Have you ever wondered why girls say they want a guy with a sense of humor who treats her well, but fall in love with assholes who use/abuse her?
Are you like my old self, who really hate players who seem to“hurt women”, who seem to be selfish, but women just can’t help but to stay with them?
You have to understand: The superpower these jerks have on women are not that magical…
the reason why girls are attracted to them is because of his bad boy characteristics.
＃1 What is bad boy characteristics?
It is definitely NOT those romantic, chivalrous gestures of buying her chocolate & flowers, OR any long intimate conversations to “get to know each other”.
Bad Boy characteristics means you exude independence and confidence who does what pleases himself first.
They have an attitude that“This is who I am, whether you like it or not.”
#2 Now you may ask, how do badboys create love in women if they care about themselves first?
Well, understand this: A woman only falls in love with you when she is away from you thinking about you.
Love doesn’t appear when you are with her, it often happens when you are AWAY from her and she just can’t stop thinking about you.
It happens when she plays the conversations in her head over and over again, it happens when she wants to Google and analyze your behavior.
#3 That’s why bad boy traits are attractive to women.
They are the ones who are emotionally independent, who proactively makes his life interesting and fun and thus gives her the time/space to wonder about him.
Bad boys don’t seek validation from women, so they don’t ask for permission/approval from girls to do things they love.
Bad boys exude sexual confidence, he already assumes women want him and he is actually helping her to get him by proactively chatting with her.
If you understand these TRAITS bad boys have, you don’t have to be really BAD or treat women poorly but still remain as an attractive male.
The Q is: Are you going to MTFU & learn these traits as a good man?
OR keep drinking sour grape juice and criticizing those bad guys who do get girls?