Hey bro, have you tried to get sexual with a girl but she finds your behaviors creepy or even offensive?
Or are you too good that girls call you player and they are hesitant about your intention and start to back off a bit because you come off too strong?
#1 If your escalation fails, it often means that you’re doing it at the wrong time. It’s because if you escalate randomly, women may conclude that you probably do these moves to every girl with minimum attractiveness, and she may label you as 狗公。
So even if she is attracted to you, if you show sexual interest no matter what she does/says, she will feel that you just want to fuck any hot-enough girl who accepts your offer.
#2 So how do you solve this dilemma of “you must escalate” but “you don’t want her to label you as a creepy 狗公”?
Well, it’s easy. All you need to do is to only escalate/show more sexual desire when her ACTIONS/BEHAVIORS show her uniqueness/personality as a human being.
When girls feel that you actually like her as an unique individual, instead of feeling that “she is just one of the girls you attempt to fuck”, then she will feel more comfortable with your sexual escalation.
#3 E.g. When a girl is being rude/impolite/cold/allof, and you still try to ESCALATE and show your sexual desire, that only means you just want to fuck any girls you can.
However, if a girl shares a funny story about herself, if she does favors for you without you asking, if she dresses sexy for you during dates, then it is a good timing to escalate.
#4 Simply said, you should only sexually escalate on girls who TRULY DESERVE it. When your standard of women is higher than “she is hot, she has pussy, so I must fuck”, then your sexual escalation will be much more effective and women will react more positively to you.