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Man sir 大人希望可以幫幫手，事件係因我（男）而起的，
一開始係我經常發女朋友脾氣，原因係我覺得我女朋友重視朋友多過我，所以我成日都好幼稚同我女朋友冷戰，
而我因覺得大家唔太適合所以之前都有提出分手但係我都係一時之氣所以之後都和好無事，
但最近又係我一直都用一啲不太好的態度語氣對我女朋友，而今次都係我自己覺得女朋友唔太關心我，再次提出分手又係一時之氣，
但今次我女朋友都同我講希望和平分手之後同我講做返好朋友，我忍唔住挽留我女朋友但係我女朋友提出俾時間佢冷靜，
然後又有講暫時唔想拍拖，又話已經唔愛我，打電話唔聽，語音佢又叫我唔好，又完全唔見我，
我已經冇煩住佢，已經過咗第三日無搵佢，係呢段時間我已經都作出改變唔再咁容易生氣，
依家既我超級後悔，失去後才發現我女朋友係我好重要既人，
Man sir 可以幫幫手嗎？唔該你！拜托
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Hey Tomas,
The reason you feel jealous that “女朋友重視朋友多過我” is that YOU lack friends and social life OUTSIDE her!
You don’t have a mission to dominate either, that’s why you make your gf #1, and that’s what make you needy and unattractive.
You can’t get her back with such a fluctuating state now. NOW is the time for you to cool down, to build your social life and mission. Only then can you be attractive again.
P.S. I may address this Q in more detail in an 溝女Q&A episode, thanks.
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