If you have ever been FZed, you know how painful it is.
You are always with her, observing her, admiring her BUT she just never sees you as a sexual guy she wants to fuck or get together with.
Today, let’s explore the 5 common reasons WHY you are in this no sex zone and end up being an emotional tampon for her.
#1 Because you are operating as her little FAN!
What does fan do? They closely monitor every single move their idol do, and always following their 一舉一動。
If you are secretly observe her social media activity, liking her stuff, commenting her stuff, DMing her stuff, can you see WHY you are putting yourself in the FZ by being 1 of the 1000s admirer in her fan club that she is never going to fuck?
#2 Because you are like a fucking 招財貓！What does a 招財貓 do？It fucking nods its head!
If you agree with whatever the fuck she says, if you pretend you LIKE everything she likes/does, if you NEVER express your real raw personality that might offend her, can you see WHY she just can’t feel attraction to you?
#3 Because you are predictable as fuck like a boring movie!
No one wants to watch a movie if they already know the storyline, climax & ending.
So if you are so scared of “making the wrong move” and just do “whatever that please her”, you have to understand that your behaviors are so predictable that she is BORED by you.
And in a girl’s dictionary, boring = legs closed & dry = FZ you!
#4 Because you are buying her gifts like a fucking father.
You think a sudden gift is a romantic surprise? You think showing how 關心/細心 you are and rewarding her even though she did no shit to earn it is attractive?
Well, kindness is NEVER going to make her wet, otherwise girls will want to fuck the Buddha!
#5 Because you try to be a 白馬王子去拯救佢！
I know it’s deep in a man’s psychology to protect women.
But if you do these “saving acts” hoping she will see you as a 紳士勇士, if you always ready to listen to her problems,
if you jump on every opportunity to SAVE HER, I guarantee you will become a nice gay friend she THANKS but never feel the arousal to fuck.
So are you now in the FZ?
Great, it’s because YOU have put yourself in such submissive role as a friend, YOU purposefully hide your sexual desire,
YOU overvaluing her interests/opinions/ideas/problems/self-esteem while undervaluing your value as a man.
So tell me: Who is to blame when you find yourself in a FZ?