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Hi, man .前排無啦啦發現到你個channel，覺得講啲嘢好正，啟發我好多。(跟住落嚟好長，睇曬我會愛死你)
我依家係個Dse學生中五，好多人話我幾靚仔，但係身高唔夠170。
=> Congrats on joining the Handsome Guy Family lol
我啲大個我既男仔fd話我乸乸地，冇乜主見，做事畏首畏尾，自卑感強，覺得我成日話自己唔得做唔到，可能關我以前成日都同女仔堆玩得好埋，培養咗所謂既雌性力量。
我想講既就係曾經我鐘意過個女仔A 2年，開頭果陣時成個小學雞咁好明顯咁追佢chur佢，搞到全級都知，令佢反感。我feel到佢反感之後就冇再搵佢傾偈。
同班咗2年。無啦啦我同佢個閨蜜女仔B一次機緣巧合有計傾，傾傾下就一班fd包括女仔A一齊去萬聖節OP，之後就依家組成咗固定組合一齊出去玩。女仔A有攤過牌話唔鐘意我，叫我唔好曬時間。
然後我有同過佢第二個閨蜜女仔c曖昧過，開頭對佢冇嘢，純粹fd咁樣撩下佢。之後拖過手，挨過我，果陣時係我第一次同女仔做呢啲行為，之後就可能升溫太快，或者錯既升溫方法，太needy，搞到冇哂神秘感。但係我抽離唔到呢段曖昧關係，可能係因為第一次，直至發掘到死亡之吻果條片，就知自己做咗傻仔，學到衰乜嘢果啲。
跟住睇你啲片令我正面咗。我啲女仔朋友都話我陽光咗，包括女仔A。我同女仔A fd咗，有試過同佢1-2-1 date(抱著純FD既心態), 有同佢Snapchat儲火(佢淨係同我一個男仔儲)。
==> 儲火 doesn’t mean shit, do you think she is NOT 儲火 with other dozens of guys or girls?
正題嚟啦，有一日女仔A同佢啲閨蜜飲酒，無啦啦打電話俾我話同我講話：女仔A話如果我追多佢一年佢好大機會會受溝，問我要唔要試多次。我既答覆係 唔會。咁我唔容易同佢fd咗，又搞啲情情愛愛呢啲對呢段友情有風險既嘢。
但其實我心底裡係有啲心郁郁，但係又唔想做多次傻仔，好掙扎。
依家我Snapchat send埋啲無聊嘢，冇人會覆果啲，但係淨係得佢會有時會覆。我覺得我自己依家比嚟件事影響咗我，變唔返以前當佢純fd果種舒適感，搞到成日有時撩佢講嘢都有啲格硬嚟。我依家究竟點算好？
如果我要溝返佢(我知唔應該咁focus落一個女仔)，你教既f+c, pushpull, challenge, coldread仲有冇用？(因為呢個對象係比較熟悉既人) 唔該你
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I totally understand how you feel right now. You still like her because she says you’ve changed, and you’re hoping to 溝返佢, but you also don’t want to take risks to lose the friendship, plus you don’t want to look like a fool right?
Well, I get it. But based on your description, I have to tell you the TRUTH.
＃1 She’s fucking play you bro.
She’s trying to frame you as a typical beta loser guy who wastes time to CHASE HER, and if you TAKE IT, you are fucking done while she’s bragging with her friends how CUTE you are or even laughing at your loser behaviors.
For another year? WTF? Is she a queen? Is she your boss?
She is not giving you a chance to TRY, YOU are giving her a chance to TRY to get you.
#2 She is NOT even a fucking friend.
If she is a good friend, she won’t manipulating your emotions to suck validation from you, OR playing these mind games with you and ask you to CHASE HER MORE!
#3 No techniques/skills are going to help you because your mindset and emotional maturity are fucked up now.
– As you said, “我Snapchat send埋啲無聊嘢”, “搞到成日有時撩佢講嘢都有啲格硬嚟”don’t you have better things to do in your life?
– For 2 plus years, like an annoying fly surrounding this girl, you have been trying to get this girl to like you multiple times. What does that tell me about your level of attachment to just one person who doesn’t even respect you?
#4 My Recommendation: Cut the “friendship” you have with her. The more you spend time with her, the more TORN you are because on one hand you want her attention, but on the other hand you secretly want her to LIKE you as a lover.
This is NOT gonna happen until you cut that fucking friendship, CUT all communications, minimize all contacts, create months or a year of vacuum space, and come back with a new fresh attractive personality!