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Man神，請指點小弟🙏🙏
小弟叫M，而家18歲，做緊文員，而個女仔係19歲，做緊Sales。
係大概十日之前，我係Dating App識咗佢，佢同我交換咗電話。我地Keep住都有Whatsapp。
到咗幾日前，我就Date咗佢出黎。放工之後，我地去咗一間餐廳食少少野。之後就行去附近啲精品店睇下啲得意嘅野。期間，我有做咗啲觸碰，佢無乜反應，咁我以為應該都算係一個綠燈。
行下行下，正當我想拖佢隻手之際，佢縮開咗，咁我就扮無野，繼續傾其他野。行下行下，見到時候都唔早，突然又想食啲野，所以我地就去咗一間糖水鋪度食野。
坐低之後，佢突然好嚴肅咁同我講：其實我係鍾意女仔架，佢又俾佢嘅女朋友(對方未確認呢段關係)張相俾我睇。我無正面回應，轉咗傾其他話題。食完糖水，大家就走咗。
Man神，其實呢個情況，我係咪已經可以Next得，定係我仲有其他野可以做？求指點。
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Glad that you’re taking proactive action despite uncertainty. Although there are many things you did wrong, it’s better than not doing anything.
#1 What do you mean by “期間我有做咗啲觸碰”, it sounds like you literally 手臂high 到佢咁。
Most importantly, you said “行下行下，正當我想拖佢隻手之際，佢縮開咗.
Although you did well by not reacting, but it told me that you have NOT YET generated enough sexual tension BEFORE you escalate.
The overall feeling of the date feels like boring, ordinary, normal; there’s zero man-to-women sexual CHARGE, no teasing, no heart thumping TENSION, no mysteriousness, no curiosity.
That’s why in such a NEUTRAL state, she couldn’t feel attraction & desire enough to start escalation with you or by you.
#2 Whether she really likes girls is UNCERTAIN.
She could lie to you because she just wants an excuse to get rid of a guy that she can’t feel attraction to. Plus otherwise she won’t get MATCHED with you in the app and go out a date with you.
But it could also be TRUE that she only likes girls, and the reason she went out with you because from DAY 1, she only sees you as a normal sexless friend.
Most likely, she just uses that as an EXCUSE to politely reject you and try not to hurt you. Maybe she is telling part of the truth, she likes girls, but she can also be bisexual, liking both men and women.
#3 Whether you NEXT her is your choice.
You could remain “friends” with her and stay in this sexless FZ that probably will not go anywhere. And if you do that, I would suggest you keeping it light and only invite her to fun group activities occasionally.
OR you could cut the losses, let it go, and invest your time/energy in mastering your seduction skills, creating a better lifestyle, and rewarding other girls who appreciate and love you.