[溝女Q&A] 如何唔怕孤獨,愛上獨處?如何與德國女友維持較長關係?

Yo!我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊。

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Michael Yao

Hi man sir~又係我啊,我有個比較重要嘅問題問下你,

 

就係我呢有時候會怕孤獨,就係無論做啲咩都會怕自己一個人做,

 

好似無時無刻都有個人陪住先可以安心落嚟。

 

我覺得咁樣會影響到我做一個有吸引力嘅男人,我覺得我應該享受獨處,

 

但我總係會感到寂寞,

 

我已經成日對自己講,我一個人都可以生活得好好,

 

但我都會感到不安,一定要搵到個人陪我先得。

 

我想問下呢,我應該要點樣先可以唔怕孤獨,反而愛上獨處?

 

唔該曬~man sir

 

Hi Michael,

 

No matter what we do, no matter how social we are, there will be times that we feel “alone” and we have to deal with things by ourselves.

 

Part of growing up is to learn to be independent, while you’re venturing into a world of different people.

 

Let me ask you this: How old are you now? Are you the only child or do you have any siblings? What’s the relationship like with them? What’s your relationship like with your parents?

 

Thanks!

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ar stone

好多謝你肯睇我呢封email 因為我依家真係唔知點算好。

我係外國讀書,我有一個德國嘅女朋友(當然啦按照你嘅定律佢未算係我女朋友:p)

 

可能係我嘅性格問題導致,有好多時候我都好容易亂諗嘢,唔夠信心覺得佢可能會唔鍾意我對我越嚟越冇興趣。

 

我哋平時有用Snapchat傾計,當我放假嗰陣就同佢傾得最多,

 

因為我見唔到佢,好擔心佢會因為見面少咗而冇咁鍾意我。

 

Fvck that shit!!

 

冇錯我成日都咁樣同自己講覺得自己諗得太多,

 

加上自從有睇咗你啲片之後,其實好多你嘅point都講中晒我。

 

到底我應該點樣做先至可以同佢維持到一段比較長嘅關係呢?

 

希望你可以幫下我,我會盡我能力去Take action。

 

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