Yo brother, what is your favorite “opener”? What pickup lines do you find most effective?
If you are now researching for the best opener, OR do have a best opener, I guarantee you aren’t being the most attractive version of yourself.
Why? Because the best way to “open” a girl is NOT about “opener”;
And if you look for openers, you are focusing on the wrong thing.
What should be focus on? Great question, we should focus on getting her ATTENTION.
When you want to approach a girl, DON”T think how should I open this girl.
Instead, think “how can I get her attention?”
E.g. You want to stop a “moving girl”?
-> Tap her shoulder/grab her arm/step in front of her to GET HER ATTENTION
E.g. How to open girls in“mixed set”?
-> Tap her shoulder & get her attention, OR be polite to blend in with her friends first to indirectly get her attention UNLESS they don’t want to
Can you see how you are over-complicating the 開場白 thing when you focus too much on the WORDS YOU SAY, and forget the real purpose of getting her ATTENTION in the first 5-10 seconds?
So stop asking for the right openers, start getting HER ATTENTION in whatever creative ways you can and go from there!