WTF is friendzone? Although we have talked a lot in the past, most guys still have no clue what that is.
FZ = When you think you’re being intimate with a girl, but in reality she already deems you as “just another guy” who she will NOT has sex with.
Why you can never get out of FZ per se?
It’s because you’re investing so much time/energy/effort treating her AS IF your gf, but she is NOT giving you the most important thing a GF would do: SEX!
What are they key signs that you are in the FZ?
#1 She spends “a lot of time” with you talking about her EX-bf, or even worse her current BF.
You are already “too nice” sacrificing your priorities/passions/interests and trying to accommodate a girl and be her emotional tampon, and that’s a guaranteed path to a platonic sexless r/p.
#2 You are helping her do nice things with your SKILLS
E.g. fix computer, fix her car, buy stuff online, buy concert ticket
＃3 She always acts like a nice, good girl around you
Even when a girl chats with you on the phone after midnight, occasionally helping you do stuff, making snacks for you…
If everything is keep at a very neutral platonic level, if she doesn’t bother to feel any sexual tension from you, and if there’s no sex, you are still in a FZ.
Note that there’s nothing WRONG with being FDs with girls,
but remember that if you stay in the FZ hoping that one day she will be touched and see how good you are and beg you to become her bf?
That’s just bullshit fantasy that never happens!
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