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Man神，話說我幾個月前認識咗個女仔，大家都係中學生。同佢系啲社交媒體傾過計之後，自己慢慢鍾意咗佢，早排我諗住約佢出嚟，但係佢拒絕左。
原因係佢話佢老豆老母唔俾（可能係藉口啦），我到底有咩方法可以約到佢，唔知道你可唔可以俾啲意見我呢？－D
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＃1 I don’t know both of your age. BUT, For secondary school girls, it COULD be a valid reason that her parents don’t allow her to go out with boys.
#2 Yet, a more probably reason is that you have generated enough attraction and connection with her before you ask her out.
– You’re liking her ALREADY just because you two chatted in social media, what does that tell her how you choose girls?
– She hasn’t invested much in you yet, there’s not enough emotional investment/ incentive for her to risk going out with you.
#3 I bet you’re asking her for 1-2-1 date, which is high pressure and boring. Remember, dates are not interviews.
First dates are supposed to be FUN, INTERESTING, and a PLAY.
So if you truly want entice her to come, post cool pics and videos of what FUN you’re having, and INVITE her to come to join you.
Even if she doesn’t, you keep doing shit you love and let her regret not coming.
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Hi 我係一個中學生，咁我就同ex分左手兩個月啦，
但係上個禮拜我覺得好似鍾意左佢個friend，佢地同班又ok friend，我好想approach佢，但係佢同我一點都唔熟，我想問我應唔應該approach佢？
應該點先可以令佢對我有好感？ 希望你幫幫我。 Thanks
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＃1 You all are secondary schools mates, so you all are in an environment where EVERYONE knows EVERYONE.
原則上 There’s nothing wrong to 溝 another girl after 2 months of breakup,
BUT reality is that this girl is going to tell your EX about this, and even ASK HER about you.
Very likely, you are not going to receive great compliments from your EX.
And very likely this is going to be EXPOSED to everyone in your school, and you’re going to look so BAD to all the guys and girls.
If you truly want her to 對你有好感, then BEFRIEND more people, develop a reputation of the go-to social guy, use the same advice I gave in the last Q&A.
i.e. Post cool pics and videos of what FUN you’re having, and INVITE her and people to come to join you.
Even if she doesn’t, you keep doing shit you love and let her regret not coming.