真正的浪漫是什麼?【男人必學!】

Does women want a man to be romantic? Well, it depends.

 

If you use romantic gestures (e.g. flowers/chocolate/money) try to WOO her into having sex with you, you are FVCKED and you will only attract gold diggers.

 

She may accept your gifts and grand gestures, but she will NOT desire to fvck you like an Alpha male and you become her Beta bitch.

 

However, if you have set the frame right,

 

if you attract her through your masculinity and sexual energy,

 

if you have slept with her multiple times and she begs you to be his boyfriend,

 

then a bit of ROMANCE during the r/p is good.

 

What is romance to women? Here are a few elements you must include:

 

#1 Surprise

Predictable moves = boring = not romantic


So whatever you prepare for her, make sure it is sth she CANNOT expect

 

#2 Thoughtful To Her

If she isn’t a gold digger, you don’t need a fvcking diamond ring & a vow to declare your love (half of your assets) to her.

 

You just need to be thoughtful, showing her that you took TIME, ENERGY, EFFORT to prepare the things for her.

 

#3 Self-Initiated 自發性

Valentines Day or Bday gifts are ok, but they are predictable and kind of “pressured by society”.

 

So if your romantic gesture is SELF-INITIATED, you do it because you just want to do it (NOT because of a fvcking calendar festival), then it’s much more powerful.

 

If you follow these 3 principles and only do these OCCASIONALLY (not predictably),

 

e.g. cook her dinner, spontaneous weekend trip with her, pick her up when least expected…

 

…these typical BETA male behaviors can still be ALPHA if you set the relationship right and she can’t help but to LOVE you more 😉