Have you ever got rejected by a girl who tells you that she has a bf?
Have you ever tried to push on because you suspect it’s a lie to shittest you?
Do you want to know how to make a girl want to hang out with you and become your gf?
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Hi Manson, I have talked to this girl for 2 weeks or so and she has already rejected me by telling me she has a boyfriend.
However, I didn’t stop talking to her because I know that it was a lie and that she probably said that because she wasn’t comfortable with me enough yet.
In fact now she would bring me to parties, but she is really vague about hanging out and stuff.
So what can I do to get her and make her more determined to say yes hanging out with me. Thanks my name is Chris btw
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＃1 Define what’s “hanging out”, do you mean you want to pak tor with her like a bf so early on and make her recognize you as a bf?
If yes, you’re doing these “dates” wrong because you’re trying to prove to her as a good bf material.
You’re focusing on proving how awesome you are instead of focusing on just having FUN for yourself,
then share FUN and good emotions with her and let her feel attraction to you naturally.
#2 The reason she is vague is because she feels too much PRESSURE from your behaviors.
You are trying so hard to be her BF and even if she is attracted to you,
she isn’t comfortable to show you to the world as a BF yet because you haven’t found out her needs yet.
Do you know WTF is she looking for?
Has she felt a strong sexual desire towards you yet that she wants to fuck you?
Even if she wants to fuck you, does she even want a bf?
Thus, can you see forcing a BF agenda on her is what repels her?
#3 Unclear on how you met her and how you talk to her for 2 weeks.
It is crucial on how you meet her because the CONTEXT often influences how she sees you as a person.
E.g. A warm approach/ an introduction from others/ meeting you because you are the leader of a group is often easier than cold approach because girls already see you as “higher status”and thus she will have much less resistance/defence when you talk to them.
#4 Get a GF process: Establish a sexual intimate relationship first by being light FUN + CHALLENGING guy,
by NOT focusing on just one girl at the beginning and having a lot of options,
by having a lot of sex, a
nd then let her bring up the bf/gf issue with patience.
Thus stop worrying about becoming her bf,
focus on being an attractive guy who is enjoying life and has a purpose to dominate,
and let her worry about becoming your gf out of the options you have!