Women are sex objects, men are success objects, that’s what the society deems as valuable in a human being.
So if you are a successful wealthy man, how do you know if she likes you or your external materials?
#1 Stop your inclination to PROVIDE for her
I understand, we as men feel a natural need to 照顧女人, but if you use such tool to ATTRACT women or to prove your self-worth to her, you are gonna attract GOLD DIGGERS.
Alpha male is a state of mind, you don’t fvcking need to buy her cars, pay her rent, pay her tuition in order to attract her.
If you do that, that’s a beta male strategy just like those in power abuse their power e.g. 經理人公司搞女模
You’ll never attract those who geneinuely likes you.
#2 When you date, don’t spend extravagantly!
If you flash money for dates, you are just setting an expectation that YOU are gonna pay for every shit the girl wants.
Those who show off wealth to get girls only means they have NOTHING ELSE that worth a girl’s attention.
Instead, focus on having FUN in casual environments. If she doesn’t want to go, she isn’t interested in you yet.
#3 When bill comes, does she expects you to pay in full every time?
If she goes to toilet everytime bill arrives OR if she doesn’t at least willing to offer to pay for the date, be careful!
#4 Observe how she presents herself.
Is wearing luxury brands important to her?
Does she possess materials that tries to impress other people?
Does she base her self-worth on stuff she owns OR her character & personality traits?
Be careful for girls who only love luxuries.
=> Of course money/power give you more access to high quality women,
but when you meet them, you must be vigilant about whether they are attracted to YOU as a person, or YOUR STUFF that helps her show off to others.