1.MAN 神 我想問平時係條街 你會唔會望女仔？
唔知點解 感覺上 當我比人發現我望緊佢 我會有種好唔舒服嘅感覺！！
好似話左我底牌比佢知 我嘅欲望 我都有鐘意望靚野嘅欲望 好唔型。。。
比到人知自己有want 走去望佢 相比之下好似一望佢 你就輸左
– Uncomfortable because of TENSION
– Lunge Exercise
2a.或者 MAN 神 你平時行街個頭會唔會周圍望 ???
– Eye contact: Attention
– I don’t move my head most of the time, low status people move their head like a headless chicken. You have a MISSION to dominate.
– You look straight BEYOND the crowd.
2b. or 同人有眼神接觸 ?係咪應該hold 耐少少？？
我試過hold 太耐 比到人一種好挑釁 好攻擊性嘅感覺 對住男女咁望都係 搞到人地好唔舒服
– For men, a few seconds is alright. But it can be misinterpreted
– For women, look for a few seconds, smile and look up or horizontally away. DO NOT look down or linger.
3.Man 你覺得做人應唔應該有plan 定應該活在當下？？？
但有plan就會有預期對目標有種needy執 但冇plan 活在當下又會冇目標冇方向
Stop interpreting planning is NEEDINESS.
Neediness means you DON”T accept the whatever outcome is/reality. You cling to your past or you cling to your illusion.
Planning also doesn’t mean not being present.
Being present = You are using everything you got to create a life you want without being distracted by life’s bullshit or irrelevance
You plan so that you know your vision and where you are going.
KEY: No Battle Plan Survives First Contact With The Enemy
-> You plan the moves, see what happens, and then ADJUST
KEY: Be flexible