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協助你成為一個更有力量,更有吸引力,更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人,創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。
7種男女傾計最致命嘅錯誤
-> these things kill momentum, attraction,
+ leave girl think that you’re just another boring guy
If you can’t talk, you can never get the hot girls – whether you are rich, handsome, have big muscles etc.
There are certain types women respond to, also certain types that bore them and turn them off.
Below = mistakes + tips, what to do about it
Mistake #1: Not Assuming Rapport 無一早假設大家有rapport/融洽關係
Don’t wait for rapport to happen naturally, you ASSUME it even if it’s first time.
Talk to her in the same laid back way as if you’re talking to an old friend
Most guys Too stiff, too formal, as if strangers
-> If you assume you are stranger, you are a stranger random guy.
She puts her guard up. Create this uncomfortable awkwardness.
Jump right into rapport
-> more natural feeling conversations, feeling of having known you forever
HINT: Chemistry is a feeling; so you jump in and talk to her as if you’ve known her forever
1st way to kill rapport: salesman mode
-> you’re trying to sell yourself to her vibe
i.e. taking survey, ask you to sign petition, sell you plan, converting sb into religion on streets
2nd way to kill rapport: getting into hairdresser mode
-> weather, super restricted and formal, super PG-13 shit
-> solution: talk to her like she’s an old friend
希望今集幫到你!