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Manson! 我有問題！
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我地所host嘅活動係咪一定要雙方都有好大興趣？
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攞個example就應該明白！
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我對唱K興趣不大，但我喜歡認識中意唱歌嘅女仔，
我係唔係姐係要be active去搞一啲follow人地其他女仔feel interested嘅活動？
定係我要再host一個brand-new嘅idea去suit自己？
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仲有另一方面嘅疑問：
我對野外活動嘅興趣好大，但係我冇法子從目前生活圈中認識有呢種興趣嘅人，我要點樣起步？
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It maybe naive but that’s my question
Thx， Alex
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Alex,
In the long term, you do want to find people with similar interests, hobbies, mindsets and passions.
That’s a more sustainable social group because neither of you are accommodating oneself to do stuff you don’t like.
Compatibility is an important element if you’re looking for something long term, especially a girlfriend.
However, in the short term where you’re training your social skills,
it’s okay to do both to allow yourself meet more new people and discover what kind of personality/character you like or not.
After a while, you’ll feel what resonates with YOU the most and have more clarity what you truly want.
P.S. Sometimes we may slowly find interest in stuff we used NOT to like.
To me, I used to HATE singing K because I didn’t like my voice.
But now, I LOVE it because I started to know how to project my voice better, and girls complimented on my singing and fun attitude lol