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#1 Well done on taking action to meet women and getting them attraction. However, remember the seduction process is always:
– Attention: no matter how and where you “open”/meet them
– Attraction: Get her attracted without being needy/creepy. Master push pull and play with tension. Be light, playful, challenging, blame them for liking me, flirting, keep on surface stuff.
– Connection: After you both are having FUN teasing each other, then you need to make her WANT to CONNECT with you.
You do this by asking yourself “Is she really the kind of girl I like?”
You need to have REAL STANDARDS of a girl’s non-physical traits and qualities; if you only want to fuck girls because she is hot, your low standards are only getting you the immature, average girls who lack substance.
When you have standards, you give her a chance to qualify/disqualify her, and let her WIN YOU OVER and get your approval.
– Isolate and Escalate physically and logistically.
Don’t seduce her in front of her friends/ social circle or crowded environment, because they don’t want to be seen as a slut.
If you don’t touch her or 天時地利人和 you two can’t get together, you can’t close the deal. You must LEAD and go first, be the cause and pull the fucking trigger.
Mr. P, if you can use the above framework to assess where you are, you WILL know what is missing in your seduction and what needs to be done next time 🙂
#1 When girls go clubbing while travelling, almost ALL of them are NOT looking for a relationship. They only care about having FUN, having some ego validation that “she still can attract guys”, and if you’re hot maybe a one night stand.
#2 Good that you had teased her and disqualified her and doing some verbal game on her. But what the fuck did you get drunk!? If you want to hook up the same night OR later days, you gotta remain sober so that you know what you’re doing.
Also, whenever you meet a girl in bar/club, figure out her plans and logistics. When you know she’s leaving soon, then you gotta decide if you want to try to CLOSE THE DEAL tonight, because after that it’s unlikely anything are gonna happen.
#3 It’s hard to keep that connection going, the more you chat about random stuff, the more you’re falling into a sexless friend zone, because you’re investing so much time/effort/energy into such relationship BEFORE she is really attracted to you.
PLUS, you’re only relying on texting as a means of communication, which is super limited and you can’t use any other nonverbal tactics to attract her.
So you gotta see if you can get her to any social media accounts you have so that she can SEE YOUR LIFE going on without you actively showing to her. That’s the best way to passively let her invest in you.
#4 Then, about 2 weeks before, let her know that you’ll travelling to Taiwan, and invite her to do some FUN stuff you already plan to do for yourself. Also, if you have enough rapport, tell her to bring you around. If she accepts these, then she is definitely interested in you.
#5 As regards 異地拍拖, don’t start any long D relationship before maybe you have developed a solid 1-year relationship with her. It’s NOT going to work simply because you both haven’t GROWN the relationship beyond the attraction. You haven’t even enjoyed enough sex with each other to start loving each other fully.
#6 However, if you’re only looking for a short quick one-off bang, of course you can do so.
All you need to do is to make sure your first impression triggers are on point (style, fitness, BL, tonality, eye contact), have FUN and seduce her, and lead her to the bedroom with no strings attached.
Be clear about your intentions that you only want to have some fun, and you think any sort of romantic connection gotta start with a passionate sexual connection, be honest and ACCEPT ALL regardless of whether she convinces herself to sleep with you.
＃7 Warning, you haven’t done much qualification on HER INNER PERSONALITY/character yet. I have a feeling you are starting to fall for her based on her external hotness.
Be careful, you gotta SCREEN HER properly before you allow yourself to invest more. Otherwise, you’re going to experience MASSIVE PAIN who got tortured by your own imagination.
Special back and forth. This is going to be a very sad episode. I want every brother NOT just listen to the mistakes this young guy make, but FEEL the pain, the low esteem this teen is suffering.
J: 情聖先生,我愛上一位女同學,但佢已經有男朋友(聽講),應該點做??請你教我!!!
Me: Jimmy, Why did you “fall in love” with her? How did that start?
J: I don’t know.
Me: Are you in your teens right now? How old are you?
J: i’m13 years old ,但佢已經有男朋友(聽講)人哋講笑啫,我識佢阿哥, 佢阿哥話冇乜所謂肯幫下我,我開始撩佢傾計,佢成日都笑住同我講,
#1 You look totally fine. As a 13 year old, you look quite mature, which is good.
#2 DON”T send her a love song, that’s a total nice guy move.
#3 The problem now is that you like her TOO QUICKLY before she has proven anything for you. Don’t do any weird things. Don’t 告白 because you know nothing about her personality. Try to talk to her normally and see how things go first.
J: thx for your help,我想問有咩話題??點樣撩佢??thx
順便問埋係咪男人唔壞女人唔愛?
我下次見到佢，可唔可以問佢可唔可以畀個機會做佢boyfd
man神,可唔可以搵日約出嚟去MK傾??
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Bro, I gotta be honest with you.
From our conversations, I am CERTAIN that your challenge is NOT about getting girls, your challenge is that your self-esteem is so LOW that you are SO desperate to have a girl to like you, to love you and to treat you well.
I feel really sad for your situation, I don’t know what has happened to you in the past…
But I could tell, for the past 13 years of your life, you had been longing for some feminine gentle love for so long….that you would 做首情歌畀佢, that you would ask her brother for help, that you BEG for a chance from the girl to let you be her bf…
I can feel your pain, what is it?
How did you grow up in the past?
Did you get enough attention and love from your parents? What was lacking when you were a kid?
I can feel how lonely, lost, empty you are, what is going on in your life?
Right now, I can’t give you any advice because you are in such a vulnerable state.
The best thing I would recommend you do is to go through ALL the videos I’ve created for you for FREE.
Plus, tell me your story if you want.
Otherwise, all the weapons/techniques/skills I teach you will NOT make a damn difference when your PSYCHOLOGY is so shaky and weak.
Glad that you’re taking proactive action despite uncertainty. Although there are many things you did wrong, it’s better than not doing anything.
#1 What do you mean by “期間我有做咗啲觸碰”, it sounds like you literally 手臂high 到佢咁。 Most importantly, you said “行下行下，正當我想拖佢隻手之際，佢縮開咗.
Although you did well by not reacting, but it told me that you have NOT YET generated enough sexual tension BEFORE you escalate.
The overall feeling of the date feels like boring, ordinary, normal; there’s zero man-to-women sexual CHARGE, no teasing, no heart thumping TENSION, no mysteriousness, no curiosity.
That’s why in such a NEUTRAL state, she couldn’t feel attraction & desire enough to start escalation with you or by you.
#2 Whether she really likes girls is UNCERTAIN. She could lie to you because she just wants an excuse to get rid of a guy that she can’t feel attraction to. Plus otherwise she won’t get MATCHED with you in the app and go out a date with you.
But it could also be TRUE that she only likes girls, and the reason she went out with you because from DAY 1, she only sees you as a normal sexless friend.
Most likely, she just uses that as an EXCUSE to politely reject you and try not to hurt you. Maybe she is telling part of the truth, she likes girls, but she can also be bisexual, liking both men and women.
#3Whether you NEXT her is your choice.
You could remain “friends” with her and stay in this sexless FZ that probably will not go anywhere. And if you do that, I would suggest you keeping it light and only invite her to fun group activities occasionally.
OR you could cut the losses, let it go, and invest your time/energy in mastering your seduction skills, creating a better lifestyle, and rewarding other girls who appreciate and love you.
I totally understand how you feel right now. You still like her because she says you’ve changed, and you’re hoping to 溝返佢, but you also don’t want to take risks to lose the friendship, plus you don’t want to look like a fool right?
Well, I get it. But based on your description, I have to tell you the TRUTH.
＃1 She’s fucking play you bro.
She’s trying to frame you as a typical beta loser guy who wastes time to CHASE HER, and if you TAKE IT, you are fucking done while she’s bragging with her friends how CUTE you are or even laughing at your loser behaviors.
For another year? WTF? Is she a queen? Is she your boss?
She is not giving you a chance to TRY, YOU are giving her a chance to TRY to get you.
#2 She is NOT even a fucking friend.
If she is a good friend, she won’t manipulating your emotions to suck validation from you, OR playing these mind games with you and ask you to CHASE HER MORE!
#3 No techniques/skills are going to help you because your mindset and emotional maturity are fucked up now.
– As you said, “我Snapchat send埋啲無聊嘢”, “搞到成日有時撩佢講嘢都有啲格硬嚟”don’t you have better things to do in your life?
– For 2 plus years, like an annoying fly surrounding this girl, you have been trying to get this girl to like you multiple times. What does that tell me about your level of attachment to just one person who doesn’t even respect you?
#4 My Recommendation: Cut the “friendship” you have with her. The more you spend time with her, the more TORN you are because on one hand you want her attention, but on the other hand you secretly want her to LIKE you as a lover.
This is NOT gonna happen until you cut that fucking friendship, CUT all communications, minimize all contacts, create months or a year of vacuum space, and come back with a new fresh attractive personality!
#1 First, what I hear now is that the problem is NOT that you don’t know how to contact her,
the real problem is WHY isn’t she interested/attracted enough to find an “excuse” to talk to you.
If a girl is interested in you, they often will find an “excuse” to let you know that they’re paying attention to you – whether via whatsapp, IG, SC etc.
So what concerns me now is that right now, she has ALREADY put you in a sexless platonic friendzone.
You’re not even her close FZ, otherwise she will be at least chatting with you on a regular basis.
#2 If you want to ATTRACT them passively, you gotta do 2 things.
– Build a REAL active social life where you can take a lot of pics and videos
– Then POST them in your FB/IG to let girls passively invest a bit of time/energy on you.
When you do these right, you will discover that they often will find “excuse” to PM/DM you about some stuff, and from there you can start chatting.
#3 Yes, in this situation, if you persists on whatsapping her, that’s only showing your neediness.
What you are communicating is all beta-male bahviors:
– You have so much time to waste on her = you don’t have a fvcking life apart from you
– You are so eager to get her attention i.e. chasing
– You are so desperate to get her out = Don’t you have any women in your life?
Although dating doesn’t mean you sit at your room, being passive and doing nothing,
the best way to meet girls in a high value way is that you ARE DOMINATE YOUR PATH,
doing stuff that EXCITES YOU,
and “it just happens that you meet her along the way”.
And if she is cool, you invite her out for social stuff for further qualification, in case you haven’t done much at the first contact.
