Man神你個Q&A好正呀！學左好多嘢！
最近想溝一個女仔，有啲野想請教，呢個女仔係IG認識，佢一開始都有邀請我參加佢同朋友嘅活動拉，不過個日就冇咩點講野，
不過wts都有keep住傾幾日，因為我見到佢冇主動搵我拉，咁我就試下唔搵佢、過幾日又真係搵返我，自從個日一齊玩完後、大家都有開個Group下次再約。
=> #1 Why didn’t you chat with her in real person? You’ve wasted your opportunity because REAL PERSON interaction is what matters.
#2 Constant Whatsapp communication afterwards, what does that communicates?
You are a boy who is afraid to talk to her in REAL PERSON, and rely on this “safe platform” to try to seduce her.
PLUS, you are overcommunicating, which means you are already in FZ.
咁到宜家，成班人都出左3-4次，仲有玩咩真心話大冒險遊戲，佢啲朋友都知我對佢有興趣，個女仔亦都話未追過點知呢？
咁我想問我係咪要開始約佢單獨出街，培養下感覺，普通出街做下啲窩心動作，盡快去行動呢？
因為佢又知我鍾意佢、佢又應該有感覺，不過我地近排都好少wts，只係有兩日佢無哪哪會問下我野，我IG回應下佢咁，不過對話都係傾一陣就斷。應該點做呢？因為知道出到街又係另一件事。
=》#1 Why the fuck her friends know you are interested in her? That’s fucked up already.
#2 Even that girl knows you like her and verbally says so?
Oh boy… that tells me that your behaviors have been too nice, too sweet…
And you even ASKS her “if you should date her?”, is that what a man do? Ask girls permission to date her!?
個女仔都算幾靜、係一啲人面前唔係咁鍾意講野，不過出到黎都講多左，而我本身亦都係比較少野講嘅人，有時就會驚諗唔到話題講呀咁，wts都講左唔少，而且之前都溝過幾個女仔、都失敗告終，令到自己每次都有啲擔心，
甚至唔知點溝一個女仔，先可以一齊到令佢鍾意自己，吸引佢，亦有好多朋友話個時間錯左，有啲野太遲講，
所以我都開始混亂，成日覺得自己可以付出好多，不過做左女仔又冇咩感覺咁，所以都開始反思緊、應該點做呢，所以希望man神可以幫下手、比啲意見 唔該你
=> 『成日覺得自己可以付出好多，不過做左女仔又冇咩感覺咁』, You are good guy with heart, but you don’t fucking understand how attraction works.
You are also a typical nice guy, who hopes to DO STUFF FOR GIRLS and logically hope she will like you.
Ok bro, I bet you haven’t watched much of my videos.
There’s so much foundational concepts you aren’t getting e.g. teasing, challenging, having FUN
My challenge to you:
If you want to understand why you fuck up, go watch my past videos on nice guys, challenging, teasing, neediness.
That’s the most urgent thing you need to do now.