點解你溝女升溫唔到?因為你忘記咗第一步![溝女]

We have talked a lot about escalation the past 2 days, and now you should understand that you can do it verbally, physically or through the VIBE you create.

However, before you do any technical aspects of escalation, do you know there is ONE thing you must first “do” in order to make things work?

#1 Well, that ONE thing is you being comfortable to FEEL your genuine sexual desire for her.

The best escalation always starts from the genuine sexual desire that you FEEL inside you.

If deep down in your heart, you can’t FEEL that SEXUAL ENERGY and you just do all the physical/verbal technique, things will feel 不一致/不誠實/虛偽  to her.

#2 One mistake most guys make is to try to REPRESS that sexual energy around her. If you do that because of shame, women can feel the awkwardness and think you are creepy…  just like a nerd secretly watching AV at home and admiring his Goddess. lol

Another common mistake is that you keep giving off sexual energy to her WITHOUT OBSERVING whether she is receptive to that. If you makes her feel too uncomfortable, you become creepy like a rapist too.

#3 The point is that once a girl is attracted to you, you have to slowly dial up your sexual energy when she is nearby.

And as we said before, the first step is to FEEL THAT sexual energy inside you.

When you can feel it, then use your eye contact, slower facial expression, deeper vocal tonality to express it while be aware of her receptiveness towards your sexual energy.

If she’s loving it, continue to do that. If she is stepping back, you should take a step back, wait for a few mins, and try again later.

If you can do everything I said here and from the previous videos, escalation shall never be a problem for you again!