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Q: 話說我係一個啱啱入職既part time, 今日舖頭gathering完後，我同個已經有boyfriend靚女同事搭車返歸，佢問我有冇追緊女仔。
我即刻緊張，然後失控，我答佢冇因為唔想再hurt女仔，之後爆自己以前幾賤，又俾d對話佢睇，好似逼佢知我d秘密咁。
==> Needy behavior.
You want to vomit your history to her & get her to know you BECAUSE you want to earn her VALIDATION, LOVE and ACCEPTANCE!
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但我後知後覺feel倒自己錯咗，但我當時控制唔到自己，請問我以後仲應該點同依個女仔溝通好？繼續講心事？定收皮？
其實尼個失控既問題我一直都有，平時同普通冇feel既女仔conversation完全冇問題。
但當對住有feel，靚女就會緊張，然後失控，我真係好想克服尼個問題！以後遇到緊張既情況下應該點放鬆？同埋可以點解決尼個問題？ – Andy
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Being nervous is not a problem, being not in control is.
Solution:
#1 Nervous = Excitement = Same biological response (Adrenaline)
#2 You’re idealizing her, you want her to LIKE you, which is NOT an attractive male attitude.
#3 Deep Breathing = activate parasympathetic nervous system = CALM you down!