溝女唯一需要學的技巧:製造張力![溝女]

Hey bro, 80% guys you’ll ever meet will tell you that having good looks, money or social status are the ONLY way to get girls.

While these factors HELP you get more INITIAL ACCESS to girls, the ability to get them genuinely attracted to you and desire you is actually JUST ONE THING: Your ability to create sexual tension.

#1 What is sexual tension? It means you can 喺女人內心製造未解決的情感張力,之後過一段時間可以釋放個種張力,之後再次重複再激發過。

#2 Do you know why most women LOVE to watch dramas/soap operas?

It’s because TV/movies/books writers know exactly how to create TENSION in their STORIES, to keep women 著迷 and they can’t help but keep watching until that TENSION is resolved in 大結局。

#3 So the structure is always the same: There’s conflict/drama at the beginning that sparks emotional tension, then T builds up until it reaches climax, then it is released by resolution (answers), and then repeat that cycle again and again.

#4 What’s the most common way to create ST? Via the notorious Push Pull.

Most girls are natural push-pull masters. On one hand they tell you they had enjoyed a fun night with you, the next day when you find her again she stops responding until maybe 3 days later and you wonder WTF happened.

OR On one hand they tell you 我唔收兵嫁,on the other hand they allow other guys to give her more attention and invest in her.

#5 So how do you use push pull ethically to attract girls? Well, as long as you are NOT using it to hurt a girl, and you keep things fun and playful, women would LOVE that you are creating these DESIRE feelings for her.

Classic E.g. When you’re flirting with her, you can say “Wow, I like the way you smile. It’s very attractive and makes me happy.” (PULL) …

Then after she says thank you, you can say “You’re welcome, that’s actually the 3rd best smile i’ve ever seen in my life. Let me call you 小三 from now on :D” (PUSH)

When you do this, most girls will find this funny and hit your arm to release her feeling of ST.


#6 So the main lesson is that if you want to attract more girls, you have to be able to create sexual tension for her to FEEL attraction.

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