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Jacky W: 你好！我最近同女朋友分左手，我好想挽留她，但她的性格比較任性，或者我在她身上沒吸引力了。她話唔想在比任何野束博，她覺得拍拖會阻住她做不到她想做的野。
其實我對她很好，她好鍾意周圍玩，她怕我對她太好會得寸進尺hurt到我，所以分左手，我想問還可以挽留她嗎？
＃1 You can NEVER force a woman to stay in a r/p. If she doesn’t want to stay in your world, let her go. Be totally OPEN and always let them have options to leave.
That’s the most contradictory way to KEEP a girl who has genuine desire with you.
#2 Stop making women like you, start making them RESPECT you. Women don’t always fvck a guy they like, but they always fvck guys they RESPECT.
The real reason you FAIL is because you ONLY treat her well, and I bet you treat her well even when she did nothing to EARN IT or DESERVE IT.
From now on, if you ONLY treat women well when they have earned it,
AND if you only choose women who OBEYS to your rules/boundaries, I guarantee you will be able keep most quality women.
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Gag L：你好!Man神，我呢排就透過ig page到識到幾個女仔，但係問題就係交換到電話傾左幾句之後，就吾知講咩好，因為我又吾想好似見工甘係甘問佢問題，所以對於一個未見過既女仔可以講啲咩吾會令到佢反感呢? 令到佢更加會對我有興趣而會出黎我?感謝.
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Purpose of meeting girls online/real person and getting their # is to get her out on a quick date to see if you two vibe and meets your standards.
So once you have some basic info about her, and she seems interested in you, then you gotta get her out for a quick short coffee or drink.
You’ve not met her yet, you don’t know what she is like in real person, doesn’t make sense to waste time chatting because you IMAGINE she is cool.
So after a few exchanges of whatsapp, you’re teasing her and making her laugh, then seed for date by asking if she likes XYZ or not.
Regardless, invite her out and you will see if she REALLY is interested in you.
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Ken K: Manson 上個月 我同一個拍左拖一個月既女生分左手 因為我經常唔信任佢 管住佢, 仲有我同佢一齊既時候唔會拒絕其他女仔同我傾計。
–> That’s good. If she is not entering your world and accepting your rules. She is gone. No girls is worth changing yourself for her.
分手之後，我仲可以做佢既朋友，但係我之後因為我嘈住佢，佢都對我好冷淡。
—> Wrong move. Stop being friends with girls, they don’t deserve your attention. Ignore girls who are NOT giving you want you want.
之後佢就將我block左 但我依家仲有聯絡方法可以聯絡佢(例如IG) 但搵佢既時候佢會已讀唔覆我
—> Told you. IGNORE HER. You are LOSING
所以我都冇chur住佢 但係我依家都仲係好鍾意佢 好愛佢，真係很想佢繼續做我女朋友。我應該點做先可以令佢做番我女朋友呢 係咪應該要製造真空期 (但我平時番學都會見到佢 雖然唔同form) 唔該manson幫下我 pls
—> That’s not fucking love, that’s neediness. And you say you like her BECAUSE the reality is that you DON’T have other girls as options.
What you do is to COMPLETELY IGNORE HER and DISAPPEAR, get OTHER girls, get her jealous, let her finds you again, give her minimal attention UNLESS she obeys, and you will WIN the battle.
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