuck you!
If she doesn’t have sexual attraction to you, she won’t want you as a BF. So if she doesn’t desire to fuck you, you will land in the no sex friend zone!
This is exactly why you and many guys fail to naturally become her BF because you are trying to put yourself in the BF zone!
Women don’t think like that.
Truth is when women think “Well, maybe it’s FUN to sleep with him even I don’t see him as a BF material.”,
and when she sleeps with you, that is when she will LATER think she wants to date you and make you her bf!
So the lesson is: Potential Lover First, Potential BF second. Don’t reverse the priority or you will get FZed!
If you want to learn more about HOW to present yourself as a lover, we discuss it inside MTFU Insider where…