Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！
Do you know that infidelity means different things to different people?
Have you ever discussed with your gf/spouse whether an emotional attachment with a close friend without anything physical is considered cheating?
Do you know that psychologists have spent YEARS studying the science of infidelity and have discovered some shocking truths?
Today, let me share a few interesting research studies about cheating and see if they apply to your own relationship.
#1 你要留意對方嘅歲數。
偷食／不忠對唔同人都會有唔同定義，有啲人覺得拖下手仔就係committed relationship，
但係有啲人就一定要『開口講明話大家唔可以有其他男女朋友』先至叫做正式開始relationship。
但係其中一個觀察對方有冇偷食嘅動機，就係睇下佢嘅歲數。
因為喺2014年，研究人員發現男士通常喺39或者49歲嘅時候特別容易有婚外情，
因為佢哋想透過另一段感情搵到另一種意義。
而女人亦都一樣，每逢佢哋接近30歲／40歲／50歲，
佢哋都會突然之間想喺人生之中搵到更多意義，
並且喺度諗『可能改變一下自己嘅relationship會令自己更加開心』。
＃2 第二樣你要留意嘅：就係對方嘅情感／Emotions。
喺2013年進化心理學出版嘅研究發現：肉體上嘅出軌 i.e. 自己嘅女人被其他冇感情嘅男人屌，係會令男士更加憔悴；
但係相反，情感精神上嘅出軌，但係自己嘅男人冇同另一個女人上床，喺會令女士更加憔悴。
意思即係話：一個男人就算同另一個女人冇性關係，但係如果佢成日同其他女人whatsapp或者hang out得好密嘅話，
就算大家之間冇搞野，女性都會覺得嗰個女人對自己感情有威脅，亦都會覺得男人背叛咗自己。
調返轉，女士們有時可能覺得自己同其他男人上床只係為咗玩下或者想有個人留意自己， 但係就算佢同對方完全冇感情連繫，大部分男士都會覺得自己被背叛／戴綠帽。
咁所以各位聽緊嘅男士：如果你留意到你條女同某個男人係咁text，以『朋友嘅身份』係咁同對方好親密，過分信賴佢某一個異性gay best friend…
咁你都要小心啲，因為好可能佢嘅心已經離開咗你！
#3 最後第三樣你要留意嘅：就係對方以前嘅歷史紀錄。
睇2017年Archives of Sexual Behavior嘅研究，研究人員發現如果你喺第一段關係曾經不忠cheat過，呢啲人就會比起冇cheat過嘅人有三倍更大機會會偷情！
另一樣嘢就係，如果你曾經被對方cheat過，你自己都會有兩倍更大機會將來偷食。
咁所以如果你條女以前係cheat過，甚至係因為你而cheat咗自己個ex男朋友，佢將來都會好大機會為另一個男人而cheat你！
So that’s why I never recommend you BEING the guy who makes a girl CHEAT on her bf,
because even when you do it successfully and even get her,
you are just attracting the WRONG person with questionable morality/ethics/character to stay with you.
Of course you can just fvck her and dump her like many fvckboys will do,
ultimately whether you do it is up to your personal character.