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Because you always want to find sth to talk about, you are attached to certain safe topics and you are AFRAID to change subject.
E.g. find that you both loved fitness, then spend 1 fvcking hour talking about health/fitness/food/nutrition/workout, THINKING the conversation well fantastic.
E.g. find that you both are passionate about dogs/cats/pets , then kept talking about pets stuff
TRUTH: You only display that you both are fitness enthusiasts /pet lovers, BUT nothing else in common.
At the end, yes you share mutual interest.
BUT you also display that OUTSIDE that mutual interest, you two CAN’T just chill and enjoy each other’s company, talking about nothing!
=> Girls want to be with a guy who they can have FUN with, being not SERIOUS all the time,
being SILLY around, talking about nth and just chilling in the moment, a guy she can lays on the couch with laughing and having fun
=> Sunday morning, laying on your chest, just FEELING, not always have to talk about serious stuff
There are 1 million guys out there who also love fitness/dogs/whatever passion you have,
but there are only a few guys whom she can imagine herself having fun with,
the two of you just enjoying each other company exploring different activities, adventures and LIFE.
Takeaway: Do NOT attach to certain topics.
As always, your goal of conversations is to have fun, help others have fun (experiencing wide range of emotions),
and then screen & qualify to see if she is the kind of person for you to bring her into your life.
Sometimes you have this little voice in your head that says you may not deserve her,
and you’re thinking how you can STAND OUT from other guys in the environment,
and you try to offer sth SPECIAL that others can’t.
=> This makes your brain paralyzed,
Brain freeze, you search for things to SAY that make you seem COOL, seem FUNNY
=> This makes you so damn NERVOUS, can’t even compose a normal sentence, mind go blank;
OR you try too hard to be funny
Trying to be cool = try hard
TRUTH: You DON”T always have to be cool
If you can manage to show her in the first few mins of talking to her, that you are at least the SAME social level as her, you don’t need to pretend to be COOL,
you can just focus on having a FUN, NATURAL conversation that makes YOU feel good, which will makes her FEEL good.
Imagine: If you don’t need to wear this social mask of being COOL,
how easy, effortless, relaxed will conversations be?
Concentrate on staying in the MOMENT, and HAVE FUN with small talk.
Rmb: Women don’t need you to be COOL all the time,
as long as you are having FUN yourself, they want to hang around you because of the good positive emotions.
You are just being yourself having FUN for yourself.
