Book Ref:
#1 永遠以猜疑眼光看待世界
These ppl are always full of suspicions. They think ppl are trying to harm him.
So when they interact with you, they want you to listen and VALIDATE his/her beliefs／信仰, and when you don’t, they suspect you are a threat as well.
They may be quiet/reserved/shy, but they can also be loud/好勇鬥狠，they may show up in demonstrations and become violent e.g. damage cars & properties.
Again, what drives them is irrational fear/毫無理性嘅恐懼。To Tthem，高度仇恨與恐懼，就係令生命有意義同目標。
#2 疑神疑鬼，怕東怕西，遮遮掩掩
因為極度猜疑，所以會毫無根據地監控別人言行舉止，衡量對方是否有邪惡意圖。
他們社交上十分怠慢，喜歡保持神秘，不願透露自己的事，甚至說謊掩飾自己行蹤與真實意圖，連家人都不相信。
They can fear anything e.g. ppl from certain countries/ethnicity, food source, neighbor, animals, technology, government, boss, new colleague, insurance company, emails etc.
因為多疑，他們甚至會記錄其他人的行蹤，或者製造敵人名單去保護自己。
＃3 堅持己見，好勝爭論
健全健康嘅人 -> 可以適應新情況，擁抱新觀念，因環境改變，可以理解別人不同的立場與信念
Paranoid -> 不理會邏輯與實證，只會憑自己的洞察力去爭論；When you disagree, you are an enemy
選擇性扭曲歷史，將無關事件和想法串埋一齊，塑造自己觀點，理直氣壯同你拗。
Dangerous distorted beliefs:
E.g. If I kill enough scientists, I’ll stop the advance of technology.
E.g. 拉登 “If I kill enough Americans, the US will leave the Middle East.”
#4 難以平復舊傷患，好記仇
會狠狠記住過去的傷痛，你任何的無心之失，就算惡意，佢都會覺得你留下污點，缺乏忠誠嘅指標，不會原諒你。
當你成為敵人，佢就會理直氣壯採取行動：避開你，背後暗算你，密謀反對你，破壞摧毀屬於你嘅嘢，甚至殺害你。
So these paranoids 一點一滴收集舊傷患，然後利用呢啲材料為報仇藉口。
E.g. Laden used 十一世紀十字軍東征，合理化911
E.g. Hitler used 2000年前嘅猶太人嘅歷史傷口，作為報仇。
Next week,
We’ll talk about the 關鍵字 + how they affect us.