Bro, if you have been watching MTFU’s videos and studying our free content, you should understand that sexual desire and love are 2 different powerful emotions.
Without sexual desire, women won’t genuinely want to fuck you even if she stays with you.
Without love, some women will continue sleeping with you even when you are an asshole that hurts her.
So when you understand that this human dilemma that we both want separateness to feel aroused and closeness to feel love, how can we make a woman become obsessed with us ethically?
#1 Firstly, let’s revise this core concept:
If you want her feel aroused, you must master creating sexual tension.
ST is the magic ingredient when she feels both excitement and fear when she is with you, because she knows that you are a potential mate.
So that primal sexual excitement will make her want to get fvcked by you to allow her to reproduce.
So your job as a man is to grow that ST until she can’t resist that feeling of lust.
#2 As long as you intend to leave her better than you found her, how can you truly make her fall for you?
Well, once you have made her feel attracted & aroused, you need to create OBSTACLES for her to truly fall in love with you!
Why?
Because in every romance novel women are addicted to, the storyline is ALWAYS that the woman overcome obstacles to find, win the heart of, and marry the ONE MAN who is right for her!
If you want a girl addicted to you,
it is your duty to create difficulties/ challenges/ uncertainties for her to overcome even when she feels attraction to you.
#3 Why do Romeo and Juliet/Titanic/梁山伯與祝英台/嫦娥與后羿 are the most romantic stories in human history?
It is because there are OBSTACLES, challenges between the man and the woman that prevent them to be together, and women WANT THAT kind of story in their lives!
The point is if you can create a context in which the girl put more effort to win you over,
she will naturally justify herself that she likes you and she will slowly fall in love with you, as long as you maintain that arousal and attraction.
Obstacle is the way.
The Q is are you being that challenging yet attainable guy or are you being too easy?