點令女友忠誠於自己?+ 應否讀大學?【溝女人生Q&A】

Not sure if you notice, I have not done 溝女Q&A series for almost 7 months because I was so busy in helping my private clients and students in MTFU Insider.

We had a lot of fun in our weekly trainings, our coaching calls and FB interactions. And I love to see how they are kicking ass in their personal life, professional life and love life.

So if you want such 360 degrees support and live interaction with me, you should join our elite Insider family.

Anyway, I’ve decided to do some charity work, by answering a few short easy Qs or 1 quality Q per week – whether I got it in YT, IG or emails.

These answer I give you will NOT be as detailed/intimate/comprehensive as those I do for Insiders. Because we won’t have any live interactions to clarify your points, and I can only give you pointers on the direction you needa go.

If you like this kind help, please LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to support MTFU’s channel growth.

If you really want to send Qs to me, make them as SHORT as possible (50-100 words) otherwise they are too long for me to read.

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Yi Myth  處景題:女朋友問我鍾意佢d咩 我點答好?

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#1 Why is such a difficult Q to answer? Why would such Q even bother you?

This implies your lack of frame in your relationship and I suspect you are leading the relationship at all, OR whether you had actually fvcked her at all.

#2 If this truly happens, you can do it playfully, “That’s a really good Q. Let me take some time to think about it, what do you like about me then?”

-> This implies you aren’t even thinking about WHY you like her, meaning you aren’t that serious beta longing for a bf/gf r/p, and letting her qualify you.

But also, if she really really loves you, if she is complying to every request you make during the r/p, if she has PROVEN her worthiness as a gf, then you can give her some truth on WHY you like her.

-> Tell her the external + internal QUALITIES you like about her (e.g. I like how hot you are when you dress like this, I like how obedient and loyal you are to me, I like you take care of your health and body, I like how we fvck each other every time, I like the way you suck my coack). Reinforce the behaviors you like so she continues doing those.

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Andre L: man son 其實我地都交流過好多次 經過你一連串video教學同問題解答 係溝女方面雖然唔夠你咁厲害 但都足以ko百分之80既男人 係呢度真係首先多謝你先

問題來喇 好多人dse畢業都係18歲 順順利利嗰d即刻升大學 呢一大片人可以係22-26畢業然後平穩感過一生 但亦有好多人冇咁順利 有時因為好多因素 去到20出頭甚至係20幾歲先入到 而仲應唔應該去讀?係黃金時間比人地少左幾年 代表住儲首期 儲銀帳戶裡面既數字既時間亦都會比人少好多甚至係冇時間(現今香港呢d功利主義社會30歲人冇錢比首期 冇錢結婚都比人標籤成loser)係感既情況下應該如何自救?thank for your reading and explain i am A

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#1 Yes, most “grade A-B” students can get a good job and 平穩過一生. But to me, their trap is settle into the predetermined life “normal job, normal wife, marriage, kids, retirement, die”. If you want that, that’s fine. But MTFU is about being the Top 1% and getting the BEST you want, so average/mediocrity is NOT our goals.

#2 Whether you should get into Uni depends on what you wanna do in life. If you want to be a professional (doctor/lawyer/accountant/engineer), then YES you need those qualifications. If NOT, I don’t see the value of wasting 4 years of time and money getting a certification, then get a mediocre job repaying debts.

Everyone has different risks tolerant, I would choose to build my own path based on my strengths, but no everyone is destined for entrepreneurship, so you need to consider your own situation.

#3 So fucking what if ppl labels you are loser? Are you really living your life according to their terms? You live because you beg for their approvals?

Fvck that. Find your own path, do things that make you happy, fvck the social norm of what’s acceptable/normal/safe path.

What do you fucking want? How can you add value to people life in exchange of money? What can you learn to increase your personal value in the marketplace? What skills do you have?

Answer these questions and you’ll know how to make money in your unique way instead of only relying on a company or JOB. (although they can be a platform to start with)
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