Dating is simple but not easy, especially in an age of social media and phone addiction, it’s HARDER for people to connect on DEEPER LEVEL.
But today you are happy, because you’re about to get on a “DATE”.
Maybe you met her online, maybe you’ve met each other via events, so how do you guarantee you won’t FVCK UP?
Tip #1 唔好淨係擔心對方想做咩，諗下自己做咩會令自己開心！
If you don’t enjoy the activities/place/food/event, no matter how NICE or thought out, she is not going to enjoy the time with you.
Emotions are contagious, if you feel boring/dull/unexcited, she is going to feel the same.
Rmb: Dating is supposed to be FUN-oriented, it’s NOT about an interview.
If you two can’t even have light, simple, zero-thinking FUN, you two aren’t compatible at all as a couple, and there’s no need to talk about deeper stuff.
So any “dates” must be fun-oriented, do something YOU will feel happy, then your “date” won’t feel like a traditional date and it’s so EASY to go to the next step.
Tip #2 Have high standards, but NOT a checklist.
Yes, quality men have high standards, but what you THINK you want is often NOT what you truly get attracted to.
So don’t treat your checklist items as MUSTs.
Instead, be OPEN to the REAL LIFE connection at a feeling level, at an energetic level, at a GUT level.
It’s not how great her online profile is written, it’s NOT about how funny/engaging her texts are,
it’s about the REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE with her at a deeper energetic level.
Instead of using your BRAIN/HEAD to THINK if she fits, use your HEART to FEEL if she’s someone you want to bring into your life.
Relationships are rarely pure LOGIC, it’s about the EMOTIONS and energy exchange you two feel.
POINT: If you meet a girl and can be INSPIRED by her, and she can be INSPIRED by you,
then maybe there’s a chance that you two can integrate with each other and explore the possibilities of a deeper relationship.