Yo! 我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊,歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp,
協助你成為一個更有力量,更有吸引力,更有影響力嘅現代雄性男人,創造你想要嘅夢想帝國。
好耐都冇同大家講過溝女Q&A,雖然每日都收到巴打嘅問題,
不過好耐都冇分享過出嚟,所以今日就整番一條溝女Q&A送畀大家。
不過今日呢條溝女Q&A比較特別,
因為呢位阿D嘅巴打係講英文嘅,不過我之後會用番中文為大家解答。
巴打阿D就同我講:
『Man,Quick advice needed. I was texting a girl.
And everything was awesome.
And I was telling her that even though I am helping her, she owes me an ice tea.
中文翻譯…
But she didn’t come online for like a day.
I checked right now and she was online but my guess is my message got buried in the load of messages a girl gets.
So should I text her something or should I drop it?』
中文翻譯…
之後佢再補充:
『We use WhatsApp. She has a test on Monday. She’s a classmate.
The one thing that worries me is that I’m actually giving a fvck that she isn’t replying.
I’m being needy here. That’s an issue too. 』
中文翻譯…
我嘅回覆:
『You’re right bro, the behavior of “needing her to always respond” is needy.
Yet, such feeling is just an indicator that you haven’t built an active social life + haven’t had an inspiring mission that excites you.
So I’d say:
#1 Create a life that’s passionate for yourself
#2 Be social, meet new people weekly, so that you don’t overweight the importance of one tiny interaction.』
中文翻譯…
#1 創造一個你無女都熱愛嘅lifestyle
#2 每星期keep住認識新朋友
希望今集幫到你!